Found out last night that my homie's son came from a surrogate.

[Billie Jean]

Wtf kind of Black women dudes fukk with where they cant find any that are "motherly"?

I got 4 sons. 2 with my ex-wife, 2 with my current wife.

Never once did I have any concern with them when it came to help raising sons.

4 sons U want a daughter?

 

[HARLEM AL]

This is what a lot of well off men are going to have to do. Having kids in this environment is dangerous for them.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

4 sons U want a daughter?

My wife did. I told her both times it would be a boy. 2016 was our last time tryin'. When the doctor pulled the baby out and raised it up for us to see, i was like "told you"

 

[Dre God]

Modern Black women born after 85 are incapable of raising well rounded sons.

Your friend sounds smart OP.

 

[PortCityProphet]

No funny shyt, u be talkin bout how u short. U could get ya bread up and get a surrogate wit a tall mother and breed a respectable size baby

Damn respectable size he gon be whatever he gon be and learn to live with it and love himself.
It makes ya strong.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I’ve recently had to come to grips wit part of the reason my mindset is the way it is about women is cuz of the way I viewed the woman I grew up wit

I hope you’re able to unpack that realization and view women in a way different from what the woman in ya family showed you (if it was a negative experience)

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

Your homeboy is a single mom wooow.


Willingly. Woooooow.

 

[moorfeus]

Its weird. Cac-level shyt.
Why not just get with a woman you're compatible with, marry her and raise your together. Nobody wants to be the child of a surrogate.

 

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

Raising a kid solo with no women around lowkey sounds like a nightmare

My late uncle and my cousin (his son) did it. They didn't have surrogates but were the custodial parents.

I think Hill Harper used a surrogate. There's a dude at my old job who used a surrogate for his late wife's eggs. They got lucky and had time to harvest her eggs before her hysterectomy.

 

[CarbonBraddock]

need to put some indents in that mufukkin paragraph

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I can understand rich men like Ronaldo doing this but doing it to not deal with coparenting is Lowkey selfish

 

[CarbonBraddock]

This the shyt I wanna do.
I just need a mini me to carry on my name. I dont care bout love or companionship and don't wanna deal with a baby mamma and all that that entails.
I just need someone to loan me some eggs.

Ya boy did it the smart way.

Idk about all his hate towards black women he need to get that worked out but other than that I agree with what he did and I dont think it should be looked at as weird. Its bout to be the future.

Howd he do it? Enquiring minds wanna know

how quickly do you need these eggs and do they need to be 'farm-fresh?'

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Raising a kid solo with no women around lowkey sounds like a nightmare

Yea, I would say the first 24 months gotta be rough (don't know). After that it seems all uphill.

 

[UpAndComing]

What alot of people overlook is that there is a HIGH risk of men losing their kids in America. No one wants to talk about it, because men's rights mean little to anyone, so no one cares. But it is very very easy for a man to lose his kids to from Divorce and Child custody, making the women automatically getting the child no questions asked. The mother would have to be a damn near crackhead or you would have to get a very expensive lawyer for the man to get custody

Women are known to use children as their pawns. If you're only allowed to see your child 4 times a month, that is essentially losing your child. Lets not play the semantics game

Can't lie, I been thinking about it

 

[Spence]

I couldn’t imagine being a single dad, I’m sure I would go crazy with the shyt my wife deals with raising my two kids. That said I can see the reasoning behind the decision. He doesn’t want any fkn drama and might not be a good bf/husband but wanted to be a dad which is def 2 diff things. Will be interesting to se if he does find a suitable mate to be a step mom to his boy though, it’s kind of working in reverse of most men stepping into stepdad duties lol.