My homie has a 4 year old son, and none of us has ever met the kids mom. In fact, everytime we asked, he would say that she didn't want the baby and gave him full custody. And nobody ever questioned it because it aint our business but bytches dont be giving up full custody ever. Last night we were all drinking, and he came out and told us that his baby boy came from a surrogate mother. he said he wanted a son really bad but had a bad relationship with his mother and doesn't trust black women with raising black kids or being partners despite wanting black kids, and his son is full black, not mixed. He said he aint want the headache of a BM and that he had no plans on getting married. This is one of the weirdest things I've ever heard. And its crazy cause when he posted the baby on his story/IG when it happened, it was just him holding the baby and no woman in sight but I aint never even asked. And then there was the thought that bro could just be gay, but I know he not cause we done threw alley oops to eachother and the two bytches I know who fukked him hit me up periodically to ask me about him so I know it aint that. Also I, and we as black men gotta stop assuming every time a nikka do something out of the ordinary its "gay" and I had to check myself for even having that thought.
Is this what we on now? I don't think I ever thought about it, and I never considered it? Is it better to raise a son on your own? would you consider it?
atleast you checked yourself
