Ummmm- you calling them losers from an emotional perspective isn’t helping. Banning him but letting the “ho section” of the coli say whatever the f they want is not a good look either. I’m not the one that needs to be in a debate about this, I’ve said my peace. Im just trying to figure out why you’re so heated about it, when you can actually control the content and topics that get pushed.What does any of this have to do with loser niccas saying they can’t get black women because black women ONLY want thugs and criminals? This is a flat out lie
As a black woman, I can speak for myself, and have. Most of us can separate facts from fiction -
These threads have been pushed since 2019 and just now it’s a problem? Like how?THIS.
Don't know why everything has to be so extreme with the labels - there is no strict definition. I've seen some of the "nicest" dudes flip and spazz out, turn into a pure demon when tested, depending on the circumstances. Then all of a sudden, women who weren't checking for them before, now have some weird sense of attraction to them. Reverse that - same with the "thug" type of dudes that have this perception of being thorough, turn bytch when confronted - then he starts getting clowned and his rep is not what it was. Bottom line - just be yourself. If you have redeemable qualities - than you'll attract the same. The problem is people not having discernment or falling for the okey doke, being gullible or weak-minded.
THIS.
Don't know why everything has to be so extreme with the labels - there is no strict definition. I've seen some of the "nicest" dudes flip and spazz out, turn into a pure demon when tested, depending on the circumstances. Then all of a sudden, women who weren't checking for them before, now have some weird sense of attraction to them. Reverse that - same with the "thug" type of dudes that have this perception of being thorough, turn bytch when confronted - then he starts getting clowned and his rep is not what it was. Bottom line - just be yourself. If you have redeemable qualities - than you'll attract the same. The problem is people not having discernment or falling for the okey doke, being gullible or weak-minded.
There is the concept of a nice "thug", from my experience. Dudes who like to be perceived a certain way 'in the streets', but at home or in their personal lives- they have those intrinsic "nice guy" qualities. There's layers to this - a multifaceted man with a multi-dimensional personality.
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