From personal experience it's not possible to be ambitious and fall in love

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That shyt only exist in movies. Because in order to achieve your goals you'll automatically lose your humanity by default and become very cold and jaded.

You'll be forever lonely in your on little bubble. In order to achieve an goal, you have to be so focused that people can't even exist to u anymore. They must become objects.

Relationships, love and that other shyt can't be on your mind, because it's a distraction and a weakness. There is a yin and yang to everything. I order to gain alot in one area, you have to lose alot in another.

From my experience a guy like me is already to mentally damaged to form a healthy long term relationship. It is is what it is. Atleast I know, that's because I self reflect alot. I've came to the conclusion, Im into deep anyway so fukk it, why not become the best at my craft and just die when it's time to die?

What's wrong with that? Not everybody was meant to have a family and lots of children. Maybe god put me on the earth as a messager, and my goal is to spread his message and die.
 

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Love can create ambition though. You can meet someone and should meet someone that makes you want to do better.

My dude told me once that if your girl just makes you want to sit home and play 2K in your free time then you with the wrong girl.
 

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:francis: lot of broken logic in this one X....life isn't all or nothing, one or the other like this. Too much black and white thinking here.
Naw P, it sound bleak but it's the truth...u can only have one

Either u can be mediocre and happy or successful and miserable....that's life on earth

It's all good though, it is what it is
 

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It really depend on the woman. The right woman who you are in love with cab make you shoot for the stars, but you will also want to spend whatever free time you have with her :mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry: But those women are unicorns and movie status:to:
 

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Love can create ambition though. You can meet someone and should meet someone that makes you want to do better.

My dude told me once that if your girl just makes you want to sit home and play 2K in your free time then you with the wrong girl.
It could but usually it doesn't. Mostly they become comfortable, happy and content. That hunger and drive is taken out of them. I've seen this happen personally to people I know.
 
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meet the right woman and your luck could change and everything starts to be on the up and up. Don't be so negative brehs.
 

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Love can create ambition though. You can meet someone and should meet someone that makes you want to do better.

My dude told me once that if your girl just makes you want to sit home and play 2K in your free time then you with the wrong girl.

This is true. I remember the first girl I was with, she made me want to gain the world.
 

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Agreed OP word for word

Props to those who are capable but im not

bytches or Success its not the same
 

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It could but usually it doesn't. Mostly they become comfortable, happy and content. That hunger and drive is taken out of them. I've seen this happen personally to people I know.
Its happened first hand and Ive seen what "love" does to my friends

It gets you so wrapped up in the comfort of the whole situation you become vulnerable under your watch without you even knowing

shyt happened to my coworker after he married last year now he works the Eights and doesnt workout

I cant have a bytch in my life obstacilizing the gym, work, or my paper stacking
 
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