From personal experience it's not possible to be ambitious and fall in love

[The Mad Titan]

Kind of true, unless you both have the same vision and ambition its almost impossible.


It also depends on how ambitious we talking.


My ambition is simply to provide a happy, positive loving stable environment for my wife and family. That is conducive with falling in love.

 

[BezO]

That shyt only exist in movies. Because in order to achieve your goals you'll automatically lose your humanity by default and become very cold and jaded.

You'll be forever lonely in your on little bubble. In order to achieve an goal, you have to be so focused that people can't even exist to u anymore. They must become objects.

Relationships, love and that other shyt can't be on your mind, because it's a distraction and a weakness. There is a yin and yang to everything. I order to gain alot in one area, you have to lose alot in another.

From my experience a guy like me is already to mentally damaged to form a healthy long term relationship. It is is what it is. Atleast I know, that's because I self reflect alot. I've came to the conclusion, Im into deep anyway so fukk it, why not become the best at my craft and just die when it's time to die?

What's wrong with that? Not everybody was meant to have a family and lots of children. Maybe god put me on the earth as a messager, and my goal is to spread his message and die.

Or your partner could also inspire & contribute.

There is a yin & a yang, but it's not gain vs loss. It's balance... financ, family, fun, education, experience, creation, etc.

I'm sure you can come back from whatever it is that you believe keeps you from bein' balanced.

You're here to do whatever you choose to do. Take more control & responsibility rather than justifyin' via destiny.

 

[DrX]

Or your partner could also inspire & contribute.

There is a yin & a yang, but it's not gain vs loss. It's balance... financ, family, fun, education, experience, creation, etc.

I'm sure you can come back from whatever it is that you believe keeps you from bein' balanced.

You're here to do whatever you choose to do. Take more control & responsibility rather than justifyin' via destiny.

naw bro, cant have both, its either all or nothing

that is simply reality, u think Genghis khan ever was in love?

 

[BezO]

naw bro, cant have both, its either all or nothing

that is simply reality, u think Genghis khan ever was in love?

Your reality is yours. Do with it what you will, and I'll keep workin' on mine.

I haven't studied Genghis Khan, but there are in love, successful men all over the planet. What of today's leaders & big businessmen? What do you believe they're they missin'?

 

[ShenJingPoQi]

DrX with another GOAT harsh stories of reality thread

The most successful men in life majority of occasions are ruthless narcissistic sociopath who are void of happiness, love, empathy and only EVER use other humans for ulterior motives. These men will do anything necessary to obtain their goal, every single thing else is an obstacle including love. The pleasure is outcome for them not the journey.

Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Jordan, Kobe, Woods, Armstrong, Marion Jones, Saddam, Hitler, Mao, Schwarzenegger, Newton, Edison, Genghis Khan, Alexander the Great and so on, the list is plentiful.