Fukk Being Alpha, its All About Being A Sigma Male Now!

KidJSoul

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Y'all read way, way too much into these things.

Be normal, funny, and have hobbies. That's all there is too it
Eh, advice like that is part of what puts guys in position to where they start watching shyt like this.

For most people, "Be normal, funny, and hobbies" only works if you have other stuff going for you (confident, good social skills, kinda attractive or not ugly). You might meet that 1 person that has common interests with you, occasionally, but options are limited.

It's basically the issue with modern dating advice in a nutshell. It assumes that you already have other stuff going for you, and just need a few fixes: this is because humans in general are not good on picking up the subtle things that make up the whole. It's also why we are bad at predicting things sometimes or ignore red flags in relationships.

The reality @Ezekiel 25:17 is that a lot of people - especially nowadays are raised never being taught how to have sex appeal. Part of this is an unfortunate consequence of us not trying to force people into gender roles - a lotta people don't know how to be sexy to the opposite sex. So those who are naturally confident or sociable have a easier time naturally developing attractive traits without realizing it, while those who are not naturally confident or sociable suffer - especially in today's sedentary, internet-heavy world that gives less opportunity for practicing socialization.

there's a reason why these issues started in the last 20 years, as that's when our modern lifestyles and cultural shifts started :manny:
 

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Eh, advice like that is part of what puts guys in position to where they start watching shyt like this.

For most people, "Be normal, funny, and hobbies" only works if you have other stuff going for you (confident, good social skills, kinda attractive or not ugly). You might meet that 1 person that has common interests with you, occasionally, but options are limited.

It's basically the issue with modern dating advice in a nutshell. It assumes that you already have other stuff going for you, and just need a few fixes: this is because humans in general are not good on picking up the subtle things that make up the whole. It's also why we are bad at predicting things sometimes or ignore red flags in relationships.

The reality @Ezekiel 25:17 is that a lot of people - especially nowadays are raised never being taught how to have sex appeal. So those who are naturally confident or sociable have a easier time naturally developing attractive traits without realizing it, while those who are not naturally confident or sociable suffer - especially in today's sedentary, internet-heavy world that gives less opportunity for practicing socialization.

I agree with this 100%.

How many dads are teaching their sons how to be attractive and confident and bag women? Cuz all dads should be teaching all sons this because its useful information.

Instead its just kinda like "they'll figure out it on the interent"

Nah.. the internet will teach them how to be Sigma Males... cant trust the internet for this job
 

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you know what's wild

I don't recall my pops ever teaching me how to "get women"

but moreso how to conduct myself around them

but if anything he did stress was the importance of being comfortable with ones self

which is why despite me cracking jokes and riding on them the way I do

I could've easily been them

but I was also the class clown and knew how to make people feel apart of the circle, so maybe I'm an anomaly in that regard

I agree with this 100%.

How many dads are teaching their sons how to be attractive and confident and bag women? Cuz all dads should be teaching all sons this because its useful information.

Instead its just kinda like "they'll figure out it on the interent"

Nah.. the internet will teach them how to be Sigma Males... cant trust the internet for this job
 

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Naw, I think it low key is for a lot of dudes, and it’s mainly a confidence issue. That’s why it’s a market for this type of shyt. It ain’t like I never took no Ls and ain’t had to learn from experience myself, but literally to look at another man on YouTube for advice for women is beneath me lol. Like I couldn’t imagine. But that’s cause I got confidence. Hell I got irrational confidence. These hoes can’t tell me shyt for real. I’m that nikka, not you bytch. But a lot of dudes are straight up lacking confidence and constantly putting woman on pedestals, and they scare themselves out the game, then get frustrated. All this internet shyt is unnecessary. Dudes just need to link with they cool cousin or uncle and soak up some real game
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I agree with this 100%.

How many dads are teaching their sons how to be attractive and confident and bag women? Cuz all dads should be teaching all sons this because its useful information.

Instead its just kinda like "they'll figure out it on the interent"

Nah.. the internet will teach them how to be Sigma Males... cant trust the internet for this job

I feel like WAY LESS dads before 20 years allowed their sons to spend all day indoors playing video games. And I feel like they would NEVER allow them to spend money on OnlyFans.

We criticized it for "forcing rigid gender roles", but shyt, don't throw something out if you don't have a replacement for it yet!
 

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Dudes proclaim being alpha because they may walk around with their chest poked out, or they may speak in a loud “look at me” manner, or they may belittle people on the low, or they may be rich and well educated. NONE of that makes you an alpha, you could be a loud, well educated, bullish, cock diesel, rich PUCCY! None of those attributes makes an alpha male.

An alpha male would never answer the question, “Are you an alpha or beta?”, because that’s an absurd question that betas are quick to answer.

True alpha males make men feel insecure with their mere presence alone. But in a quiet respectable way. And alpha males are apt to get into situations because another INsecure man wants to show that he’s “stronger” than you, or even “smarter” than you. Men don’t want their women around alpha males at work, because they’re not alphas and they feel threatened. An alpha male walks with a sense of calm and projects confidence in his speech. Also, alpha males treats people with equal respect and will check anyone who disrespects. An alpha doesn’t say he’s an alpha, others will tell or show.
There’s more examples but this is cool.
 
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Naw, I think it low key is for a lot of dudes, and it’s mainly a confidence issue. That’s why it’s a market for this type of shyt. It ain’t like I never took no Ls and ain’t had to learn from experience myself, but literally to look at another man on YouTube for advice for women is beneath me lol. Like I couldn’t imagine. But that’s cause I got confidence. Hell I got irrational confidence. These hoes can’t tell me shyt for real. I’m that nikka, not you bytch. But a lot of dudes are straight up lacking confidence and constantly putting woman on pedestals, and they scare themselves out the game, then get frustrated. All this internet shyt is unnecessary. Dudes just need to link with they cool cousin or uncle and soak up some real game
It could also be a hormone thing. Testosterone builds aggresiveness and confidence, and men nowadays have less than men in the past.
 

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Its over,we have been Europeanized,we have been assimilated:francis:

Black culture was once strong enough to fight the brainwashing and programming,but not anymore.
the assimilation started in the 60s, everything after is things happening as designed. Internet more so just gives you a platform to view the magnitude
 
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