When I was in the detention center only the white boys were calling themselves alphas and betas. We wasnt saying thay shyt its weird.
Y'all read way, way too much into these things.
Be normal, funny, and have hobbies. That's all there is too it
Is it really THAT difficult to get a woman?
All these tactics, techniques, philosophies
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You always had that confidence? Any tips on how to develop it? Other than the male relative thing - that’s not an option for me.Naw, I think it low key is for a lot of dudes, and it’s mainly a confidence issue. That’s why it’s a market for this type of shyt. It ain’t like I never took no Ls and ain’t had to learn from experience myself, but literally to look at another man on YouTube for advice for women is beneath me lol. Like I couldn’t imagine. But that’s cause I got confidence. Hell I got irrational confidence. These hoes can’t tell me shyt for real. I’m that nikka, not you bytch. But a lot of dudes are straight up lacking confidence and constantly putting woman on pedestals, and they scare themselves out the game, then get frustrated. All this internet shyt is unnecessary. Dudes just need to link with they cool cousin or uncle and soak up some real game
Elaborate bc im currently one of those internet generation brehs who never developed thisEh, advice like that is part of what puts guys in position to where they start watching shyt like this.
For most people, "Be normal, funny, and hobbies" only works if you have other stuff going for you (confident, good social skills, kinda attractive or not ugly). You might meet that 1 person that has common interests with you, occasionally, but options are limited.
It's basically the issue with modern dating advice in a nutshell. It assumes that you already have other stuff going for you, and just need a few fixes: this is because humans in general are not good on picking up the subtle things that make up the whole. It's also why we are bad at predicting things sometimes or ignore red flags in relationships.
The reality @Ezekiel 25:17 is that a lot of people - especially nowadays are raised never being taught how to have sex appeal. Part of this is an unfortunate consequence of us not trying to force people into gender roles - a lotta people don't know how to be sexy to the opposite sex. So those who are naturally confident or sociable have a easier time naturally developing attractive traits without realizing it, while those who are not naturally confident or sociable suffer - especially in today's sedentary, internet-heavy world that gives less opportunity for practicing socialization.
there's a reason why these issues started in the last 20 years, as that's when our modern lifestyles and cultural shifts started![]()
You always had that confidence? Any tips on how to develop it? Other than the male relative thing - that’s not an option for me.
Elaborate bc im currently one of those internet generation brehs who never developed this
Is it all down to socializing and being a social person/able to interact with people? That’s the thing I’m weakest at, doesn’t come natural to me I always have to force it.
What can I do to develop that?
Serious btw
I blame thecoli for this shyt ever appearing on my recommended videos
Cliffs:
- A sigma male is a type of alpha male
- A sigma male doesn't brag or even talk much, he just stays in the shadows
- Women love mystery, so they love sigma males
- Stop giving up your frame to women!
- Getting closer and closer to the screen makes women more attracted to you
- A sigma male yells all the time
Sigma Male Examples:
- Thanos
- John Wick
- Tigers (yes the animal)
- The Hulk
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