fukk it. I'm sure solid advice has been found in stranger places.

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I only did it for 11/2 years.

At first I did basic promotions for the 18-22 yo crowd. Dj's who weren't really known but good and more importantly cheap. Women were usually free before 11 sometimes 11:30. We had a hook up on a couple of spots where we didn't have to break off that much bread to function on Thursday nights because of my homies connections. I linked with some spoiled rich cacs and tried to get into the white market. I chucked deuces to the homies but there was no hard feelings. It was all downhill from there.
damn breh, should use your xp for hip hop nights and some edm shyt
 

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1]First thing first..gotta make sure u have a roof over your head and food on the table

Since u have no other options...sell that chick who been holding u down some dreams,spend more time with her,pipe her right and treat her well

2]Start looking for a job aggressively











3]U aint no cop,J Reid
 

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1]First thing first..gotta make sure u have a roof over your head and food on the table

Since u have no other options...sell that chick who been holding u down some dreams,spend more time with her,pipe her right and treat her well

2]Start looking for a job aggressively











3]U aint no cop,J Reid
Damn, I read this whole thread hoping I'd be able to make that joke, lol.
 

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You choose to run scams after narrowly missing a felony conviction and string the girl along who provides a roof over your head yet the only reason you want advice is cuz you're gonna run low on cash soon?

College, a good legal job won't make the differences you think they will if your mind AND soul ain't right.

Do you actually even want to change?
 

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I really hope you take this advice. If you dont your 30s will be hell, I've it happen too many times to family members.
 

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1. Find a legit job and save up some money
2. Move out and get your own place. A studio or a room but just something of your own
3.Go back to school, a community college or start looking at major specific scholarships.
 

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This might have been a mistake.:noah:

If you got a chick who's taking care of you, don't mooch off of her like that and bounce. That's less than a man.

That will come back around to you and in the position you ae in, you dont need any more things negative to happen to you.

Then when you REALLY need some help, you might not be able to find any
 

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I'm gonna come clean to the coli.

I dropped out of college in my second year because I thought I was going to be rich off of party promotions. I was convinced I was going to be the black Scott Braun or like that dude slim from plush blue.:snoop:

When that fell through I worked bullshyt jobs until I got fed up and linked with some of my cousins and started traping.

A little over a year later I caught a case but because I saved my money, I was able to get a dope ass lawyer and got off with probation.

I've been eating off of a scam for about a year but unfortunately this is coming to an end very soon. Because I knew the end was near, I started going through the process to get into the navy as a last resort. I scored high on the practice asvab and knew I could get a rating that would lead to a great job when I got out. I went to the office yesterday just to touch base and see when I'd be going to meps. He went over basic questions one last time; when he asked if I was sure I'd never been in trouble with the law, I told him I had a case but beat it. That's when I found out you can't even be charged with a felony and get into the navy. He's gonna "run it through some people" but I already know what it is.

I've been living with this chick for a while, basically rent free. She only asks me to pay a few bills here and there. I'm pretty sure she thinks since shes holding me down, I'll marry her down the line.:heh:

Now I'm over the age of 25 with no legal skills. I thought about going back to school but when the money from my scam runs out I'd be broke. Being older than everyone on campus is one thing but being just as broke too. :scusthov:Nah.

I could take up the family business again but because of how hostile the market is right now, I'd be expected to really be a street nikka and not just a Jay Z type of dude like I was before.:sadcam:

What am I gonna do brehs and brehettes. I'm lost.

Don't sell yourself short. You sound like you have people skills, that's off top. You need to reevaluate how you think about yourself, breh. And take it from there.
 

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You choose to run scams after narrowly missing a felony conviction and string the girl along who provides a roof over your head yet the only reason you want advice is cuz you're gonna run low on cash soon?

College, a good legal job won't make the differences you think they will if your mind AND soul ain't right.

Do you actually even want to change?

I want to change my situation, everything else just needed a little tweaking .

I've never been lazy or unmotivated. I'm in this predicament now because of my ambition and also an aversion to authority.:manny:

I tried to go around the system and I fell on my face. That doesn't mean that my mind or soul isn't right, it just means I failed. I do admit that I have to conform a bit to make myself into a success. I had it in my head that school was for suckers and now I know how foolish that was. I'm going to be in school soon, working on becoming a radiologic technologist, so in two years I'll have a financial safety net. Soon after that I'll be working on ways to flip my discretionary income. I'd say my head is on straight.

If you got a chick who's taking care of you, don't mooch off of her like that and bounce. That's less than a man.

That will come back around to you and in the position you ae in, you dont need any more things negative to happen to you.

Then when you REALLY need some help, you might not be able to find any


How does it make me less of a man to play a broad? People use other people all the time; anyone that say's they've never used someone is a liar.

I'll never deny the fact that I'm not the best guy and I'll be an all out bad guy if it benefits me, like now. Also, I don't believe in karma, there's plenty of women who do men way worse and have great lives afterward. Earlier in this thread I talked about how she's a good girl but just not my type, so it would never work anyway. Am I supposed to be bored and unhappy for the rest of my life because she helped me for 21/2 years? I'll be damned.

She deserves someone who's truly into her and loves her for who she is anyway. She was in two long relationships back to back before me, with dudes she called "kind of boring". They were most likely dudes who were good matches for her and she just couldn't see it for looking at the green grass on the other side. So when I'm done with her, she's going to really appreciate men who really appreciate her and find someone to live a long, happy, boring life with.

If you really think about it, I'm doing her big a favor and only asking for room and board in return.
 
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