fukk This Side nikka and Side bytch culture

Mowgli

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Agreed. One of the most hurtful events of my life ( I actually cried like a lil bytch) was Freshman year when a girl I was really sweet on, who I thought was sweet on me, kept switching
the script when I tried to date her. She eventually started dating my friend, and ultimately told me one day she wanted to date him, but just fukk with me.

I don't like second place, and I don't share. This backwards, nasty ass "Mr. Me too!" culture is gross. Who do you trust?
Trust women who give you their virginity.

That's as close as you gonna get.

That or former prostitutes, criminals or madams
 

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Its shyt like this that makes me realize that the whole picket fence family bullshyt is nonsense. I mean all of us want love but the whole concept of relationships is like The Rules of Attraction on steroids and mdma all at the same time. I'm an old fashioned one man marries one woman dude but I feel as if there are way too many people out the playing sexual musical chairs and shyt. I refuse to be a side dude and would hate to have a girl to through being second best...fukk a friend zone with benefits. Rather be ef zeed and keep it moving than get emotionally involved by trying to compete with someone else.
 

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it's truly disgusting and immoral, like have some respect for yourself. your great grandparents didn't die for this :what:
I dunno what the hell this has to do with anything but yeah, the culture is pretty toxic. Too many people getting killed over fukking around with someone else's relationship.
 

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I was never exposed to that growing up. Married grandparents on both sides (my grandma left a dog and married a real man who I claim as my grandpa..he raised me as his granddaughter)..married parents.
That side peice shyt is whack. I'm a woman I get getting bored of the same dikk after awhile but that's when you make it new. Spice it up, make him watch some new (female friendly :whoa:) porn.
If he's not willing after so long then dump him because sex is an important part of a relationship to me.

But to go out and get a whole nother ho :dahell:
 

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man i'm tired of this shyt, like do people really need a side AND a main:stopitslime:

what the fukk is the point of LTR and marriage if all you're gonna do is cheat on your significant other. If you're gonna be with that person then BE with that person and stop creeping, and if you do decide to creep break off the relationship

and people ask me why i dont wanna get married or lock some chick down, it's because of this foolishness right here. this nonsense promotes infidelity, lying, breaching of trusts and a whole bunch of other shyt. i'm really surprised people aren't noticing how it starting to make us become more dysfunctional innit

yall can kick rocks with this bullshyt :pacspit:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/side...-only-one-horrified-disgusted-by-this.303337/
 

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If you a grown ass man that's worried about your woman getting a side you're probably a soft lame with a wack stroke game in the first place so that's where the insecurity stems from.

As far as side dudes, I would never call myself some goofball shyt like that because if I'm just trying to or currently fukking a broad I see nothing long term with then I could care less what her relationship status is. That isn't any of my concern since the bytch is worthless to me outside of a nut.

Now there's something to be said about people who know and are cool with both partners who still try to slide in but at the end of the day your spouse chose.
 

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man i'm tired of this shyt, like do people really need a side AND a main:stopitslime:

what the fukk is the point of LTR and marriage if all you're gonna do is cheat on your significant other. If you're gonna be with that person then BE with that person and stop creeping, and if you do decide to creep break off the relationship

and people ask me why i dont wanna get married or lock some chick down, it's because of this foolishness right here. this nonsense promotes infidelity, lying, breaching of trusts and a whole bunch of other shyt. i'm really surprised people aren't noticing how it starting to make us become more dysfunctional innit

yall can kick rocks with this bullshyt :pacspit:



Been going on since day 1. Don't let revisionist history fool you into thinking this subculture was created/accepted within in the last 5-10 years. If anything the social media side of the game is just exposing what was done in the dark.

Refocus your opinion on honesty.

Honesty between two people is vital for a successful relationship whether you're monogamous or not...
 

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i'm blaming both parties, why did no one sensible come in and say look enough is enough


i'm 21 but shyt is not looking wavy at all right now
You're a fakkit. Sit back and enjoy the game. You tryna wife somebody up at age 21, you lost already. I can tell you're a no p*ssy getting simp. Why don't you state the real problem u have, that no female wanna fukk with your lame ass and definitely don't want to be committed to u.
 
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