I know this might seem like a foreign concept to you, but in a disastrous situation, you've got to triage and address whatever's most disastrous.
It became clear over the last week that not only was the administration willing to die on the hill of denying SNAP benefits, but they were willing to fight it in court. I legitimately think Democrats weren't expecting them to actively fight court rulings demanding payment, but that's a separate conversation.
But I guess the real question I'd ask, is how exactly was this supposed to end? Like, what was the path to getting what the Democrats wanted? Having leverage really only matters when the person you have the leverage over actually cares about the harm they could do by not respecting it. We are very clearly not in that situation.