Get married brehs:Woman unhappy with engagement ring

[Orange cream shake]

The ring is wack but you don't air someone out like that. If dude found some of her panties crusted over with discharge and posted them on IG to voice his displeasure I wonder how the women here would respond to that? It's an in house issue, keep it in house.

I'd be laughing my ass off.


She ain't shyt for disrespecting dude on social media. My first wedding ring was a carat and about 1k. I think it's smarter to be modest and then if the marriage last then upgrade. It's not that the ring is cheap it's just ugly as fukk. Platinum>white gold>yellow gold

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Its not the ring itself, it's the fact that he didn't get her what she wanted, he doesn't know his woman. She's wrong for airing him out though.

 

[Ooh Marty]

My reaction would have to depend on his station in life. If dude is struggling but is a good hard working man and this is all that he could afford because he's in the process of building a solid foundation for our family, i'd be more understanding. I'd prefer a gemstone anyways.

Yeah Same here but if he could afford a better one and didn't get it

But then again I can't see myself marrying a man that hasn't established himself in life yet anyway

 

[Brandsdale]

And even if she secretly is unhappy with the ring, a woman can use humor and light hearted gestures to suggest she wants a better one in the future. Can always upgrade it down the line...naw this bird thinks its logical to air shyt on social media.

whatever you get at the time is the only ring you should have for your marriage

the wedding ring is a form of symbolism to symbolize the event of marriage

people attach too much fukkin materialism when its really not that serious

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Its not the ring itself, it's the fact that he didn't get her what she wanted, he doesn't know his woman. She's wrong for airing him out though.

Then it's the ring What did she want?

 

[Brandsdale]

ayo bruhs...just between us.....


















I got my wife's rings at a Pawn shop

Got it appraised and it was worth 4 times more than I paid for it.

Capitalizing off of someone else's failed marriage was ....for me

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I don't plan on getting married but if I do my engagement item will be a down payment on a new crib for the both of us and the kid on the way. fukk a ring.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Then it's the ring What did she want?

If you don't know or have an idea of the kinda ring your woman wants you either didn't pay attention to her likes and dislikes or you two don't have good communication. It's a microcosm of the relationship.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

If you don't know or have an idea of the kinda ring your woman wants you either didn't pay attention to her likes and dislikes or you two don't have good communication. It's a microcosm of the relationship.

Women like a variety of different things. What kind of nikka making any type of money got time to analyze women's jewelry?

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Women like a variety of different things. What kind of nikka making any type of money got time to analyze women's jewelry?

It your gonna marry someone you have to know who they are inside and out. If your to lazy to do a simple thing like figure out what kinda ring she would like than you shouldn't get married. There are lots of rings in his price range and that would satisfy her. No excuse.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

It your gonna marry someone you have to know who they are inside and out. If your to lazy to do a simple thing like figure out what kinda ring she would like than you shouldn't get married.

Stop with the silly shyt. Worry about the persons character the rest of the superficial silly shyt like knowing every character from diary of Jane don't matter. I wouldn't expect a chick I'm in a marriage with to know about every classic car I like. As long as we know what we both want from each other and we down don't shyt else matter. Conversations that don't involve shyt like clothing lines and food can be interesting.

 

[Tetsuo]

Men would be livid if they asked for a PS4 and their woman came home with a Dreamcast but its the thought that counts right?

I wouldn't want that ring either. Not because its small but it looks of pawn shop quality and even in the photo that diamond and band looks fugazi as fukk.

Looking at the libraries for the Dreamcast and the PS4, DC looks like the better deal at this point

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Stop with the silly shyt. Worry about the persons character the rest of the superficial silly shyt like knowing every character from diary of Jane don't matter. I wouldn't expect a chick I'm in a marriage with to know about every classic car I like. As long as we know what we both want from each other and we down don't shyt else matter.

Whatever dude. It's an engagement ring. Thousands of men do fine with picking out rings cuase they know the women their marrying. That is the crux of the argument. He doesn't know her. If you don't know how satisfy your soon to be wife and know what makes her happy, you lost. How the fukk are you gonna share the rest of your life with someone you don't even know a basic thing like what type style their into. Like I said it's not about the ring but your making about the ring. You just proved my point as you just said "both know what you wanted" its obvious he didn't know what she wanted.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Whatever dude. It's an engagement ring. Thousands of men do fine with picking out rings cuase they know the women their marrying. That is the crux of the argument. He doesn't know her. If you don't know how satisfy your soon to be wife and what makes her happy, you lost. Like I said it's not about the ring but your making about the ring.

And I'm sure what she wants is simple. A big ass rock with gold, it's as simple as what every woman wants who thinks like you just some superficial shyt to show off. Ain't got nothing to do with knowing that bytch, fukk out here. if you think a man not getting you an expensive ass ring means he doesn't know you proly lost.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

And I'm sure what she wants is simple. A big ass rock with gold, it's as simple as what every woman wants who thinks like you just some superficial shyt to show off. Ain't got nothing to do with knowing that bytch, fukk out here. if you think a man not getting you an expensive ass ring means he doesn't know you proly lost.

Its not about how expensive the ring is or not. Many women want different rings some want expensive rings and others not so much expensive. This particular woman wanted a bigger ring, the fact that he didnt pay attention to what she wanted means he probably doesn't pay attention to other things she wants. That includes non material things as well. Stop getting caught up in the cost of the ring. I'm not talking about that. If your not on the same page something is wrong point blank period, what about this are you not understanding.