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Coco Loco

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Considerate people are a dying breed. I thought it was a very thoughtful gesture.


Very. She really listened and catered the gift to him. Then he reciprocated and took her to a record store. Providing that much care and consideration on both parts is rare especially for a link/meet up.
 

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Expressing gratitude for something that has never been done for you qualifies as narcissism???

Get this bootleg psychotherapist and her trash diagnosis all the way out of here :camby:
Dude is a narcissist for accepting the gift and thanking her :dead:
yall are being obtuse. it's the part where he said "it sets you apart from other women"

he's basically letting her know that he has other women in his rotation. he's clearly trying to keep her on her toeas

all he had to say was thank you and how appreciative he was. didn't need to bring that other part.

I agree with her. I won't go as far as to say he's a narcissist though

girl in the op is fire btw.
 

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yall are being obtuse. it's the part where he said "it sets you apart from other women"

he's basically letting her know that he has other women in his rotation. he's clearly trying to keep her on her toeas

all he had to say was thank you and how appreciative he was. didn't need to bring that other part.

I agree with her. I won't go as far as to say he's a narcissist though

girl in the op is fire btw.
I think ya'll are reading too much into it and drawing conclusion based on your own experiences rather than on this specific circumstance.
Nothing obtuse about that. Was he talking about other women he has in rotation or just comparing it to his dating experiences in the past? Feel like the latter is more likely than the former.
 

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yall are being obtuse. it's the part where he said "it sets you apart from other women"

he's basically letting her know that he has other women in his rotation. he's clearly trying to keep her on her toeas
You're drawing a lot of (negative) conclusions from a single sentence, and that's wild.
 

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You're drawing a lot of (negative) conclusions from a single sentence, and that's wild.
I think ya'll are reading too much into it and drawing conclusion based on your own experiences rather than on this specific circumstance.
Nothing obtuse about that. Was he talking about other women he has in rotation or just comparing it to his dating experiences in the past? Feel like the latter is more likely than the former.
maybe yall are right. but I could see why some women would think that
 
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London baby.
First time my wife came over she brought a gift.

But we paagin. :yeshrug:

Now when i go to people's homes as a guest I try to bring a little something. People appreciate thoughtfulness

I was taught when you meet your spouse’s family you bring a bottle of the father’s favourite drink and the mother some flower’s.
 

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You're trying to get me killed i see:russ:

You already know that it isn't her fault..first husband was a white dude and she eventually got her wake up call..next husband was a Puerto Rican dude..now all she wants is a brotha that sees her worth eventhough she has a bad attitude and she knows she does...can't tell her nothing though:yeshrug:

So the brotha play clean up man & take care of two biracial kids

:mjlol:

It’s definitely her fault. Why did you even have a kid?
 

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The woman who went on the date...




The grifter.....



She’s angry cause she can’t fix those eyebrows

:mjlol:

Looking crazy. Only OUR community. Dating gotta be like a Rubix cube.

Ppl gotta just live and stops being paranoid. Enjoy the experience and realize you may or may not get hurt.
 

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She said after he took her to a spot that she mentioned meaning he was paying attention to as well why are people upset? She seems like a great head on her shoulders and her parents did a great job raising her:dwillhuh:He better hold on to her:wow::wow::wow:
 
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