"Get your money up" is the worst advice to give to someone struggling with women

[Buckeye Fever]

This is the coli. The home of simps. They make money just to give it to a woman.

 

[lightbearerchef]

I look at women as options now. They truly come and go like tha seasons, and you find more happiness in pursuing your lifes purpose.

 

[Jsully]

Get your money up implies to get your social/ financial standings up so you can have a larger pool of bytches to choose from.


Where did you get the idea that it's about giving bytches your hard earned money

Its the coli... You have to spell everything out explicitly or brehs dont understand

 

[Ashley Banks]

I always thought it was meant so you can attract women not necessarily spend your money on them. It also benefits you because you’ll have more money lol

 

[Youseenmywork]

I know men personally that make six figure and the wives are cheating on them . It is bad advice. Everything you do should been for your happiness. If a women dosent LUST you she is a no go don't even entertain her.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

"Get your money up" implies saving, no?

To woman? Nah, it implies that she should twerk on a pole.

I just tell women to look at community college. Take a class or two.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I know men personally that make six figure and the wives are cheating on them . It is bad advice. Everything you do should been for your happiness. If a women dosent LUST you she is a no go don't even entertain her.

Yep.

The dudes that I hear brag "my woman doesn't pay for anything", sound like dudes that think just because the do all for a woman, that they wont cheat on them, and they be the MAIN ones

 

[Kwabena]

1. Get a skill, trade, or education
2. Get a high paying job
3. Invest your money


shyt is really that simple.

Getting a high paying job or mastering a skill doesn't happen overnight. You invest your money for long-term returns

I don't know why you think "Get your money up" is reasonable advice for someone looking to attract more women NOW

 

[Doobie Doo]

I always thought it was meant so you can attract women not necessarily spend your money on them. It also benefits you because you’ll have more money lol

A woman figured it out before the op

 

[Insensitive]

No, it isn't bad advice.
It's perfectly valid advice and really it's firm life advice.

And when I personally advise someone to "Get their money up", I don't mean to just increase your
salary. I mean to have a solid understanding of your finances and your financial goals.
Are you investing solidly and regularly into low or no cost index funds ? Which sectors
are you investing in ? Why are you doing so ? Is related to the field you work in ? Or something
you just love ? Are you currently paying down a property ? Do you make a salary north of $60,000 a year ?
Can you save enough to completely pay off your debts ? etc.

The advice isn't saying "Money will get you women", it's saying "it'll allow you to build the life you
want and the women come".

And I say to do this while firmly investing yourself like :
Personal Grooming.
Personal Fitness.
Pursuing Lifestyle/Hobby things.
Pursuing additional education & skill building of some kind.
Increasing your networth and so on.

I've said this before on here when I was making 1/3rd of what I currently make
and I'm still marching forward towards my goals. Don't get hung up on women brehs,

Getting a high paying job or mastering a skill doesn't happen overnight. You invest your money for long-term returns

I don't know why you think "Get your money up" is reasonable advice for someone looking to attract more women NOW

If a guy is looking to attract women and he isn't an attractive choice, he might need that hard hitting advice.
If might hurt his feelings to know that his character or personality will take the backseat to his situation but with the way a lot of modern dating goes, that's typically how it is and if someone isn't equipped to deal with that then unfortunately they lose.

 

[Kwabena]

I always thought it was meant so you can attract women not necessarily spend your money on them. It also benefits you because you’ll have more money lol

So lemme dissect this post

1. Increase income
2. Increase spending on frivolous items (suits, cars, jewellery, etc.) so you can impress women

Sounds like an insidious recipe for debt

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I always thought “get your money up” was advice to help people understand that you have to be financially set before you can date or hold on to a women.

Not even the worst SIMPS would advise someone to get money just to blow on someone.

MY money going up is for my financial freedom.

 

[Ahadi]

The real argument should be money vs clout because a lot of people with clout don’t have money. While the people with money are overlooked but used for only one thing. But you don’t want to be known for having money because you’ll end up being jaded.

 

[Silkk]

Getting a high paying job or mastering a skill doesn't happen overnight. You invest your money for long-term returns

I don't know why you think "Get your money up" is reasonable advice for someone looking to attract more women NOW

It takes at most 6 months to a year to learn a skill or a trade, some can be learned in a month if you put the work.


Nothing happens overnight, So while you sit around bytching and crying you gonna keep on getting the results that you've always gotten. You not being able to attract a woman speaks to bigger problems that you need to address.

 

[SATAN]

Get your confidence up

I go to the gym, but not to look good for women.

I go because I feel good about myself and my appearance as I make improvement to my body and physical health. That confidence shows and women find it attractive.