Getting back with "the one that got away"

[CodeBlaMeVi]

OP doesn't realize she thought she could do better than him. He trying to blame it on her age that she didn't want a relationship. When a woman thinks you are top tier, you don't gotta try to convince her to settle down. She'll be trying to convince you to settle down.

Talk that ish, breh. It's his life.

 

[unit321]

We talked about the whole 9 breh...we both want kids, she said she wants to move back to her hometown eventually and she asked me if I could see myself back in that city (smaller city and not as good as our current one) to which I said I wasn't opposed to if everything was good.

We're getting together tonight so there will def be more discussions. Her last relationship ended a year ago. She dated dude for 6 months but he lived in another city and she said it was too difficult to do long distance so she ended it.

I've never ONCE seen her post any sort of pic with a dude on her fb in the time we spent apart. Sure she was seeing dudes, but no one she felt important enough to post on socia media. And she updates it every couple weeks with pics etc and never anything.

You have any pictures of her? Face, full-length, back shots, money shots, whatever you got.
Post them here.

 

[Taadow]

Puts the TLDR Cliff's Notes at the end of the post.


Anyway, it was a good read. Sounds like she gave you the booty call because her game was off for an entire year.
You need to tell her the truth. You should tell her that when she wanted to break it off, it hurt you really bad. You do not want to go through that again. You still have feelings for her. She needs to go all in on the relationship.

This was the right advice, at the wrong time.


@Jack Trippa 3z company ho, you shoulda made this thread before you went out with her last time.
You shoulda said this, and then GAVE HER NO DICC.



You: "nicca WHAT??"



Yeah. She only called you up because she hadn't had none in a year and needed the bats beat out her belfry,
and you did it good. But you should've made her realize she gots to give to get because she's on punishment
for dippin' out on you last time.

REAL TALK - the only reason folk be pullin' these kinda stunts is because they
think they got it like that when you tell 'em you feelin' 'em. Screw that noise. Make her ante up.

 

[Pier7]

Am I tripping here or are nikkas ignorning the fact that this old thot is pushing 30 now

She curved you when she was in her prime, and is now back G'ing ya stupid ass cause she is in her late 20s and is SETTLING.

She aint reach out to you in 4 years and now all of a sudden you was "the one"


ARE YOU fukkING STUPID?

 

[PinotNoir]

That girl lived with SORORITY SISTERS in a HIGH RISE

some big football and bball players done came through and SMASHED that shyt..im talking multiple nikkas son..prolly done been ran through n shyt, nikkas skeetin raw all insider her n shyt, and this went on for 4 years

that same face you make when she makes you cum, she made a minimum of 15 other nikkas make that face over the course of 4 long years


4 years of nikkas THOROUGHLY beating that p*ssy up day in and day out, I'm talking randoms, that 6'5 nikka named keith, that 5'11 stocky football player couple 6'6 and 6'8 nikkas, a LOT of frat nikkas



that aint yo bytch nikka

Phew I'm sorry but I don't know why I read this in the voice of Riley from the Boondocks....

 

[Swirv]

Don't listen to these scorned men. If you like her and still feel the same what's wrong with seeing where it goes? If she ends up acting the same then let her go and forget about her but don't start playing games. That's stupid and immature.

Listen to this. Give it 100%. If it works great, if not at least you tried your best. Love is a gamble always.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Listen to this. Give it 100%. If it works great, if not at least you tried your best. Love is a gamble always.

B...b...but she had sex after they broke up.

Coli losers are some lame ass niccas foreal.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

You have any pictures of her? Face, full-length, back shots, money shots, whatever you got.
Post them here.

Lol not happenin breh. She's light skin, thick ass, long hair and pretty face. Bout 5'5.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

Let me clarify a few things:

I'm not tooting my own horn here, but I'm 6'2, 200 lbs, good looking and make 6 figures. I've been had more than my fair share of women, and very diversified women at that. I've walked away from ladies that my buddies have told me I was crazy to leave. I don't simp, never had to.

I met her when she was 23, and I was pushing 30. Definitely different stages in life. I sure as hell wasn't tied down at her age and I understood that she wanted to have that experience and I don't fault her for that. She was straight up about it and I respect that vs trying to play both sides of the fence.

She now lives alone in a condo, really been progressing in her career, and most of her friends are now married and popping out kids. She's at a different place in her life than she was 4-5 yrs ago.

This ain't some bootycall thot that hollas when she doesn't have some dikk for the night. I legit think she's wanting to settle down and came back to me cuz she knows I'm better than these other clowns she's dealt with. But we shall see.

It sounds to me that you already made up your mind...

I say go for it. Follow your heart but take your brain with you... If you don´t try it, you´ll be wondering for the rest of your life ¨ What if? ¨
The way you talk about her says it all. So I wish you best of lucks!!! Oh and I want to know how everything goes tonight!

 

[Swirv]

B...b...but she had sex after they broke up.

Coli losers are some lame ass niccas foreal.

I cant call it breh. Personally I dont want a woman after someone else has had her after me. I dont know why its just how i am. No disrespect to anyone else. Everyone moves differently.

I'm just telling the breh to go 100% if she is worth it to him.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I cant call it breh. Personally I dont want a woman after someone else has had her after me. I dont know why its just how i am. No disrespect to anyone else. Everyone moves differently.

I'm just telling the breh to go 100% if she is worth it to him.

I hear u.

That has never bothered me as long as it wasnt someone I knew.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

It sounds to me that you already made up your mind...

I say go for it. Follow your heart but take your brain with you... If you don´t try it, you´ll be wondering for the rest of your life ¨ What if? ¨
The way you talk about her says it all. So I wish you best of lucks!!! Oh and I want to know how everything goes tonight!

Thank you and well said. I'm dipping out in an hour, I'll update this thread when I can.

 

[Swirv]

Thank you and well said. I'm dipping out in an hour, I'll update this thread when I can.

Im excited in this possibility of love for you. I wish everybody could be in love at least once.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

Im excited in this possibility of love for you. I wish everybody could be in love at least once.

Thank you breh. Bless.

Edit for correctness

 

[Swirv]

Thank you sweetie. Bless.

I'm a breh