Getting back with "the one that got away"

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She let him hit on the first night:dahell:

My game is tight breh...
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whether she was out there getting bodied by 15 athletic nikkas in that high rise or not, one thing is for certain.....
when she took that break with you that should have told you that you're at LEAST her Plan B and she only reached out to you after she got tired of doing whatever she was doing and/or her main plans fell through. but to answer what you should do here and now? cut her off. if you can't really separate those strong feelings and maintain a just sexual kind of situation (and it's nothing wrong with that, it happens) then don't even do it to yourself and get outta there.

At this stage I'm def not getting all in my feelings, playing it cool. And I won't allow that to happen unless we get a ways down the road and it gets serious.
 

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I know a girl that fukks her plan D on the first night aint sittin around for a year playin tic tac toe with her sorority sisters in a high rise condo.

Yo ass is doin the good ole "stick up for my fellow females" act but lettuce be honest, either u being naive, or feel some type of way cuz u urself are an undercover hoe and want to unconsciously defend yourself amd your past actions

Lol who hurt you? Were you someone's plan J? Is that why you're so adamant that this woman you don't know was just giving it up to every alpha male she came across? You must have been through this before. Tell us why you're mad. What happened bud? Did you catch feelings and she curved you? Let it all out, there has to be a reason for your hostility.
 

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Because she's in a sorority and women in sororities are constantly subject to male attention, that makes her a thot automatically? Get out of here with that lol. Do what you want man, half the guys on this site lowkey hate women, and want to pull you down to hate women right along with them. Doesn't matter what you do as a woman,the guys on this site will find something to insult you and call you a bedwench or a thot over. A majority of the answers you're gonna get here are from biased dudes anyway.
I dont hate women, so that argument is pointless.

The fact that u cant admit that a female that sleeps with coworkers on the first night is likely a hoe says alot about you.
 

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This dude should definitely question why she popped up after 4 years of them not dating.

But he knows what he's going to do. He just wants to see comments that validate what he's thinking already.

Question that, don't question what she did with whoever in the past.. It's none of his business.
 

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My game is tight breh...


At this stage I'm def not getting all in my feelings, playing it cool. And I won't allow that to happen unless we get a ways down the road and it gets serious.
If your game was that tight she wouldnt be using you like a tampon breh.


Im sure the 20 other nikkas she let run up in her these past 4 years feel the same
 

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I dont hate women, so that argument is pointless.

The fact that u cant admit that a female that sleeps with coworkers on the first night is likely a hoe says alot about you.

Men sleep with women on the first night. I guess they're just as dusty as the women who do. Or....have you never been given the opportunity to sleep with someone on the first date, and you're lowkey hating on this guy so everything you're saying is negative because misery loves company? Why are you REALLY mad?
 

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This seems like the go to line from a lot of chicks man :patrice: I've heard that a couple of times myself but in my head I'm like "Oh but u giving me the drawls all of a sudden" :skip:

OP, she know she got u wrapped around her finger...the fact she disappeared for 4 years, texted u out the blue and u jumped right at her request, she like :smugbiden:......she gonna dip out again because she see u still available so easily...u not a challenge

I've never gone without sex for 1 year, my friend who is out of shape and big tells guys Shyt like this, she also says she's only ever slept with 8 men... (yeah more like who she smashed last month)...
 

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Men sleep with women on the first night. I guess they're just as dusty as the women who do. Or....have you never been given the opportunity to sleep with someone on the first date, and you're lowkey hating on this guy so everything you're saying is negative because misery loves company? Why are you REALLY mad?
Most of the females i fukked let me hit first night:dead:

i got experience with these hoes, which is why im trying to warn dude.


but if we let yo hoe ass tell it, he shouldnt question what shes done these past 4 years :russ:
 

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So if she let 100 nikkas hit, he shoudnt question that :skip:


Lets be honest, you yourself have a past dont you:ohhh:

Nah, I don't have a past lol if i did the last thing i'd be is ashamed of the sh*t I did with whoever. I made those choices, I live my truth so you can't use it against me lol
 

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Just proceed with caution. I'm dealing with the same situation....if you still feeling her like you were, do your thing. And :salute:for not caring what she been doing these last 4 years. I doubt she has gone a year without sex, especially if she is attractive. If she has :usure:, there is probably a reason behind it......My take on it though.....She wasn't interested in a relationship with YOU at the point she friend zoned you. She prolly had her fun, after a while found a nikka she wanted a relationship with, it didn't work because of something he did (more than likely cheated), and she guarded herself against nikkas. Feeling down, she hit you up, because she knows you would be around, and that your a nice guy. Don't read too much into the fact she still has your number, because chicks usually keep nikkas around if they serve a purpose. You serve a purpose (She looking for a relationship/she just looking to smash and she comfortable with you/she looking for a nikka to boost her ego/ect). It's up to you if you want to figure out what that purpose is, but stay guarded, because that gut punch gonna be doubly hard to deal with the second time around.
There's an old saying in Tennessee.... I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee ....that says, fool me once, shame on, shame on you. Fool me ...you can't get fooled again. :skip:
 

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You forgot to add the part where on the third time u fukk her real real good nut on her face and walk out the door, that way she cant say shyt:ahh:
Exactly. :birdman:

This nikka lookin like Tupac in the Do For Love video right now
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