Getting back with "the one that got away"

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

Maybe she has finished her fun phase, but I think she is still in it.

Has she tried to have any serious conversations about what she is now looking for? Are you doing more stuff together, getting on a deeper level this time around?

Ask her when her last relationship was? You may be a rebound....

We talked about the whole 9 breh...we both want kids, she said she wants to move back to her hometown eventually and she asked me if I could see myself back in that city (smaller city and not as good as our current one) to which I said I wasn't opposed to if everything was good.

We're getting together tonight so there will def be more discussions. Her last relationship ended a year ago. She dated dude for 6 months but he lived in another city and she said it was too difficult to do long distance so she ended it.

I've never ONCE seen her post any sort of pic with a dude on her fb in the time we spent apart. Sure she was seeing dudes, but no one she felt important enough to post on socia media. And she updates it every couple weeks with pics etc and never anything.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

If you smash with no strings you good. If you take that thot back into a relationship you're a beta and a glorified dildo/ ATM machine. You allowed a thot to disrespect you and leave you to jump on every dikk She liked and come back at her discretion sucka

How is it disrespect if she kept it 100 and told me how she felt? She never once played me to the left. She was young and wanted to do her thing. I'm not mad at that. When I was 23 I was a p*ssy hound. It is what it is.

 

[Azul]

Just be cautious.

 

[MsReal]

We talked about the whole 9 breh...we both want kids, she said she wants to move back to her hometown eventually and she asked me if I could see myself back in that city (smaller city and not as good as our current one) to which I said I wasn't opposed to if everything was good.

We're getting together tonight so there will def be more discussions. Her last relationship ended a year ago. She dated dude for 6 months but he lived in another city and she said it was too difficult to do long distance so she ended it.

I've never ONCE seen her post any sort of pic with a dude on her fb in the time we spent apart. Sure she was seeing dudes, but no one she felt important enough to post on socia media. And she updates it every couple weeks with pics etc and never anything.

See how it goes

I wish you luck.

 

[International Playa]

If you smash with no strings you good. If you take that thot back into a relationship you're a beta and a glorified dildo/ ATM machine. You allowed a thot to disrespect you and leave you to jump on every dikk She liked and come back at her discretion sucka

OP will fall in love, he aint built to fukk hoes with his heart in check

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

And you know this how? This is the personification of a true beta simp putting p*ssy on the pedastal

Because she ain't a thot breh. Maybe that's all you've ever known and I agree there are plenty of them. There are still a few chicks out there that respect themselves and don't fukk everything walking.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

OP will fall in love, he aint built to fukk hoes and keep his heart in check

Lol I ain't bragging but I'm not letting you slander my name. I've smashed over 100 broads, I don't keep count but I've had a steady roster all of my adult life

 

[Arc]

How is it disrespect if she kept it 100 and told me how she felt? She never once played me to the left. She was young and wanted to do her thing. I'm not mad at that. When I was 23 I was a p*ssy hound. It is what it is.

First of all don't fall into that feminist game of males and females are equal and their behaviors reap the same consequences. That's bs. I'm not hating on you or anything dude I'm telling you this for the best and I've been where you've been and I know it's practically impossible to reject a chick you had a crush on (those are fukking rare). I'm telling you the fact that the chick left the relationship at her discretion for the sole reason of jumping on dikk shows she has no respect for you and trust she never will if you get back with her. If you're in a relationship and a chick leaves for the cited reason of exploring dikk that's DISRESPECT IN ITS PUREST FORM. Listen to me. I understand this is your crush. Game her and smash as long as possible then bounce. Trust me.

 

[ottorocket]

Simps always end up with reformed thots..

Russell Wilson ass nikka..

 

[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

Agreed, but it does give you different considerations from diff perspectives and there's nothing wrong with that. I have my own mind, it's not like I'm gonna just do what people on here say.

Honestly you should break it, just on some real man shyt.

Real men don't run to a woman's every beck and call. If you're the commodity, she should be trying to cater to you. You think smashing on the first night was an achievement, but that's the goal she manifested. You were just simply a piece on the checkerboard (women don't play chess lol).

Be a man homie. Know what position you want her in, not trying to figure out what she wants from you.

It's funny you say you have your own mind but you're doing everything she wants you to do and she already played you before.

 

[International Playa]

Lol I ain't bragging but I'm not letting you slander my name. I've smashed over 100 broads, I don't keep count but I've had a steady roster all of my adult life

Im not slandering u breh, u went soft like baby poo for this chick first time, chances are you are gonna get caught up in your feelings, breh

 

[Groot]

We are Groot!

Spoiler: I am Groot...

I Am Groot...

 

[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

First of all don't fall into that feminist game of males and females are equal and their behaviors reap the same consequences. That's bs. I'm not hating on you or anything dude I'm telling you this for the best and I've been where you've been and I know it's practically impossible to reject a chick you had a crush on (those are fukking rare). I'm telling you the fact that the chick left the relationship at her discretion for the sole reason of jumping on dikk shows she has no respect for you and trust she never will if you get back with her. If you're in a relationship and a chick leaves for the cited reason of exploring dikk that's DISRESPECT IN ITS PUREST FORM. Listen to me. I understand this is your crush. Game her and smash as long as possible then bounce. Trust me.

I wouldn't even smash. It'll be strictly some hit up solely for dome type shyt. I've done that with bytches I was in love with. fukk that sucka shyt.

 

[ottorocket]

This chick ignored him for 4 years...had a "real" relationship with someone for 6 months...then waited ANOTHER WHOLE YEAR to contact OP and you guys are cosigning him going back to her? What section am I in? !

 

[CN793]

a man is a player, not a thot.. if u wanna be a man so bad, go buy some drawers and jordans

Nah, don't try and reclaim your self respect now. According to you only thots have sex on the first night. The shoe obviously fits. Thots gonna thot. Own it brutha.