Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[AAKing23]

What happened to being nice and kind to people? What happened to respect? I'm glad I'm married...I have no time for this type of cowardly behavior. How does it hurt you to say "I'm not interested" to a person that you are sharing bodily fluids with? Do they suddenly have some power over you because you were respectful? Are you now weak because you showed yourself to be a kind and mature person? This is ridiculous...who raised some of y'all??

Hurt people hurt people, and it keeps going in a cycle until it infects everybody

 

[Ohene]

I ghost

The older i get the more selfish and self centered i become

I figured out i dont owe a a girl im casually dating anything. If we don't have a committed relationship then she is always in danger of getting the

I dont owe closure or even a text. If i give it then take it. If not then k.i.m

I dont feel obligated to explain anything. Now if we progress past a casual stage then i will adapt.

cantcosign this . its cowardly

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

It's all in the game.

Nowadays it's just easier to peace out than explain why to a sensitive person.

At this point an explanation is a privilege.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Here's a quick tip on how to avoid being ghosted. Add the person on Facebook early in the process. People are less likely to ghost you if you can see all the details of their life and vice versa.

I haven't been ghosted yet by a chick who I've added on Facebook.

 

[the bossman]

I'm tired that everything now is a "a phenomenon" now because we new need buzzords every month. This has been going on forever. I've been "ghosted" by many women who would give the digits, we start texting and whatnot then out of the blue...nothing. Like we're in the middle of a conversation and all of a sudden no more answers. They got their reasons to do it but I mean let's not act like this is brand new.

shyt reminds me of netflix & chill lol like nikkas had never been using the lets watch a movie at my place since the beginning of time

 

[The Refiner]

Nah she probably had some stupid app on her phone that sends those spam texts to people in her phone book. I get them all the time, people don't know that the app is sending spam texts to people in their contacts

Don't get me wrong I want to hit her up (she's mad attractive) but I haven't and I wasn't getting the right vibes. She hit me up out of the blue one time and didn't respond after that...mad mixed signals or whatever. But I see we still in each other's phonebooks smh.

 

[General Mills]

cantcosign this . its cowardly

We can agree to disagree.

Im not scared. I just dont care

 

[LoMax30]

I had a whole story written but I figured cliff notes are better. If I'm strictly casually seeing someone I can more-so accept being ghosted on but if me and a chick are solidly kicking it and then one day she's ghost out the blue, better believe I'm gonna say something to her about it. As an adult, ghosting is kinda juvenile. And if your gut tells you something is off with her, usually there is.

 

[3rdWorld]

Here's a quick tip on how to avoid being ghosted. Add the person on Facebook early in the process. People are less likely to ghost you if you can see all the details of their life and vice versa.

I haven't been ghosted yet by a chick who I've added on Facebook.

She can still block you from viewing the more intimate details of her life on fb..

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Here's a quick tip on how to avoid being ghosted. Add the person on Facebook early in the process. People are less likely to ghost you if you can see all the details of their life and vice versa.

I haven't been ghosted yet by a chick who I've added on Facebook.

But nothing is stopping them from unfriending you ...

?

 

[newworldafro]

yooo where does this gif come from? the fat dude is the same one that was in the last ATL episode

Some Youtube comedy sketch. The guy standing next to him have a group that does these videos. Somebody up here knows the name of their collective. I think there out of DC and Prince George's County, Maryland.

 

[4North1Side2]

Says the nikka that was cheating on his wife and posted pictures of her with nut on her face.

At what point do you start to question how much your life sucks when you are as a grown ass man still vividly remembers what another grown ass man you don't even know did in his past. I couldn't even begin to remember you.

Don't get me wrong I want to hit her up (she's mad attractive) but I haven't and I wasn't getting the right vibes. She hit me up out of the blue one time and didn't respond after that...mad mixed signals or whatever. But I see we still in each other's phonebooks smh.

No such thing as mixed signals. Because you find her mad attractive you are holding out hope that a chance is still there even tho the writings on the wall.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

At what point do you start to question how much your life sucks when you are as a grown ass man still vividly remembers what another grown ass man you don't even know did in his past. I couldn't even begin to remember you.

. You made multiple posts and threads bragging about that shyt. Shut up.

 

[4North1Side2]

. You made multiple posts and threads bragging about that shyt. Shut up.

If you tired, go take your old lame ass to sleep instead of worrying about what I'm doing. I'm on your mind more than my ex wife's, that's far telling where you are in life.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

If you tired, go take your old lame ass to sleep instead of worrying about what I'm doing. I'm on your mind more than my ex wife's, that's far telling where you are in life.

. Every lame Coli nikka's go to line.

Though I'm glad your ex-wife moved on and dropped you, you piece of shyt.

No such thing as mixed signals. Because you find her mad attractive you are holding out hope that a chance is still there even tho the writings on the wall.

I do agree with this tho.