Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

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Sometimes ghosting is necessary. When you want to cut things off or break up with certain woman and be the adult and talk it out, you leave yourself open for personal attacks.

:russ: @ thinking cutting this off with a woman is gonna be smooth. They ALWAYS want to know why, and when you finally tell them they are gonna see it as you attacking them. So they now have to get back at you and there is no telling when they are done! That's where things like "You have a small dikk" or "I think you're gay" come from. No thank you. I will ghost every time lol.
 
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I once bagged this chick and we texted back and forth for a few weeks VERY lightly. She would respond but it took forever and i stopped texting her completely, but didn't delete her. Well, months later I get a text from her saying "Let's video chat and text on imo! Get the free app" and there's a link that followed.

Is this some kind of test? Should I have texted back "who's this"? If this is a test to see if she is still in my phonebook then its pretty smart lol.
 
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I'm actually an anti phone dude but yeah, bytches always looking at their phone. if you find a chick that ain't and she's cute, def pay more attention
My phone is never on me and even though I don't leave the house the phone is either uncharged or in another room charging when I get missed calls. The house phone is broken too.
 

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:mjcry: That is the most frightening thing about it. It can really ruin a person from ever having a deep connection with another person.

Biggest fear is becoming numb

shyt left me bitter for a LONG TIME.

Even now the bitterness is not as potent as it once was, instead it's turned into a cold dull cynicism. I have chicks interested in me now and Im still cynical. The days of butterflies in my stomach are over....sadly :mjcry:
 

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I'm tired that everything now is a "a phenomenon" now because we new need buzzords every month. This has been going on forever. I've been "ghosted" by many women who would give the digits, we start texting and whatnot then out of the blue...nothing. Like we're in the middle of a conversation and all of a sudden no more answers. They got their reasons to do it but I mean let's not act like this is brand new.
 

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I once bagged this chick and we texted back and forth for a few weeks VERY lightly. She would respond but it took forever and i stopped texting her completely, but didn't delete her. Well, months later I get a text from her saying "Let's video chat and text on imo! Get the free app" and there's a link that followed.

Is this some kind of test? Should I have texted back "who's this"? If this is a test to see if she is still in my phonebook then its pretty smart lol.
Nah she probably had some stupid app on her phone that sends those spam texts to people in her phone book. I get them all the time, people don't know that the app is sending spam texts to people in their contacts
 

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I've done this before when I was younger. I shouldn't have because its cowardly. I may wanted to evade the awkwardness and possible rage from the woman...but its better for a person to be honest and say they not feelin the person or simply moved on and found someone else. People will respect you more in the longrun if u keep it 100...plus its the best way to handle a situation.
 

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really dating with our generation is causal NSA sex and a good weekend....its a numbers game really...everybody swapping fluids, sharing each other, passing std's back n forth :scust:

dont nobody want a damn relationship
This is some real shyt here. We just have kids out of wedlock by multiple people and have plenty of NSA sex. People don't take the time to date and develop something with another person let alone a meaningful monogamous long term relationship and a marriage.
 
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