Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

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I ghost:yeshrug:

The older i get the more selfish and self centered i become :manny:

I figured out i dont owe a a girl im casually dating anything. If we don't have a committed relationship then she is always in danger of getting the:camby:

I dont owe closure or even a text. If i give it then take it. If not then k.i.m

I dont feel obligated to explain anything. Now if we progress past a casual stage then i will adapt.

That's cool...:ehh:

As long as you cool with a bytch you feeling going missing on you as well.
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It is sad what human relationships are turning into and people think it's okay too :wow:

I would never play somebody that I know has feelings for me because when the shoe is on the other foot it is not fun at all.

You get what you give out here
 

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The ugliest woman on a dating app is gonna have at least 100 messages in her inbox, mad perceived options, until they too old to realize that 98% of those messages from dudes that have no intention of being in a long term relationship/ marrying them.

This true! I personally feel a lot of women my in my age think they can upgrade anytime due to massive attention via any medium that allows communication via the internet. That's why I focus more on myself and don't get too emotionally invested in the women I meet.
 

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It is sad what human relationships are turning into and people think it's okay too :wow:

I would never play somebody that I know has feelings for me because when the shoe is on the other foot it is not fun at all.

You get what you give out here
They're basically building a foundation of confidence firmly upon someone else's misery. Sad.
 

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2016 the Summer of the Ghost.

The game is different now, people just quit easier. Everything needs to be gratifying 24/7 or else people gonna dip. Social media and the internet makes it so that there's so much stimulation you can find, a lot of people in this generation gonna die alone. Having a lot of options is a gift and a curse, the more choices you think you have, the harder it is to choose just 1 thing. People's perceived options is why ghosting so popular.

real talk.

although on the subject of ghosting is a funny one

people move on for many reasons
 

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seems like alot of work dodging someone, much easier just to say...not interested :yeshrug:

(its also kind of passive aggressive and bytchmade)

I disagree. iphone has an option to block a person. once you block the number, you can't receive calls/text/facetime from that person anymore. its actually simple in theory.
 

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This true! I personally feel a lot of women my in my age think they can upgrade anytime due to massive attention via any medium that allows communication via the internet. That's why I focus more on myself and don't get too emotionally invested in the women I meet.
I hate to be like that fam but it's the reality into days age. You can't get involved too deeply because you setting yourself up for a let down.
 
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To extract confidence from pettiness and cheap little emotional games and manipulation shows a shallowness and flaw in someone's character, and someone doing that is building a house of cards, bound to collapse.

And to spend years fighting imaginary battles and retaliations against past wrongs, not even against the person who 'wronged' you....that is sad and comically misguided.
 
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