Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Sometimes I just speed up the process in identifying a ghoster by stopping texting them first when I realize that it's always me initiating the conversations .... i'm still waiting on some texts from 2012

 

[TheIsleofMan]

it's just Wack when you go ghost but see the person again looking better than when you had your shot

 

[mortuus est]

I have friends that do this.....To me, it's just some bytch made shyt, I don't communicate like a hoe. I'm not passive aggressive or vindictive, all mad due to some relationship shyt...It's really weak to me. Says a lot about character. Of course, it's happened to me, one way or another, though I doubt any of those doors are closed, it's just mostly timing. However, I don't really deal with this.... communicate well, don't overtext, carry yourself a certain way, and you won't have to 'ghost' people, I don't even know why I would do that to someone.....It's a byproduct of text based communication, but it's intensified by the hyper accessible Tinder trends.

what if the person starts to send vague messages , too busy for sex meet ups and you know deep down they really want a baller

to ghost or not to ghost, that is the question

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

It takes no effort to not answer a phone or text...

yea, i mean even the mental exertion is removed if the call or text never reaches you in the first place. that's why it kills me when ppl act like ghosting is a useful tactic they've come to rely on after years of careful planning and experience. nah .... it's just lazy as fukk.

 

[Da King]

If you have a distinct name don't allow public articles, blogs and journalists to use it.

I found the woman that got ghosted on in two seconds from googling her name.

spoiler that shyt

 

[John Reena]

If a bird doesn't respond in one day to a text, she automatically getting ghosted by me, I got zero patience for hoes

Damn, I used to have that mindset but I "softened" up over the years, nh.

 

[Marezzy]

If a bird doesn't respond in one day to a text, she automatically getting ghosted by me, I got zero patience for hoes

People have thier phone on them 24/7 no reason why in a span of 24 hours I can't get a text or call. "I was busy" is bullshyt

 

[re'up]

You have to assume this woman would be dealing with someone more suited to her.....Dating/relationships/sex cross about every line there is, from attraction, income level, etc etc. much as we sometimes tend to think only of ourselves and similar people....People getting all worked up, like 'Of course she got ghosted' are picturing themselves as the man, which is a flawed perspective, unless that's what you normally are interacting with on a personal scale.

 

[General Mills]

That's cool...

As long as you cool with a bytch you feeling going missing on you as well.

Yup. I am willing to take that L.

My thoughts on it are.. if there is that special person out there for me then i should be able to recognize her when i meet her and act accordingly.

I dont sell women pipe dreams. I am brutally honest. As we know some women only hear what they want to hear and act surprised later. If they act brand new then i dip with no fukks given

 

[Palm Tree's & Blunts]

People have thier phone on them 24/7 no reason why in a span of 24 hours I can't get a text or call. "I was busy" is bullshyt

loool it's bullshyt. Basically saying your text wasn't important enough to respond.

 

[Da King]

People have thier phone on them 24/7 no reason why in a span of 24 hours I can't get a text or call. "I was busy" is bullshyt

exactly, if a girl wants you she'll find time to not only respond but also see you no matter how busy she is, unless it's some family emergency. I was talking with some homegirls about this that nikkas need to know that if a chick don't respond quick it's over @Big Boss, they all laughed and agreed

 

[King Poetic]

I did that to thousands of single moms...

I had a chick still trying to contact me after 2 years, leaving messages like u haven't called in a while

 

[Lost His Smile]

You don't have to do anything tho...if you started talking within a week she should be able to just move on if she don't like ur reply frequency...

Yeah I understand that.

Im just talking about dating in general.

 

[William F. Russell]

Doesn't seem to be much difference between ghosting and pump-and-dump.

 

[John Reena]

I only ghost fat bytches, ugly bytches, and bytches who stunted on the p*ssy.