Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

At30wecashout

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I don't see why it's hard to tell somebody you aren't interested. It literally takes 5 seconds to send a text.

I don't understand the concept of only being courteous to people you are in relationship with. Like it's ok to completely disrespect somebody because you don't know them well. Who even wants to meet new people and explore new relationships with people if the game is like that.
It ain't exclusive to pre-relationships, breh. It will happen during full-fledged too.
 

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I don't see why it's hard to tell somebody you aren't interested. It literally takes 5 seconds to send a text.

I don't understand the concept of only being courteous to people you are in relationship with. Like it's ok to completely disrespect somebody because you don't know them well. Who even wants to meet new people and explore new relationships with people if the game is like that.
Ghosting allows you to come back into the picture. I've smashed chicks and then ghost for a few weeks then hit them out the blue and smash again. when they ask me why I went silent for a while I tell them some bs excuse, smash again and then ghost for a few more weeks. lather, rinse, repeat
 

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I don't see why it's hard to tell somebody you aren't interested. It literally takes 5 seconds to send a text.

I don't understand the concept of only being courteous to people you are in relationship with. Like it's ok to completely disrespect somebody because you don't know them well. Who even wants to meet new people and explore new relationships with people if the game is like that.

Why are you entitled to an explanation from someone you don't know that well?
 

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why give the number in the first place:patrice:
They may actually be giving a breh a shot:ehh:I've chopped it up with some girls who seemed real cool at the time, we exchanged numbers, then I realized I was more in the moment
so I had to make it a point to tell em I ain't feeling it. Then again im not a punk bytch so I don't need to pull tricks.

Women might change their mind after giving the number, or alternatively, are trying to avoid conflict. There is this weird assumption every man might be ready to slap them up for
saying no, so a number is a quick way to get it over with. I knew a guy who once was given the number to a girl's boyfriend:mjlol:his cheesing after getting the number and speaking

to "a bad bytch" made the entire fallout hilarious.
 

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Why are you entitled to an explanation from someone you don't know that well?

They aren't entitled to anything. But there is more to interpersonal relationships than what just what people are entitled to.

Some sh*t is just rude, regardless of how well you know the person.

You know the person is attracted to you, you know they want to see you, they've already given you their body or spent money on you, and you just ignore their calls, instead of just shooting a simple text?

That's rude to me. No one has to "earn" courtesy from me. It's just how grown folks handle sh*t.
 

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I ghosted on a bytch I've known for 10 years.
bytch was just a succubus and a taker.
Got tired of her shyt and just stopped responding.
Took her a month to get the hint.
Felt good, brehs.

Edit: Here's a nude of the bytch cause fukk her.


Where the nude at :ld:
 
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They may actually be giving a breh a shot:ehh:I've chopped it up with some girls who seemed real cool at the time, we exchanged numbers, then I realized I was more in the moment
so I had to make it a point to tell em I ain't feeling it. Then again im not a punk bytch so I don't need to pull tricks.

Women might change their mind after giving the number, or alternatively, are trying to avoid conflict. There is this weird assumption every man might be ready to slap them up for
saying no, so a number is a quick way to get it over with. I knew a guy who once was given the number to a girl's boyfriend:mjlol:his cheesing after getting the number and speaking

to "a bad bytch" made the entire fallout hilarious.
This is the woat I think it happened to me:huhldup: the next day

I think they expect you to hit it right after the club
 

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I ghosted on a bytch I've known for 10 years.
bytch was just a succubus and a taker.
Got tired of her shyt and just stopped responding.
Took her a month to get the hint.
Felt good, brehs.

Edit: Here's a nude of the bytch cause fukk her.


:pacspit: for posting her nude. fukked up. Salty nikka
 
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