How does it not work? They gonna rob you? If you sign a large contract like in this particular case, you can put some distance between you and others by having an assistant who filters out messages before they get to you.
If you can’t do that you can simply change your number and only give it to those close to you who you know will be protective over you and organically limit access to you.
Ontop of that, you ain’t gotta be the grinch, you just gotta set the expectation for the aid. “Don’t come to me for handouts…show me what your plan is and I’ll support you…if you have no plan, I can’t help you”. If they mad at that and feel like you the grinch then fukk em.
…and if they come to you with a plan, you be a man of your word and support them. If the plan is successful, others can see the glow up and know that you will truly empower but they gotta meet you half way.
But IMO it’s all in how you manage the relationships…a lot of people like to give out money, hope that somehow they family gonna be self-sufficient and thrive, and when it doesn’t happen they but off the gravy train and now their family is mad at them.
You supposed to set the expectation before a dollar even leaves your hand “look muhfukka, I’m not the welfare office…I’ll help you but you need to help yourself…come back when you got a plan…you wanna be a lawyer or doctor…i got to tuition…want to get your CDL I’ll pay for your school and after you do a year with a logistics company I’ll buy you a truck”…that type shyt but nikkas don’t be coming at they fam like that.
What if you put some fam through college, they work in law, then you bankroll their first firm and now you part owner in a law firm. You help one of your fam get into trucking, they open they own logistics company now you got your hands in trucking. Empowering instead of enabling those around you could pay real dividends.