Girl agrees to hookup, later claims manipulation/coercion. What are your thoughts?

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A LOT of women go through things like this. They see a dude, he's attractive to them and their rationality goes right out the damn door. Younger women are the most susceptible to this. It's not a unique situation unfortunately. At least 1 in 4 women will have had an encounter like this where they had sex with a guy who asked them repeatedly, did things they weren't comfortable with, and ultimately felt used and thrown away by that man. And sadly, many of them don't learn until this happens 5 more times or more. Some never learn and they be 46 years old talmbout "Why are men like this?"

This is really a lesson for men. Don't pester women for sex, don't beg them like this guy(allegedly) did. Aside from the fact that it's pathetic, disgusting, and unmasculine behaviour, in the age of social media it will have unintended consequences on your life. You can get put on blast on social media. If you're looking for a job, one of the FIRST THINGS they do when considering you is look you up online. If they get hits like this, they're not even going to bother contacting you to tell you that you didn't get the job :mjlol:
 

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he fukked up on the no condom part. If you a dude it's best to not object to anything that's being negotiated
She can now use that condom thing and the roughness of the sex to build the accusation around. Just go along with what the chick wants, fukk and dash. She can still lie even with that but at least she'd have to just blatantly be making shyt up so maybe you can push for lie detector if shyt hits the fan
I doubt he talked her into anything, they had a consesual hook up and when he no longer fed her ego she got mad and changed her facts around to turn this into non consensual sex.

She went from "I like your dikk pic, wanna fukk?" to "He was a lame with a big dikk" and then to "How dare he block me, let me get revenge."

And since when do woman on social media feel pressured into meeting you by text messages :mjlol:Every one of these thots has a million dudes left on read in her inbox. If she didn't want to meet him, she would have just blocked him or put him on blast on her Twitter if he got on her nerves.
 

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As a man you need to lead and do what is right. Have some principles.
If you're gonna live your life going tit for tat off what every woman has done to you...that's weakness.

Be better.

:coffee:
So what are you trying to say about the average woman? They can't be an adult like we can? They can't lead? They dont have principles? :jbhmm:

I was always told that they're equal to men. So, what you are saying is flying in the face of that.
 

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I doubt he talked her into anything, they had a consesual hook up and when he no longer fed her ego she got mad and changed her facts around to turn this into non consensual sex.

She went from "I like your dikk pic, wanna fukk?" to "He was a lame with a big dikk" and then to "How dare he block me, let me get revenge."

And since when do woman on social media feel pressured into meeting you by text messages :mjlol:Every one of these thots has a million dudes left on read in her inbox. If she didn't want to meet him, she would have just blocked him or put him on blast on her Twitter if he got on her nerves.
A lot of these cats brains are just mush and just ready fall in line with things to get along.


No questioning or even thinking logically will cross their mind.
 

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Everyone is the a$$hole here. She's carefully choosing her words so that she can say she's not technically accusing him of rape, but she basically is.

This guy needs to stop begging and trying to change womens minds behind closed doors. If you want to sweet talk her or convince her do it in public, but if a girl says no behind closed doors i hit the :hubie: and keep it moving. Truth is women know that one on one we can take what we want if we are wired that way. :patrice: better to avoid any gray areas.

Dude stop enabling these hoes.

If he didn't drug her, beat her, or hold her down.

If she consented

IT'S NOT RAPE
Start holding them accountable for their actions and stop enabling irresponsible adult women, who try to ruin men's lives because they're insecure.


As a man you need to lead and do what is right. Have some principles.
If you're gonna live your life going tit for tat off what every woman has done to you...that's weakness.

Be better.

:coffee:

No, weakness is not holding grown women accountable for their actions and trying to pass it off as being so a principled individual, when really you're just a simp.
 

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So what are you trying to say about the average woman? They can't be an adult like we can? They can't lead? They dont have principles? :jbhmm:

I was always told that they're equal to men. So, what you are saying is flying in the face of that.
Yes they can.
But so can you.
 

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No, weakness is not holding grown women accountable for their actions and trying to pass it off as being so a principled individual, when really you're just a simp.
You must have missed my 1st post in this thread.

But if you believe in pressuring and pushing forward when a woman isn't comfortable, you're a piece of shyt.


:coffee:
 

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But if you believe in pressuring and pushing forward when a woman isn't comfortable, you're a piece of shyt.

I agree.


Now:

Where is the line for “comfortable”?
All we can go off of is the word of our partner. If our partner agrees to something,
then it is what it is. If somebody takes their word after giving it, aren’t they “a piece of shyt”?

Also - (sad to say) there are some women who want you to “push forward” when they say they aren’t
“comfortable”. How do they get what they want by your (good) logic?

And (again) - looking at the facts of this story we’re given: what between the interactions of
these two people made you feel like this man wasn’t a “piece of shyt”?? Because like I said,
I wasn’t even involved and I can feel the cringe off this dude...



 

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Dude stop enabling these hoes.

If he didn't drug her, beat her, or hold her down.

If she consented

IT'S NOT RAPE
Start holding them accountable for their actions and stop enabling irresponsible adult women, who try to ruin men's lives because they're insecure.




No, weakness is not holding grown women accountable for their actions and trying to pass it off as being so a principled individual, when really you're just a simp.
I didn't say it was rape and criticzed her specifically for implying it. Doesn't mean the guy wasn't moving weird:beli:. Stop trying to pressure people into doing shyt they don't want to do/ find a chick who isn't playing games and knows what she wants.
 

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Sorry for anyone confused by the hoe babble ill try and translate

She is on only fans as a desperate insecure sex worker. She finally gets someone to take her serious enough to meet her in person. He sends a dikk pic to make what his intentions are clear she knows exactly what it is but because she insecure she can't accept that she is nothing more than a nut. She hooks up thought it was all good then he dipped and didn't respond. She salty cause once again as much as she puts her puss out on display it once again couldn't keep a man's attention so instead of accepting that all she is good for is a fukk she watched a late episode of special victims unit and tried to assassinate the character of the man by making it seem he did a bunch of things she didn't want to do. She wanted to do it he just bounced. Bet if he stayed in contact we not getting none of this.
 

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The thoughts of trashy people. It's amazing to me first how some whore can do what she did, but then how someone can type all that up with NO shame whatsoever and actually expect sympathy. This stupid bytch needs to be in therapy somewhere. Can already tell she has no father or positive strong male presence in her life. "I kinda felt used" or whatever dumb shyt she typed, yeah no shyt, a guy you meet off onlyfans and who comes over to hookup isn't gonna be trying to marry or seriously date you you moron. Hope for the sake of humanity this idiot doesn't have children, but I know she will.
 

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You must have missed my 1st post in this thread.

But if you believe in pressuring and pushing forward when a woman isn't comfortable, you're a piece of shyt.


:coffee:

I didn't say it was rape and criticzed her specifically for implying it. Doesn't mean the guy wasn't moving weird:beli:. Stop trying to pressure people into doing shyt they don't want to do/ find a chick who isn't playing games and knows what she wants.

Look, either he raped her or he didn't.

He didn't.

Like I said, women pressure men every single day to do shyt we don't want to do.

Do we get to claim victimhood too?
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Once you became an adult "peer pressure" isn't an excuse.

She is an adult who made a bad decision and regretted later.

We should encourage her to move better, rather than allowing her to try to pass off responsibility to a guy who let her know up front what he was about.
 

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Look, either he raped her or he didn't.

He didn't.

Like I said, women pressure men every single day to do shyt we don't want to do.

Do we get to claim victimhood too?
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Once you became an adult "peer pressure" isn't an excuse.

She is an adult who made a bad decision and regretted later.

We should encourage her to move better, rather than allowing her to try to pass off responsibility to a guy who let her know up front what he was about.
Girls pressure brehs into relationships all the time, and when they come and cry about infidelity or the guy getting bored i tell em (eventually) that they shouldn't be surprised if the breh didn't really want to be in it from the beginning :yeshrug:

I don't understand why it's such an either or proposition for you.The woman is clearly in the wrong but it doesnt mean the man did everything right.

And It's not just peer pressure, they were solo dolo in a room with no one else. If she said no and he kept pressing her.. there's reason for her to be concerned that he might just take what he wants.:francis: .
 
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