Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

[CarmelBarbie]

It's 2019 same people off line are online

Like I said I’ve never done it, so hell if I know. Truth is I guess what it boils down to is I really don’t care enough about trying to date. Haven’t since high school. All my friends do online dating. I know how a woman acts when she’s really trying to date, fukk, or get in a relationship. And I tell you what they don’t move like me. Matter of fact I’m guilty of going on dates then fading away as quickly as the wind for no real reason. My opinions on online dating probably shouldn’t be considered. I’m sure that it is the same people online as you meet in person. But at least in person it doesn’t feel as forced and you see what your getting. But I get it.

 

[cleanface coney]

Well isn't that what relationships are for??? to get our dikks in her???

No thats what fukking is for...i said a relationship

 

[CarmelBarbie]

The majority of the men in this thread would kill for a fulfilling relationship with a quality woman. Seems like most have experience with women who don’t bring anything to the table. I was always taught you attract what you allow

I think so too. That’s what makes this thread slightly comical. The complaints are precisely because some want that but haven’t found it. It’s natural to want companionship and love. It’s just that with the way our society is currently set up, you’ve got to sift through the dirt to find the gems and not be too bitter and tired to recognize the gems once you finally spot em. Keep on sifting brehs.

 

[I'm Blackman]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

Hell of a post.

 

[The Phoenix]

People really have these types of conversations at work? I work with a nice diverse group of people, but it's too many CACs around for me to feel comfortable enough to have these type of convos. Next thing you know you in HR for sexual harassment.

 

[Spectre]

Kee

I think so too. That’s what makes this thread slightly comical. The complaints are precisely because some want that but haven’t found it. It’s natural to want companionship and love. It’s just that with the way our society is currently set up, you’ve got to sift through the dirt to find the gems and not be too bitter and tired to recognize the gems once you finally spot em. Keep on sifting brehs.

Keep sifting aka simping


or just fall back and do you living your best life

 

[supertrekker]

She was telling me how she went on a date with a dude from an app, and he straight up told her he ain’t doing a relationship

She asked me why would he not want a relationship. She seemed genuinely confused

I told her

“Half of Y’all suck d*ck and f*ck on the first night. Why on earth would he need a relationship?”

She looked at me like I took a sh*t in the office coffee maker or something

Are y’all really confused?

I'm confused as to why you would give away our secrets. Now she gonna tell all her friends and us guys are gonna have to show commitment before we get some. Just tell her that men are emotional and are afraid of being hurt.

 

[killacal]

I'm confused as to why you would give away our secrets. Now she gonna tell all her friends and us guys are gonna have to show commitment before we get some.

 

[wtfyomom]

relationships period are a drag on your self growth on both sides. idgaf what anyone says about how its so beautiful. yall feel thats what youre SUPPOSED to say, its like when a dude wins the superbowl talking about "best day of my life other than my kids birth or getting married" foh nikka its the best day of your life period and you know that. everybody get married and have kids that aint special. but it goes for women too. relationships take up way too much of your time to improve yourself. especially then you got kids. you lose your fitness, you dont have time to study or advance at whatever youre doing, not just school studying i mean studying anything to get ahead. i can totally see people not wanting a full blown time wasting, boring ass relationship. but if you do want one thats cool but i always feel its people in relationships wanting to make everyone else miserable talking about, oh you gotta get married like nah i dont need to be in your miserable ass shoes. highlight of a nikkas week is going to fukkin Cotsco to buy shyt for the apartment or house lmao nah im good.

 

[supertrekker]

People really have these types of conversations at work? I work with a nice diverse group of people, but it's too many CACs around for me to feel comfortable enough to have these type of convos. Next thing you know you in HR for sexual harassment.

Just remember if it's a women that initiates it then she's the one that'll be offended and crying to HR.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Dudes don’t want relationships cause they come with responsibility.

Dudes would rather keep running around not having to answer to anything/anyone.

 

[Coli Bot]

Dudes don’t want relationships cause they come with responsibility.

Dudes would rather keep running around not having to answer to anything/anyone.

This is basically why I ended my 7 year relationship. It becomes like another job, no freedom to do anything. It's like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders but maybe in a few years I'll see what's out there again. For now I'm extremely happy doing me, self improving and getting this money .

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

bytch would have to pay me at this point
Jus to get my energy


I know to much

 

[Amor fati]

Because these western double-minded demons ain't got shyt to offer than p*ssy, ain't no normal man putting up with attitude, bird talk and craziness.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

All risk and no reward