Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

Rozay Oro

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Reminds me of this black girl I was talking to who said no black guys are into her why she was dating white and Arab men. I told her I’m interested then she said she sees me as a friend

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Lmao I've had this happen
 

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Tell her she need to look closely at the quality of most relationships these days and the fact that they are literally killing women from the stress.

I don’t mind relationships but chicks are crazy to stress it. I couldn’t imagine living in a better time as a woman. Imma need chicks to evaluate relationships with a more critical eye instead of wanting to hop into one all the time.

Also if she really wanted a relationship, she could get one. But she isn’t attracted to the dudes who want a relationship with her. And I get it. There is literally no benefit to getting with someone u have zero attraction to. It’s not like he’s the primary provider. Nope, she’ll be working. And him being unattractive isn’t a guarantee that he will be faithful. I know tons of dudes cheating on chicks that look better than them. So u just gon let a dude who makes ur clit shrivel huff and puff on top of you at least 4 times a week just to be able to say u got somebody who could decide to treat u like shyt as soon as the next big ass comes along...and u weren’t even into him like that in the first place?!

Tell her to fall back and enjoy her life. She’ll meet somebody good in time if she is good as well. But there is no need to be in a hurry to get into a relationship b/c the grass isn’t always greener.
 

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I wasn’t even being negative. It’s a fact that women respond to emotions while men are more on the rational side, which is why most men who are looking for a relationship come off as “needy” without even realizing it. I’m not blaming women or men here.
This
 

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I'm confused as to why you would give away our secrets. Now she gonna tell all her friends and us guys are gonna have to show commitment before we get some. Just tell her that men are emotional and are afraid of being hurt.

If you are a LEGIT coli nicca then you can say whatever you want and it won’t hurt you

If you’re not, then :mjlol:
 

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That was kinda harsh, breh. I mean we want women to suck dikk and fukk on the first date. What are you saying that like it's a bad thing? I blame judgemental clown like you when women feel like if they fukk us too quick we wont respect them. I wish all women would fukk on the first date. It's something that shoudl be celebrated. Not used to slut-shame


You a female?

Either that or you one of those men that walks around in high heels at the walk in her shoes parade.
 

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You a female?

Either that or you one of those men that walks around in high heels at the walk in her shoes parade.
No. Just a breh who appreciate women who fukk on the first date unlike you ungrateful fukkwads.

I've never argued that I LOVE whores because... Well... I'm a whore myself :manny:
I'm probably the worst of them too. Let's put it this way I've had another woman pay for the hotel room where i took another broad to fukk. :smugdraper:
 

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No. Just a breh who appreciate women who fukk on the first date unlike you ungrateful fukkwads.

I've never argued that I LOVE whores because... Well... I'm a whore myself :manny:
I'm probably the worst of them too. Let's put it this way I've had another woman pay for the hotel room where i took another broad to fukk. :smugdraper:

A real man isn’t afraid to be honest. If you gotta tap dance around shyt and use a bunch of euphemisms then you have some hoe in you

Learn the difference between facts and slut shaming
 

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Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.
The unfortunate accuracy.
 
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