Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

[ultraflexed]

I looooove whores

Nothing wrong with that, but those are not the type of women seeking relationships

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Every time you a woman make these kinds of generalizations they're usually referring to the men they want.

There are likely dozens of guys who would happily be in a relationship with her, but just aren't her type.

I've seen chicks that I wanted to wife, reject me and then complain about being single.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

She was telling me how she went on a date with a dude from an app, and he straight up told her he ain’t doing a relationship

She asked me why would he not want a relationship. She seemed genuinely confused

I told her

“Half of Y’all suck d*ck and f*ck on the first night. Why on earth would he need a relationship?”

She looked at me like I took a sh*t in the office coffee maker or something

Are y’all really confused?

Talk to someone in real life like your on a internet forum brehs.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

No we dont.
If she did that then she is fuccing every guy on the first date. Would you to be a relationship with a women with no self control.

You guys and your theories...

 

[ultraflexed]

You guys and your theories...

Your misguided.
My quote was in response to the other poster saying he wanted girls fuccing on the first date

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's only going to get worse from here on out. What women don't realize is that men need and want peace and mentally stability. I've said many times on the coli Foxx news and CNN tried to tell people 2 years ago about less and less men are getting married and open relationship and polyamory or polygamy had gone up 7 %. This year alone I've never met Soo many bi sexual men and women. Men have gotten redpilled and is now doing a risk vs reward type thinking when it comes to the dating/relationship landscape.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Your misguided.
My quote was in response to the other poster saying he wanted girls fuccing on the first date

No I’m not misguided, I saw the post you were responding to. I’m responding to your if/then theory...

 

[CHICAGO]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

ONLY TOOK 1 POST FOR THIS HILARIOUS THREAD TO TURN INTO SOME
INCEL LOSER shyt.





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[HellRell804]

But if you keep shaming the cows for giving away free milk we're all be fukked when they stop doing it.

Just saying while I agree with you, I feel you could have been gentler without slutshaming . Quit the slutshaming and we all get to eat

You guys and your theories...

These are the type of regular non powerful dudes that get me too'd

 

[GoFlipAPack]

HR is going to call homie in the office on Monday like "so you asked her to suck your dik"

 

[Mindfield333]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

 

[Software]

Maybe she not relationship material

 

[87 others]

ONLY TOOK 1 POST FOR THIS HILARIOUS THREAD TO TURN INTO SOME
INCEL LOSER shyt.





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I wasn’t even being negative. It’s a fact that women respond to emotions while men are more on the rational side, which is why most men who are looking for a relationship come off as “needy” without even realizing it. I’m not blaming women or men here.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

OP..

You may not like my answer to your response to your coworker, but based on your response, those particular dudes aren't mature!

What I could respect is your coworker's date being upfront about his intentions. That gave your coworker and option to either continue dealing with him or moving on..

Obviously, if she is interested in a relationship, then the date she had with that dude should be a one and done deal!

As for your answer to her query, immature men may use women having sex on the first dates as a reason for not pursing relationships.

As for the rest of men, there is no single reason why some men don't want a relationship.

Speaking for myself, I am all in with getting into a relationship, but it can't be a one sided affair during a courtship!

What I have experienced within current times is some women wanting men to adhere to traditional roles right away w/o doing their part in adhering to the same traditional roles.

In addition, it seems to me that some women, not all, but some women or the ones I have ran into really don't want to do shyt!

They don't ask questions. They don't engage in conversations. They don't show any enthusiasm when it comes to becoming better acquainted.

It feels as if I am auditioning for a spot on their roster where they are the judge and I am to perform or audition for them and based on my performance, they will decide whether they are going to put forth any effort or not.

In the meantime, I need to take them out to dinner, open doors, give gifts, make all phone calls and texts, etc.

How is the aforementioned appealing to me? It's one thing to take the first step or initiative pursuing someone and another thing to do all the work with little to no return..

So, perhaps for some men, women's behavior and expectations on dates is what is turning some men off when it comes to relationships because said men don't see any value in relationships with certain women.

But, if women step their game up, be active in the dating process, establish a connection with men, then there will be more men willing to get into relationships.

In all, all parties involved need to be happy and receive benefits. Not just the woman or man.

Dap+rep and his post is for mature men that actually is pursuing marriage. In all honesty, the women should be trying to impress the men but that ‘privilege’ is reserved for the men they truly desire which likely don’t want them. So, this is what should be relayed to the OP and then relayed to his coworker.

 

[Humble (Not) Mike Tyson]

Are y’all really confused?

My dream woman is a woman who understands the current relationship culture is traaaaasssssshhhh.

Don't get me started.