Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Contrary it's the women who don't relationships many of the time.


A man who is old fashioned and wants to date one girl at a time won't have much luck nowadays.

Women are all fukked mentally and want the playboy who can get any woman he wants but "chooses them".

Women wanna fukk around for awhile and feel like they won dude over.

Dudes who push for relstionships out the gate in 2019 will end up dry dikk

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

QUOTED FOR TRUTH

 

[Spectre]

The flaw in your post is that you're dating the wrong women. Not on no simp status, just pointing the flaws on both sides. A good woman will compliment your lifestyle, not drag it down. I'm understand what you saying though, relationships take work and if you a lone wolf it's hard getting accustomed to one.


As for no relationships, shyt we just want some new p*ssy. A few cheerleaders + lone wolf benefits

Look we gonna smash regardless just cuz. But it's like u really have to go out of your way to find the quality ones that might be worth a future with.

Problem is they all following the same playbook. They dress the same, talk the same, dance the same, live the same mantra hot girl summer eat pray love etc it's like u rly have to spend time to figure out who's who.

As a successful lone wolf it's like why bother? Somewhere along the way the game changed. And we're supposed to act like it's cool and still look for a wife like the old days like the girls aren't completely different today.

Half these women don't even know what they want. They just wanna have fun so it's like ok I'm having fun too...now they mad lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

He just wasn't the one. Just keep it moving. There are plenty guys who would love girlfriends.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

My friends complain about the same thing. I've never used dating apps or online dating, but I feel like that alone is not the place to form a relationship. Kind of seems desperate if a woman is using these sites to get a relationship, because if you're out and about you can meet men much more organically and take it from there. But in any case, I agree with you. There's literally no incentive for young men to get in relationships when sex is offered so quickly and easily. Relationships are time consuming and difficult, and they can put a cramp on your life when you're young and trying to do you. On the other hand, it seems like I always meet men who are interested in more than just fukking, men that want something more exclusive, so the issue could be her. I know I'm not really ready for a relationship right now, so I feel bad once I realize that the man wants something more serious than what I can offer--which honestly is just companionship because I'm not into casual sex, or hooking up just because.


Anyways, I feel for this younger generation--gender roles are all fukked up, the dating scene is all fukked up, and there really isn't much incentive to commit to someone that will dispose you when they're good and ready(which often is pretty soon after yall get together). The other issue is that if she's choosing wrong, that's why she's not meeting men that want to commit. I have two close friends. One of them has never been in a relationship before, she'll be thirty soon. But, get this... She has a revolving door of men in her life. When I say revolving, she has guys in different states that give her access to their credit cards. She has a child the father is not involved. She has a phone full of men that she goes on dates with. She's an attractive girl, and nice and all, but I got to keep it real. If a woman has been dating multiple men for a damn near decade, and can't meet a one that commits to her? That's a red flag.

The truth is that I know she's a hoe. Love her anyways lol. I also know that she chooses the wrong men. Then she gets frustrated when they don't want to commit to her. There is a reason they don't. The other girl, same way--constantly choosing men based off how they look and what not. It's a sad road when you don't realize that you're actually part of why men ain't committing to you. I don't know what this girls circumstances are though.

The good man that they should commit to will probably be kind hearted, more on the passive side, and doesn't make the p*ssy tingle.

 

[Carlton Banks]

I also find that a lot of girls just like to act oblivious to questions like these simply for attention. It's like when a girl asks "why do guys like sex so much?" or "how come guys don't like going on dates?" Etc... Like bytch you know why

Don't tell me you in your 20's and you just now have all these thought provoking questions about men when you been sucking dikk since you was 13. nikkas ain't trying to hear it

 

[Elle Driver]

Dating in this day and age is a joke.

 

[newworldafro]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

Never thought about quite like that.

 

[Youseenmywork]

The good man that they should commit to will probably be kind hearted, more on the passive side, and doesn't make the p*ssy tingle.

....yup cause the guy that's usually blowing her back out is a man that she know anit relationship material which why most women try to make the dude that IS relationship material jump threw hoops. I mean the guys who don't have incentive to change and be better men when it comes to women is because women anit put they foot down. Think about if what you doing is working and you dont have to put in as much as the guys who want relationships would change ? Most women aren't going to change until they in they 30s and by then it too late. Take it from a guy that been on both side of the coin .

 

[MikelArteta]

....yup cause the guy that's usually blowing her back out is a man that she know anit relationship material which why most women try to make the dude that IS relationship material jump threw hoops. I mean the guys who don't have incentive to change and be better men when it comes to women is because women anit put they foot down. Think about if what you doing is working and you dont have to put in as much as the guys who want relationships would change ? Most women aren't going to change until they in they 30s and by then it too late. Take it from a guy that been on both side of the coin .

yep
thing is why invest so much time and this and that when people are so transient in this day and age.

 

[Hungerpain]

95% of These bytches dont deserve relationships from real nikkas they deserve exactly what they get and want,dikk and lies.
Let the suckers wife em.

 

[Commish]

You not wrong just incomplete but cook thoe

Where am I incomplete? I am always open to suggestions...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

They have a movie playing in they heads that most men don't want to star in but keep trying to MAKE certain men fit that role . It always the guys who anit relationship material ...but women know this thoe upon dealing with the guy a couple of times.

 

[MikelArteta]

OP..

You may not like my answer to your response to your coworker, but based on your response, those particular dudes aren't mature!

What I could respect is your coworker's date being upfront about his intentions. That gave your coworker and option to either continue dealing with him or moving on..

Obviously, if she is interested in a relationship, then the date she had with that dude should be a one and done deal!

As for your answer to her query, immature men may use women having sex on the first dates as a reason for not pursing relationships.

As for the rest of men, there is no single reason why some men don't want a relationship.

Speaking for myself, I am all in with getting into a relationship, but it can't be a one sided affair during a courtship!

What I have experienced within current times is some women wanting men to adhere to traditional roles right away w/o doing their part in adhering to the same traditional roles.

In addition, it seems to me that some women, not all, but some women or the ones I have ran into really don't want to do shyt!

They don't ask questions. They don't engage in conversations. They don't show any enthusiasm when it comes to becoming better acquainted.

It feels as if I am auditioning for a spot on their roster where they are the judge and I am to perform or audition for them and based on my performance, they will decide whether they are going to put forth any effort or not.

In the meantime, I need to take them out to dinner, open doors, give gifts, make all phone calls and texts, etc.

How is the aforementioned appealing to me? It's one thing to take the first step or initiative pursuing someone and another thing to do all the work with little to no return..

So, perhaps for some men, women's behavior and expectations on dates is what is turning some men off when it comes to relationships because said men don't see any value in relationships with certain women.

But, if women step their game up, be active in the dating process, establish a connection with men, then there will be more men willing to get into relationships.

In all, all parties involved need to be happy and receive benefits. Not just the woman or man.

this is the truth breh
The average chick is talking to tons of men, you'll text and not get a reply back till the next day when you know these chicks are on their phones 24/7. You'll do the grunt work and just get a lol or a kk back You'll get a date and your spending your money and your time and things seem to be going well then poof radio silence. You're just a demar while they looking for their kawhi.

I don't even think i'm talking to one girl I was talking to 2 months ago, and 2 months from now it'll prob be the same ish. And you're right your doing all this ish as a man, many of these chicks if you don't message or call first you'll never even hear from them, you gotta contact em, you gotta take em out, you gotta pay and then you gotta hope you get another date or shot, and then if you do become exclusive you gotta do this and that ad if you slip a little uh oh ish is like taking a 3 year old to the county fair you can never get to comfortable.

I refuse to be a simp at a chicks beck and call, and nikkaz are so thirsty and pathetic that obese chicks, chicks with kids, chicks working for 7 dollars a hour, ugly ass chicks with rotted brown teeth have more nikkz chasing em than a 5 star athlete has d1 colleges after him

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

I always say before i go in to a relationship....Having a GF/Wife is like winning a championship....but not like in sport like NBA, NFL MLB...but a championship like fighting/boxing, where you have to constantly defend that belt/bihh from any and all comers

I prefer championship trophies to display....as opposed to a belt i have to defend.

Good comparison