Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

[boundlessglobe]

Men are not interested in a relationship with HER.

THIS!!! If men didn't want want to be in relationships then Zales & David's Bridal would be out of business.

 

[Balla]

Guess I’m different a girl fukkin and suckin me the first night is a good sign I fukk with her, she knows what she wants.

We don’t do relationships because wether she lets us hit the first night or night she got nikkas on the side already.

That’s why!!

 

[Youseenmywork]

Guess I’m different a girl fukkin and suckin me the first night is a good sign I fukk with her, she knows what she wants.

We don’t do relationships because wether she lets us hit the first night or night she got nikkas on the side already.

That’s why!!

I have turned those into 2yr relationship ...those women who slept with me on the first date. You get older you learn not to judge women on that shyt.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

My friends complain about the same thing. I've never used dating apps or online dating, but I feel like that alone is not the place to form a relationship. Kind of seems desperate if a woman is using these sites to get a relationship, because if you're out and about you can meet men much more organically and take it from there. But in any case, I agree with you. There's literally no incentive for young men to get in relationships when sex is offered so quickly and easily. Relationships are time consuming and difficult, and they can put a cramp on your life when you're young and trying to do you. On the other hand, it seems like I always meet men who are interested in more than just fukking, men that want something more exclusive, so the issue could be her. I know I'm not really ready for a relationship right now, so I feel bad once I realize that the man wants something more serious than what I can offer--which honestly is just companionship because I'm not into casual sex, or hooking up just because.


Anyways, I feel for this younger generation--gender roles are all fukked up, the dating scene is all fukked up, and there really isn't much incentive to commit to someone that will dispose you when they're good and ready(which often is pretty soon after yall get together). The other issue is that if she's choosing wrong, that's why she's not meeting men that want to commit. I have two close friends. One of them has never been in a relationship before, she'll be thirty soon. But, get this... She has a revolving door of men in her life. When I say revolving, she has guys in different states that give her access to their credit cards. She has a child the father is not involved. She has a phone full of men that she goes on dates with. She's an attractive girl, and nice and all, but I got to keep it real. If a woman has been dating multiple men for a damn near decade, and can't meet a one that commits to her? That's a red flag.

The truth is that I know she's a hoe. Love her anyways lol. I also know that she chooses the wrong men. Then she gets frustrated when they don't want to commit to her. There is a reason they don't. The other girl, same way--constantly choosing men based off how they look and what not. It's a sad road when you don't realize that you're actually part of why men ain't committing to you. I don't know what this girls circumstances are though.

Wise women like yourself need to be counseling these birds. So many lost women out here.

 

[Taadow]

bytch would have to pay me at this point
Jus to get my energy


I know to much

Chuuch.


It ain't that "relationships" are wack...it's that dating is wack. Ultra Wack.
...and that's the case even with a person who might be aight.

 

[#1 pick]

She was telling me how she went on a date with a dude from an app, and he straight up told her he ain’t doing a relationship

She asked me why would he not want a relationship. She seemed genuinely confused

I told her

“Half of Y’all suck d*ck and f*ck on the first night. Why on earth would he need a relationship?”

She looked at me like I took a sh*t in the office coffee maker or something

Are y’all really confused?

I love this site. LSA posters could learn a lot on here. That no matter what, nikkas with options gonna do what they want and bytches who picky better readjust their standards and wants. It's really not that hard. If a nikka wants a relationship, got his shyt together and you two click, ride with it. If you can't find that man, you need to expand your search to different types. Some bytches, just expand their race but Asians, cacs, and others are all doing the same shyt. It's just the era it seems. Women have to date smarter if they want something more than dikk and bubble gum.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

If ur an above status male who has no issues getting the type of women he wants then relationships are a bit moot.

Guys can take care of themselves nowadays. Keep a good home, exercise to be in good shape. Even learning how to cook great cuisine has never been easier. Deluxe entertainment at my fingertips. Now I'm gonna go out of my way to please another person just because?

So it's like well I'm good. Got the place and the whip, know how to have a good time, career advancing, got a good circle of attractive women who are close and wanna come through to chill. What's the relationship for?

It starts feeling like something you're supposed to do

This is true but good lord are there a lot of simps out there. I’m starting t realize that even some of my homeboys got simpin tendencies.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

She was telling me how she went on a date with a dude from an app, and he straight up told her he ain’t doing a relationship

She asked me why would he not want a relationship. She seemed genuinely confused

I told her

“Half of Y’all suck d*ck and f*ck on the first night. Why on earth would he need a relationship?”

She looked at me like I took a sh*t in the office coffee maker or something

Are y’all really confused?

Sounds like the premise of a Jadakiss song

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

and @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! social media is why things are getting worse. twitter and the gram

Social media is just another window into human nature. We get out what we put in. It doesn't do anything.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

Women

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

This is true but good lord are there a lot of simps out there. I’m starting t realize that even some of my homeboys got simpin tendencies.

ALOT of dudes do

I know brehs that have no reason to be simps..got it going good for themselves but social programming has made them put women on a high ass pedestal...and now they're in their 20s and they're playing catch up trying to break old habits.

Alot of brehs let these broads social media status trick them into thinking these women are high value.

shyt the more "boss bytch,confident" a womaj appears on social media, the more insecure, and socially awkward she probably is.

 

[Taadow]

Sounds like the premise of a Jadakiss song

"Kiss a pie cutter, but not a baker/
She best be a Fucc First Dater or I chits in her coffee maker
The Kuerig joint with the self-ground feature,
You thought I chopped Beans before? Woah! (Haaaaaaaaaa)"

 

[You Win Perfect]

Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

women want men that are desired or taken by other women....period

they will lie and try to play stupid like this isn't the case. like with OP

 

[BXKingPin82]

when you get yourself a good chick you feel like you got the muthafukkin Power Cosmic and shyt.


shyt, not only is Boobi my lady, shes my best friend.
we're like Cheech and Chong out this bytch.
:noreha:

shyt, even my sons mom and i are still real tight.

but i get it.
you know, young headz get that shyt out your system.
especially now.
you muthafukkas got it maaaaaaaad easy right now.


be outside on a site for work, hoes just runnin round twerkin and shyt.
be fukkin 10 am these muthafukkas dressed like its already club night and shyt.


but you get the right chick yall both respect each other and all that shyts feels good.

 

[Astroslik]

@Cynic