Girlfriends that don’t cook

[the cool]

And rarely clean

how or do y’all deal with this. Or it’s bushes time

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I haven’t had this problem, but I did ask earlier in this relationship at what point is it expected. We were about 2-3 months in.

She started doing everything around month 4. When I say everything, I mean literally everything including cleaning the toilet.

But dinner isn’t done every night, because she had to go back to work, and I still get to work from home.


Edit to add: I do the trash, and pay most of the bills, and buy the food.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Why would she become your girlfriend
In the first place with this known information from jump

 

[Music Fiend]

Personally, I'm messy. So I need a clean and organized woman.

But I do cook and clean up, I'm just terrible at making a mess in 4 hours.

My ex claimed to be this clean person that is organized. She'd cook at times, but mainly the same 2/3 dishes with minimal effort (Think buying salmon and seasoning hen throwing in the oven). 5 minutes of work tops.

I was unorganized but the reality is, there wasn't a balance because she doesn't clean much. She likes to prevent mess, like making suggestions that everyone wash their own dish and never had a dish in the sink.

I looked at her like , so Ima do 80% of the cooking and you gonna te me I gotta wash a bowl every time fukk that. One of the issues that led to us splitting

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Personally, I'm messy. So I need a clean and organized woman.

But I do cook and clean up, I'm just terrible at making a mess in 4 hours.

My ex claimed to be this clean person that is organized. She'd cook at times, but mainly the same 2/3 dishes with minimal effort (Think buying salmon and seasoning hen throwing in the oven). 5 minutes of work tops.

I was unorganized but the reality is, there wasn't a balance because she doesn't clean much. She likes to prevent mess, like making suggestions that everyone wash their own dish and never had a dish in the sink.

I looked at her like , so Ima do 80% of the cooking and you gonna te me I gotta wash a bowl every time fukk that. One of the issues that led to us splitting

Breh, when I cook, the kitchen looks like I was making bombs and shyt. I can mess up a kitchen EASILY. The food is delicious, but I’m a messy cook too. My girl cleans as she goes. Kitchen be clean as hell before we even eat.



But I need to have more cabinets installed, because there is a lot on the counters, and shelf, because I don’t have enough cabinets.



She wants to decorate, but I’m not cool with all those words and sayings framed on the wall. Why do women need words on the wall?

 

[Neuromancer]

That's called a Jump off.

 

[Savvir]

bushes time

there it is

 

[The Radiant One]

Yes I was in that relationship it was awful she wasn’t fukking she never made me cum in the last nine months.

this is a woman that you cannot wife.

 

[the cool]

Why would she become your girlfriend
In the first place with this known information from jump

didn't know from the jump until we moved in together. after being togehter for 2 years

 

[Hater Eraser]

 

[13473]

i thought this would be an appreciation thread

 

[GetSomeMoney]

Yes I was in that relationship it was awful she wasn’t fukking she never made me cum in the last nine months.

this is a woman that you cannot wife.

why did you let that shyt go on for 9 months??

 

[NinoBrown]

Girlfriends that don't cook aren't girlfriend material, automatic jump off or third spot player on the roster...

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

¿Dónde hacen eso?

 

[The Radiant One]

why did you let that shyt go on for 9 months??

Trying to please her and be a “good boyfriend “we had a big fight when she found I was going to a stripper. After she went through my phone and looked at the cash app with me giving her $100. No more I Went on a date with this girl and already she’s trying to get me in a relationship.