Give me advice Brehs(SRS)

[MikelArteta]

The only people who say the past doesn't matter are those with such a skittish past they don't want to talk about.

The past defines you and males you who are.

So the past doesn't matter why have a resume when applying for a job

Why do a home inspection

Why take that used car to a mechanic

Why do banks do a credit check?

Why do grades matter when applying to college?


So go hire that sexual offender to paint your house while your at work and your wife and kids are at home it happaned ten years ago the past is the past.

Hire that fraudster to run finances at your company

As I said hos just have incubation periods like serial killers, their whoredome can lie dormant for years but in the end the urges will pop back up again

Half of marriages end in divorce, 60 percent of wives will cheat at one point.

Just dive right in who cares about that gangbang orgy on xhamster she's in

Who cares about that 200k school loans she has

Who cares she's a slore

Thecoli.com yall

 

[At30wecashout]

The only people who say the past doesn't matter are those with such a skittish past they don't want to talk about.

The past defines you and males you who are.

So the past doesn't matter why have a resume when applying for a job

Why do a home inspection

Why take that used car to a mechanic

Why do banks do a credit check?

Why do grades matter when applying to college?

One of those things I agree with you on. I wouldn't 100% disqualify someone because of a checkered past,
but when you have a chick that is wigging the fukk out a few months into a relationship, looking at her family
and past partners paint a picture of:

A: The kinda life she was brought up in
and
B: The kinda shyt she chose to involve herself in

 

[MikelArteta]

I would, you have one ljfre.

I'm screening, people are set in their ways and rarely change.

Its sad how weak men are of today accepting anything because she looks good or gives em sex.

Women will disqualify you for being short and many other stupid ass reasons, but she cheated on every bf I'll be different, she was a smut but she changed man she just needed a guy to show her she cares.

Many women are like cobras they belong in the wild stop trying to domesticate them

One of those things I agree with you on. I wouldn't 100% disqualify someone because of a checkered past,
but when you have a chick that is wigging the fukk out a few months into a relationship, looking at her family
and past partners paint a picture of:

A: The kinda life she was brought up in
and
B: The kinda shyt she chose to involve herself in

 

[At30wecashout]

I would, you have one ljfre.

I'm screening, people are set in their ways and rarely change.

Its sad how weak men are of today accepting anything because she looks good or gives em sex.

Women will disqualify you for being short and many other stupid ass reasons, but she cheated on every bf I'll be different, she was a smut but she changed man she just needed a guy to show her she cares.

Many women are like cobras they belong in the wild stop trying to domesticate them

Yea, some qualities aren't a point of contention for me, however, it is how it is. I avoided being Mr. flavor of the month and marched
to my own beat, so now I don't have a track record of shytty decisions that will give a headache to a potential partner in the future.

Hoping to find someone like that when I do wanna settle down, though that won't be for a good while. Too much to see and do when my earning
power goes up to tie myself down.

 

[The Mad Titan]

The past matter more for some than others, if you want a job at Mc Donald's. Your past history doesn't matter to much, but if you want a job with the government or state, your past better look pretty good. The same thing can be said for people, the past has a lasting effect on who you are. Its doesn't define you, but it molds you... and you can use those experiences to become an amazing person.

Your not a slave to your past, but most people don't know how to break those bonds or they just don't want too... If you cringe at chicks with body counts over 10 then its best you avoid them 100 percent. I person feel that people who've been through serious struggle or been a "hoe" or "slut" can make some of the best people and loyal mates if it truly was just a phase...but its a dangerous game to play, and I can't blame anyone that just wants a chick with a clean carfax.

Like it would be strange to be with lets a say a white chick with rich parents, that was totally oblivious the struggle of coming up as a black person. As compared to any other person that struggled with racism or any type of real struggle coming up.

 

[old_timer]

the problem @At30wecashout is that these conversations have multiple participants with different backstories/agendas
some men are like "damn, i don't like feeling i get leftovers or have to put in work for my secondary fallback choice"
that appears to be you (a guess)
other men are like "i can't get any women to pay attention to me whatsoever unless i hand them cash"
still others are locked in a loop where a past failure (probably something relatively minor) still bothers them
let's say they weren't elected homecoming king
so they create an all-consuming world view around how anyone voted homecoming king is a big fat fakkit who likes to suck dikks
and any woman who found that guy cute in any way must be mocked on a non-stop daily basis
i mean, i could understand that frustration for a few days/weeks until they get over it
but the 10 year reunion has come and gone yet they still push that agenda
their peer group is mostly married- they are still talking about what happened on the limo ride to the prom

i read your words- i acknowledge it's a legitimate issue
but you only do yourself a disservice mingling with men on the cash or homecoming tip
their negativity just creates more disgruntled feelings in your mind

motivation is a big part of happiness
i did a marathon with no hopes of "winning" the race
i won by finishing the goal i set for myself
i will do ten things today where i am in ZERO danger of being considered good at them
but i still find meaning and satisfaction by "competing" with myself
there are entire books on the subject, etc. so this is not a lecture
i'm just saying, there are dangers in not keeping it moving

 

[The Mad Titan]

the problem @At30wecashout is that these conversations have multiple participants with different backstories/agendas
some men are like "damn, i don't like feeling i get leftovers or have to put in work for my secondary fallback choice"
that appears to be you (a guess)
other men are like "i can't get any women to pay attention to me whatsoever unless i hand them cash"
still others are locked in a loop where a past failure (probably something relatively minor) still bothers them
let's say they weren't elected homecoming king
so they create an all-consuming world view around how anyone voted homecoming king is a big fat fakkit who likes to suck dikks
and any woman who found that guy cute in any way must be mocked on a non-stop daily basis
i mean, i could understand that frustration for a few days/weeks until they get over it
but the 10 year reunion has come and gone yet they still push that agenda
their peer group is mostly married- they are still talking about what happened on the limo ride to the prom

i read your words- i acknowledge it's a legitimate issue
but you only do yourself a disservice mingling with men on the cash or homecoming tip
their negativity just creates more disgruntled feelings in your mind

motivation is a big part of happiness
i did a marathon with no hopes of "winning" the race
i won by finishing the goal i set for myself
i will do ten things today where i am in ZERO danger of being considered good at them
but i still find meaning and satisfaction by "competing" with myself
there are entire books on the subject, etc. so this is not a lecture
i'm just saying, there are dangers in not keeping it moving

This is some of realest talk spit on the coli

 

[At30wecashout]

the problem @At30wecashout is that these conversations have multiple participants with different backstories/agendas
some men are like "damn, i don't like feeling i get leftovers or have to put in work for my secondary fallback choice"
that appears to be you (a guess)
other men are like "i can't get any women to pay attention to me whatsoever unless i hand them cash"
still others are locked in a loop where a past failure (probably something relatively minor) still bothers them
let's say they weren't elected homecoming king
so they create an all-consuming world view around how anyone voted homecoming king is a big fat fakkit who likes to suck dikks
and any woman who found that guy cute in any way must be mocked on a non-stop daily basis
i mean, i could understand that frustration for a few days/weeks until they get over it
but the 10 year reunion has come and gone yet they still push that agenda
their peer group is mostly married- they are still talking about what happened on the limo ride to the prom

i read your words- i acknowledge it's a legitimate issue
but you only do yourself a disservice mingling with men on the cash or homecoming tip
their negativity just creates more disgruntled feelings in your mind

motivation is a big part of happiness
i did a marathon with no hopes of "winning" the race
i won by finishing the goal i set for myself
i will do ten things today where i am in ZERO danger of being considered good at them
but i still find meaning and satisfaction by "competing" with myself
there are entire books on the subject, etc. so this is not a lecture
i'm just saying, there are dangers in not keeping it moving

Oh I hear you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. However, like most things in life, it is nice to find people who share
common ground on some things. Growing physically and mentally with someone is a very romantic notion, far more preferred
than the opposite of coming together with someone who has been groomed a certain way due to past behaviors.

I don't feel I can disqualify others 100% for past ills, however when I am thinking to myself "This is the most fun shyt I have ever been apart of"
the last thing I want to hear from my partner is "Eh, wasn't so great. Been there, done that." Sex and relationships are no different, hence the
challenge of May-December relationships. One person is still discovering stuff the other has long since been through.

It also shows when you have people who have low self-esteem or a lack of confidence in themselves and their partners because their past
choices have conditioned them to think the worst of things. The "nikkas/bytches aint shyt" mentality we wax poetic about. I avoided all of that,
and many other people have as well. Our preference, all things equal, would be to meet other people who did as well.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I don't know how I'm going overcome as I understand most women go through that Hoe phase.

No, they don't. Once you realize this, your issues with women will be over.​

Most decent looking women are "sexually promiscuous"/on that Hoe game

This is also patently false. I've found most women to be more on the 'self-love' bus until they find someone compatible and trustworthy.

Y'all really need to talk to actual women and find these things out rather than rely on gossip, rumors, and porn.
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