Given up on your future, is one of the smartest things u can do

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everyone dont have hopes and dreams is his point- everybody is not striving for something.. :snoop:Its like one weekend my girl said "what we doing this weekend" I said nothing at all. Some ppl are happy to fill their bellies, and sleep, and enjoy laughter and dont want to start a business, or be good at anything. We just make it seem like you MUST have a passion or dreams in this world.
What is his GOAL is to do nothing and just live life by the moment? :manny:

You took that too literal. Wanting to get by in life, not having a social life, existing to see another day ect are all acceptable things. Your goal doesn't have to be something as tangible as getting your dream job or marrying your ideal girl. Living life to its fullest is a legitimate aspiration but if you don't care about where your next meal comes from or if you decide to quit your job because you don't care to follow society's rules and actually earn money then you're on the same level as a bum on the street. You can be ok with that, but you can't get mad or deny the fact that you basically ain't shyt.
 
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You took that too literal. Wanting to get by in life, not having a social life, existing to see another day ect are all acceptable things. Your goal doesn't have to be something as tangible as getting your dream job or marrying your ideal girl. Living life to its fullest is a legitimate aspiration but if you don't care about where your next meal comes from or if you decide to quit your job because you don't care to follow society's rules and actually earn money then you're on the same level as a bum on the street. You can be ok with that, but you can't get mad or deny the fact that you basically ain't shyt.


No I read your question right, you simply do not get it. You saying "find another goal" shows that you miss the point. Not mad, and not calling you "dumb" just saying I understand how ppl who have bought in to the system that they cant wrap their head around "I dont have any goals, and Im not looking to fill any void with a goal. Simply waking up is literally enough."
 

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You took that too literal. Wanting to get by in life, not having a social life, existing to see another day ect are all acceptable things. Your goal doesn't have to be something as tangible as getting your dream job or marrying your ideal girl. Living life to its fullest is a legitimate aspiration but if you don't care about where your next meal comes from or if you decide to quit your job because you don't care to follow society's rules and actually earn money then you're on the same level as a bum on the street. You can be ok with that, but you can't get mad or deny the fact that you basically ain't shyt.

thats your own perception tho....i might be a loser in your eyes, but a winner in somebody eles....so why would i care?
 

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thats your own perception tho....i might be a loser in your eyes, but a winner in somebody eles....so why would i care?

You clearly don't, but that wasn't the point to begin with. There will always be people who think like you and that's why any and everything in this world can become normal. That in itself becomes a rule and a aspiration. But besides getting technical, my post is basically negating your thread. Giving up on goals and just winging it in life isn't the smartest thing you can do. It's a last resort and defeatist mentality. You feel free because you don't care.
 

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Hating nikkas mad at me because I dont give a fukk about what they think when they "suggest" I do something or change something about myself. Recognize that their "suggestions" are really them telling you that you must do something or else. They ask me, why don't I talk to everyone I meet. I tell them, I only talk when there is something to say, and I dont waste my time with meaningless association. If I can't find common ground, there isn't anything else to say. Got them heated just off that one answer brehs. :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:They said I need to change my personality. I smiled and grinned.
bytches be doing the most to get my attention so I have an unlimited resource of them. :lolbron:

People really don't like someone doing their own thing. They also don't like people who are off to themselves and not trying to be all up in their face.

You have to be careful of who you share your dreams with or let into your personal space. If you are doing something, even just close to what they wish they could they will hate so hard.

Good advice is great but take all advice with a grain of salt, everyone doesn't want to help or they don't understand.
 

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You clearly don't, but that wasn't the point to begin with. There will always be people who think like you and that's why any and everything in this world can become normal. That in itself becomes a rule and a aspiration. But besides getting technical, my post is basically negating your thread. Giving up on goals and just winging it in life isn't the smartest thing you can do. It's a last resort and defeatist mentality. You feel free because you don't care.
You're right, and why not wing it ? If we can't control our own destiny....why try?
 

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You're right, and why not wing it ? If we can't control our own destiny....why try?

Well at some point some of us decide that other people in our lives are important too and making sure that they're happy and/or taken care of keeps us going. Some of us strive to not be disappointments.
 
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