#GMB..Girlfriend refused to be exclusive until her Boyfriend proposed

Eddy Gordo

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I'm ain't mad at her. She kept it 100 and he knowingly went with it. But,
With me as his girlfriend, he would get full access to me. He would sleep in my bed, lean on me for emotional support, show me off to his friends and enjoy my company at family gatherings.
In what world is what she brings to the relationship worth a ring?:scust:
 

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She did what our great grands & those before them did...mixed with new age, modern dating. No more putting all your eggs in 1 basket, being strung along, wasting the pretty...

Good for her and more people should date this way - say what they mean & mean what they say, put his or his expectations on the table and be prepared to move on if they aren't met. If that's what she wanted within the confines of a relationship and she found a willing participant, I'm not mad at her at all.

WTH you getting tight with another person's relationship requirements for.

I actually agree in a sense and the old generation had a lot more stable and real relationships. What I am mad at is she made a ring a requirement for any commitment as a girlfriend. Even the old folks dated, though much shorter and more direct.

If she was saying he wasn't smashing until she got a ring, I wouldn't be too mad at her but claiming I have to seal the deal 8 weeks after meeting you makes me wonder what you are scared of coming out later (body count, asinine habits, control freak, etc.)

But he went along with it so who cares :yeshrug:
 

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She did what our great grands & those before them did...mixed with new age, modern dating. No more putting all your eggs in 1 basket, being strung along, wasting the pretty...

Good for her and more people should date this way - say what they mean & mean what they say, put his or his expectations on the table and be prepared to move on if they aren't met. If that's what she wanted within the confines of a relationship and she found a willing participant, I'm not mad at her at all.

WTH you getting tight with another person's relationship requirements for.
Nah, from what I know about my grand and great-grands, their dating was pretty straight-forward and long-term.
Dating that way always confused me, maybe I'm a person who's not slutty, but I like straight-forward, honest exclusivity. I don't have the time to run around chasing after multiple women with my head cut-off like a trifling pastor. We start dating, I need to know I'm not wasting my time and that this is moving toward something. Not a Hunger Games of dating. Women aren't a prize, men aren't a prize, they're people.
 

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Nah, from what I know about my grand and great-grands, their dating was pretty straight-forward and long-term.
Dating that way always confused me, maybe I'm a person who's not slutty, but I like straight-forward, honest exclusivity. I don't have the time to run around chasing after multiple women with my head cut-off like a trifling pastor. We start dating, I need to know I'm not wasting my time and that this is moving toward something. Not a Hunger Games of dating. Women aren't a prize, men aren't a prize, they're people.
Well, then your sentiments align with hers in that you want to date with an end in sight.
Each person has the right to define who & what they commit to, dedicate to, give time & energy to.
She was honest about what she wanted, why she wanted it, & what her plan of action would be until she got it...from him or another man. I like it.
 

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And I suppose this is Chris

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makes sense.
 

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Well, then your sentiments align with hers in that you want to date with an end in sight.
Each person has the right to define who & what they commit to, dedicate to, give time & energy to.
She was honest about what she wanted, why she wanted it, & what her plan of action would be until she got it...from him or another man. I like it.
I just don't have ridiculous, contrived, and self-righteous ways of doing so.
I'm not mad at her, if she found men stupid enough to tap-dance for her until she picked a winner, more power to her.
I just don't like attempts at comparing the rather silly methodology, to any kind of worthwhile dating systems.
He wore a Black button-down with a maroon tie, this may have been the first time he ever had sex too :mjlol:
 
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