#GMB..Girlfriend refused to be exclusive until her Boyfriend proposed

[Keepya onya toes]

I agree with her.

If Black women did this instead of being baby moms they could be wifey and the oow baby syndrome that's rampant in black communities will go down.

 

[daboywonder2002]

I would have continued to smash for a year then dip before the wedding. Fukk outa here

Why do you need a girlfriend to smash though?

 

[the bossman]

Looking at Nigerian divorce rates vs American.... I would say yes

stop it breh that's a terrible metric to use. West African culture HEAVILY frowns upon divorce. The social stigma is too great.

I understand the African relationship mentality, but that shyt doesn't work here in the states. Back home the culture is completely different. There is no wife taking you to court over irreconcilable differences. Police will literally laugh at a bytch if she tries to file a complaint that her husband beat her. It's not even close breh

 

[Here Comes the Pain]

And I suppose this is Chris

Looks like Chris maxed out.

All of this make more sense now.

 

[Maddmike]

Why do you need a girlfriend to smash though?

I don't. Id do it just because she would have presented me with that ridiculous scenario

 

[*Angel*]

She did it right to reach the goal she set.

 

[daboywonder2002]

Ya'll way of thinking is backwards. OH I DON'T WANNA SHARE THAT GIRL. so let me make a commitment. THAT IS DUMB AS HELL. If you love her and don't wanna share her, MARRY HER. if not, leave her alone. but dont sit here and make someone your girl cause you don't wanna share her.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

I agree with her.

If Black women did this instead of being baby moms they could be wifey and the oow baby syndrome that's rampant in black communities will go down.

No they'll just not marry us

They don't wanna marry us when we giving them our all, you think they gonna do it when they not getting nothing.

Everything isn't for everybody.

Plus let's be honest even if a bunch of black women decided to go this route who wants a man marrying you just to get consistent p*ssy because he wanted a black women but every black women withholding so he just took the plunge.

 

[chkmeout]

stop it breh that's a terrible metric to use. West African culture HEAVILY frowns upon divorce. The social stigma is too great.


I understand the African relationship mentality, but that shyt doesn't work here in the states. Back home the culture is completely different. There is no wife taking you to court over irreconcilable differences. Police will literally laugh at a bytch if she tries to file a complaint that her husband beat her. It's not even close breh

Thank God


Feel sorry for you nikkas dealing with these mentally sick uncultured bytches

 

[the bossman]

Ya'll way of thinking is backwards. OH I DON'T WANNA SHARE THAT GIRL. so let me make a commitment. THAT IS DUMB AS HELL. If you love her and don't wanna share her, MARRY HER. if not, leave her alone. but dont sit here and make someone your girl cause you don't wanna share her.

your no gf/bf theory is fugazi breh. You don't go from not having a chick at all to marrying one in 5 months. You really advocating brehs get married in USA to women whom they barely know & haven't vetted out in a relationship?

 

[BrehWyatt]

We ain't mad. We at the dude for being so dumb. He either lacked male role models as a kid or somebody didn't teach him right.

This is about perception. He did what it took to get what it was he wanted. To some people, that's called being a man.

The woman laid out her expectations. The dude met them. It is what it is. I see no problems. If a man had done the same thing to a woman and had found him someone who went along with it, would the same detractors look down on that, or would he be a real ass nikka?

Not enough people date with the intent to marry. This woman apparently did. Folks in here hot because her rules to the game don't line up with hers, yet she's out here in the field getting a W all the same -- at least in her mind. There are really no rules to this shyt. Only results. She got the ones she wanted and didn't have to "date" Chris for five years or whatever to get them.

 

[southern.girl]

Fellas ya'll may clown me but I 100 percent agree with her. Having a girlfriend is a waste of time. My advice is be a bachelor, focus on YOU and your goals. YOu don't need a girlfriend to have sex. YOu don't need a girlfriend to KEEP YOU FOCUSED OR HOLD YOU DOWN. All that testing the waters before proposing is a bunch of bs. and if you do find that special woman who is everything you ever wanted- JUST MARRY HER. No need to waste time being boyfriend and girlfriend.

 

[daboywonder2002]

your no gf/bf theory is fugazi breh. You don't go from not having a chick at all to marrying one in 5 months. You really advocating brehs get married in USA to women whom they barely know & haven't vetted out in a relationship?

I personally wouldn't marry a female after 5 months. but at the same time, do you need to make someone your girlfriend to get to know them? NO YOU DON'T. You can go out on dates and sleep together WITHOUT THE COMMITMENT. That's what im getting at.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Ya'll nikkas sleepin on good post like this.
The fukk you need a gf for?

There's not even a term for girlfriends in Nigeria

You (as a man), focus on your shyt, build yourself up, find a woman you think is a attractive and then the breif and deliberate courting process begins.
You go to her father and ask for her hand in marriage. You dont just "do life" with a girl for 5 years and then marry them



Wasting time, energy, money on women that you don't intend to marry is one of the stupidest things a young rish man can do

I know this is what people used to do, but this still feels like a young mistake to me. Some girls don't reveal their lazy / crazy / ho / lame side until 3-4 years in. Get stuck with a lemon because there's no word for girlfriends in Nigeria, crehs

 

[Rell Lauren]

Nothing empowering about being a whore. Feminism is on its last legs.