#GMB..Girlfriend refused to be exclusive until her Boyfriend proposed

[Maddmike]

I would have continued to smash for a year then dip before the wedding. Fukk outa here

 

[Poitier]

So when Chris asked me to be his girlfriend, I refused. I told him I really liked him, but I didn’t want to be exclusive. I would continue dating him while also spending time with other men. And if things started to get serious with someone else, I would let him know — but I made sure he understood I didn’t plan on being any man’s girlfriend, so he didn’t think my refusal was just about him.

She told him what it is so I'm not seeing an issue there

I don't get this idea that 2 months isn't enough of a time to pursue monogamy.....thats how yall end up in 5 year situationships and shyt

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

And I suppose this is Chris

of course he looks like that

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

And that dikkhead thinks because he proposed he suddenly stopped sharing that girl instantly.

 

[thewarrior05]

huh intresting............................................................. So I guess women have no problem with this huh

 

[Easy-E]

#GMB
#UNTOUCHABLE

Yea, because the demands end there

 

[im_sleep]

 

[mcdivit85]

Honestly, good for her....she offered up a contract and he signed it. She got what she wanted

Dating is about social contract. Whoever has the strongest contract and the most leverage wins. That simple. The person who is more willing to walk away than the other has the upper hand. She was willing to call his bluff and take a chance that she would lose out. They both ended up getting what they wanted....each other.

Dudes are going to hate on this story, but the game is

And it's not like dude didn't have the opportunity to counter with his own offers during contract negotiation. Offers and counter offers....that basically sums up dating and social interaction in general. Dude could have proposed an Option Clause where if she was dating some new guy and new guy offered marriage, she had to come back to him and let him have first option on whether to counter new dude's offer.

Or dude could have countered with a "All dates are dutch" offer since they weren't exclusive and she was providing no exclusive benefits to him. Therefore, he owed no her exclusive right to free dinners, movies, entertainment, etc.

Besides, he could've chalked and walked, but he didn't

Peace

 

[BrehWyatt]

The chick was straight up about her intentions and expectations and found a dude who was willing to meet them.

She did it right, in the most technical sense. Not how I would have done it, but more people need to be straight up with people when it comes to what they're about in this dating game. Saves a lot of time, confusion and disappointment.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Oh please. Majority of men out here have the "single until married" mentality. Even on here y'all talk about never being a faithful EVER.

So what's the problem?

Expect your girl to share you, but you can't share her brehs....

 

[African_brehda]

CACS gonn CAC. I can't imagine any black man doing this shyt

 

[Mazino]

I am an empowered woman of the 21st century

I stopped reading right here, anything that followed was gonna be some ol' bullshyt.

 

[Splakavellie504]

I honestly can't knock her for being straightforward but Chris is stupid as hell. I'm supposed to share you with other men while at the same time trying to prove to you that I want to be committed to you

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I don't feel sorry for simps. she will carry this habit on into marriage. she has a desire to be courted constantly because she puts her value in how others perceive her. attention seeking behaviour is an indication of lack of self value.

In general attraction should be mutual and chasing a minimum to avoid such fukkery. A man and woman will do anything to keep the person they want in their life. If that effort is one sided then don't do it to yourself.

 

[Sterling Archer]

So when Chris asked me to be his girlfriend, I refused. I told him I really liked him, but I didn’t want to be exclusive. I would continue dating him while also spending time with other men. And if things started to get serious with someone else, I would let him know — but I made sure he understood I didn’t plan on being any man’s girlfriend, so he didn’t think my refusal was just about him.

She kept it honest from the very jump. Told him how things were and allowed him to make the decision to get involved. I can't be mad at that.