to get to know someone as a potential life partner? hell the fukk yes. how do you start seeing how she fits into your life if y'all are not exclusive?
And I suppose this is Chris
to get to know someone as a potential life partner? hell the fukk yes. how do you start seeing how she fits into your life if y'all are not exclusive?
All ya aunts and grandma at the Thanksgiving dinner asking where's that nice girl Ashley and you say "oh she's out with Tyrone."
Breh sitting at the restaurant with the ring in his pocket ready to propose but he gotta wait till she's finished with Kevin and for Deshaun to drop her off
I know this is what people used to do, but this still feels like a young mistake to me. Some girls don't reveal their lazy / crazy / ho / lame side until 3-4 years in. Get stuck with a lemon because there's no word for girlfriends in Nigeria, crehs
the shyt I hear human beings say man, fukk this earth.
I actually agree in a sense and the old generation had a lot more stable and real relationships. What I am mad at is she made a ring a requirement for any commitment as a girlfriend. Even the old folks dated, though much shorter and more direct.
If she was saying he wasn't smashing until she got a ring, I wouldn't be too mad at her but claiming I have to seal the deal 8 weeks after meeting you makes me wonder what you are scared of coming out later (body count, asinine habits, control freak, etc.)
But he went along with it so who cares
It actually seemed like a masterful way to take an L.Ya'll nikkas sleepin on good post like this.
The fukk you need a gf for?
There's not even a term for girlfriends in Nigeria
You (as a man), focus on your shyt, build yourself up, find a woman you think is a attractive and then the breif and deliberate courting process begins.
You go to her father and ask for her hand in marriage. You dont just "do life" with a girl for 5 years and then marry them
Wasting time, energy, money on women that you don't intend to marry is one of the stupidest things a young rish man can do
breh you are not moving in together with some random chick who still out fukking other nikkas. you are not introducing some random chick still fukking other nikkas to your parents. it's a different level. it's a certain level of commitment that you don't have with just some random chick you fukkin. what you're preaching may work in other cultures, but it don't work in the USA. If you cool with going down on one knee for some broad who just got done wiping the cum off her face from another breh less than an hour before yalls date then do you.
