Good Women Don't Stay Single more than a year unless She's Fat, Ugly, Old or/and has kids.

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All the best women get wifed up between 23 and 26. After that, you’re dealing with the women on the clearance rack.

For the most part this is true. As a single Man in his early 30s a woman past 25 and not in a serious long term relationship is either extremely career driven, a homebody, desperately trying to find a man or crazy.

It’s just the reality. Most dudes who understand life wifed these girls up at an early age. Unless you been working on yourself, have a well off job, got serious game, you’re gonna struggle in your 30s. Even finding a women around your age that single is an uphill battle.

Yes it is true that at the age of 30 dating is easier and women throw themselves at you but the ones you’re dating and throwing themselves at you is only because it’s a last resort for them.

I have older divorced, single moms, and cheating married women constantly throwing themselves my way but it’s not even worth a nut to pursue them and only a fool would even entertain a relationship with them.

My problem was in my 20s I was struggling to finish college and start a career that I pushed away any good women and didn’t even pursue relationships. Now at 32 the bachelor life has its shortcomings and you mostly deal with broken women. There are goods ones left but you have to be constantly looking at your radar for wife material.
 

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Nobody is settling for what they deem homely.

Bruh what world do y’all live in? The ugliest person I’ve ever seen in my life is married and had 2 kids by 2 different men before that. She’s literally obese and shaped like a double scoop ice cream cone. She has the face that makes you immediately go :hhh: as soon as you see her. Hideous people get with other hideous people. And she has the worst personality ever, an entitled Karen.
 

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A good anything is all relative
Once again nikkas living in idealism and not the real world
Those same women that are “good”
Eventually turn jaded
Or leave their “good marriage” by their late 30s into their 40s because of FOMO
Or tired of just being “mother”
But let you nikkas tell it
 

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Bruh what world do y’all live in? The ugliest person I’ve ever seen in my life is married and had 2 kids by 2 different men before that. She’s literally obese and shaped like a double scoop ice cream cone. She has the face that makes you immediately go :hhh: as soon as you see her. Hideous people get with other hideous people. And she has the worst personality ever, an entitled Karen.
The reality where your opinion doesn’t equate to always equate to what another person seems attractive.

That’s your judgement on her looks. Not the men she is was married to. I said “they deem” not “you deem”.
 
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A good anything is all relative
Once again nikkas living in idealism and not the real world
Those same women that are “good”
Eventually turn jaded
Or leave their “good marriage” by their late 30s into their 40s because of FOMO
Or tired of just being “mother”
But let you nikkas tell it

Absolutely right. Usually once there kids are in HS. These good women start to veer from there relationship. But still this is only a percentage and most don’t leave their marriage.
 

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For the most part this is true. As a single Man in his early 30s a woman past 25 and not in a serious long term relationship is either extremely career driven, a homebody, desperately trying to find a man or crazy.

It’s just the reality. Most dudes who understand life wifed these girls up at an early age. Unless you been working on yourself, have a well off job, got serious game, you’re gonna struggle in your 30s. Even finding a women around your age that single is an uphill battle.

Yes it is true that at the age of 30 dating is easier and women throw themselves at you but the ones you’re dating and throwing themselves at you is only because it’s a last resort for them.

I have older divorced, single moms, and cheating married women constantly throwing themselves my way but it’s not even worth a nut to pursue them and only a fool would even entertain a relationship with them.

My problem was in my 20s I was struggling to finish college and start a career that I pushed away any good women and didn’t even pursue relationships. Now at 32 the bachelor life has its shortcomings and you mostly deal with broken women. There are goods ones left but you have to be constantly looking at your radar for wife material.
Those things qualify a women as clearance rack?
 

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My good friend is a physician. She’s none of those things.
 

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Again sir the post I quoted was saying that single moms still have men lining up. I agreed with him giving an example You decided to swoop in and criticize it saying "of course shes single if shes ugly". I gave another example where the woman is not ugly you then proceed to say "men choosing a woman they deem most attractive is not a revelation" :dahell:

I never claimed to make some grand revelation
@DonB90 and I are basically saying this is fukkin common sense but yall internet nikkas try to make narratives that don't match reall life. An attractive-average lookin woman will never have to die alone unless she chooses to even if she a single mom.
What type of men are lining up to date women with multiple kids though:patrice: are they lining up to put a ring on their finger or to smash?
 

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If you meet any single "good woman" past the age of 30 then shes only a "good woman" because the dating market forces her to be one. The real bonafide good women dont even make it to 26 without a ring on their finger and be ushered out the game by some dude. You know who im talking about, that one girl in college you were crushing badly on but got cold feet when you thought about approaching cause you felt she was legit too good for you and then you found out 2 years later that she was married? Yeah those are the real "good women".
 

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Those things qualify a women as clearance rack?

yes. clearance rack is always a discounted price. Its not all bad you can always find name brand on the clearances rack. There are legit outliers for 30 year old plus still single that are good wholesome women, they are just hard to find.


If you meet any single "good woman" past the age of 30 then shes only a "good woman" because the dating market forces her to be one. The real bonafide good women dont even make it to 26 without a ring on their finger and be ushered out the game by some dude. You know who im talking about, that one girl in college you were crushing badly on but got cold feet when you thought about approaching cause you felt she was legit too good for you and then you found out 2 years later that she was married? Yeah those are the real "good women".

Exactly. I cant even count how many women I passed on beacuse I legit thought I wasnt good enough and choose racket fast girls. Fast forward today these girls settled hard for average dudes. I'm not mad or bitter. But it took me many years to understand what a good women was.
 

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yes. clearance rack is always a discounted price. Its not all bad you can always find name brand on the clearances rack. There are legit outliers for 30 year old plus still single that are good wholesome women, they are just hard to find.




Exactly. I cant even count how many women I passed on beacuse I legit thought I wasnt good enough and choose racket fast girls. Fast forward today these girls settled hard for average dudes. I'm not mad or bitter. But it took me many years to understand what a good women was.
Man, being about your career and not being out in the streets is the clearance rack.

I mean if that’s your standard……best of luck
 
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Man, being about your career and not being out in the streets is the clearance rack.

I mean if that’s your standard……best of luck

When I was 18-22 years old it was my circle of friends, now I'm around professionals and its a breath of fresh air.

The streets after 21 is for the damned not a place you want to be, its a shame we have years of brainwahsing telling us when we are young that thats what is all about.
 

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When I was 18-22 years old it was my circle of friends, now I'm around professionals and its a breath of fresh air.

The streets after 21 is for the damned not a place you want to be, its a shame we have years of brainwahsing telling us when we are young that thats what is all about.
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