Good Women Don't Stay Single more than a year unless She's Fat, Ugly, Old or/and has kids.

[HabitualChiller]

If you meet any single "good woman" past the age of 30 then shes only a "good woman" because the dating market forces her to be one. The real bonafide good women dont even make it to 26 without a ring on their finger and be ushered out the game by some dude. You know who im talking about, that one girl in college you were crushing badly on but got cold feet when you thought about approaching cause you felt she was legit too good for you and then you found out 2 years later that she was married? Yeah those are the real "good women".

Yeah.

I personally always that the top-tier ones got scooped up straight out of high school.

 

[The ADD]

Yeah.

I personally always that the top-tier ones got scooped up straight out of high school.

So top tier women developed those traits in high school?

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

So top tier women developed those traits in high school?

Some family building traits can be built early. The sexual/sexy side of her can be built in college or early 20s but some women out here were indirectly trained how to great partners at home very young where their parents drilled certain behavioural patterns and emotional skills at a young age....those skills end up putting them a league above their peers when in college age and those qualities quickly stand out to young nikkas getting to know them.


I remember when I first met the one woman in my life i consider the "one that got away" back in college. She was a freshman and I was in my final year. I remember hitting the , realizing that i done hit the jackport.


Ofcourse young Rev fumbled that because I let her friends get under my skin for hating me and thinking she deserves a nikka from a well off family not the broke hood rough-around-the-edges nikka I was. She was legit the mosy wanted jawn in the entire campus her freshman year. I didnt even know this until after weekend I bagged her. She was a virgin too that time but you couldnt tell, she gad MAD sex appeal and could dress well like a mofo

I ain't met a woman like that since

Googled her one time a few years back and ended on a channel her company hosts where she's out there interviewing world leader and politicians and shes out there in the frontlines fighting for black folks fair wealth redistribution.











Excuse me, i need a moment

 

[The ADD]

Some family building traits can be built early. The sexual/sexy side of her can be built in college or early 20s but some women out here were indirectly trained how to great partners at home very young where their parents drilled certain behavioural patterns and emotional skills at a young age....those skills end up putting them a league above their peers when in college age and those qualities quickly stand out to young nikkas getting to know them.


I remember when I first met the one woman in my life i consider the "one that got away" back in college. She was a freshman and I was in my final year. I remember hitting the , realizing that i done hit the jackport.


Ofcourse young Rev fumbled that because I let her friends get under my skin for hating me and thinking she deserves a nikka from a well off family not the broke hood rough-around-the-edges nikka I was. She was legit the mosy wanted jawn in the entire campus her freshman year. I didnt even know this until after weekend I bagged her. She was a virgin too that time but you couldnt tell, she gad MAD sex appeal and could dress well like a mofo

I ain't met a woman like that since

Googled her one time a few years back and ended on a channel her company hosts where she's out there interviewing world leader and politicians and shes out there in the frontlines fighting for black folks fair wealth redistribution.











Excuse me, i need a moment

None of that answered my question.

That said it’s interesting that the tone of some of the responses is that women have from birth to college to be develop into good partners and after that they are scraps.

Odd thinking, that

 

[HabitualChiller]

So top tier women developed those traits in high school?

always thought* so past tense.

Moreso for white women, yes.

For Black women, I'd say that the best ones are off the market by 24-25.

Latinas get snatched up about as fast as white women in my experience.

 

[The ADD]

always thought* so past tense.

Moreso for white women, yes.

For Black women, I'd say that the best ones are off the market by 24-25.

Latinas get snatched up about as fast as white women in my experience.

Y’all have interesting ways of thinking………….

Must be harsh realizing you missed the window on a good partner.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

None of that answered my question.

That said it’s interesting that the tone of some of the responses is that women have from birth to college to be develop into good partners and after that they are scraps.

Odd thinking, that

You're simpliying things way too much. No one said that. Understand that birth to college most women are in controlled environments that protect them from making fatal and emotionally damaging mistakes.

Onces they are in adulthood and are subject to all sorts of L's and bad decision making then often get jaded by the time they're over 30 and therefore its highly risky to put your chips in such a situation if you're a man who has seen some shyt.

Are there exceptions? Sure but most men aint gon run into such outliers because they are outliers for a reason. Therefore the generalization that 30+ single women are a high risk low reward investment isnt too far off from the truth given the data.

 

[jilla82]

If you meet any single "good woman" past the age of 30 then shes only a "good woman" because the dating market forces her to be one. The real bonafide good women dont even make it to 26 without a ring on their finger and be ushered out the game by some dude. You know who im talking about, that one girl in college you were crushing badly on but got cold feet when you thought about approaching cause you felt she was legit too good for you and then you found out 2 years later that she was married? Yeah those are the real "good women".

im a leader in #GMB but this is goofy.

people change.
we all were born in different circumstances.
and learn in different ways.

that "good girl" that got married at 24 will turn 35 and divorce rape her husband...
...and then go several years fukking different men.

That wild chick at 25 could turn 35 and now know how to take care of a man and be faithful.

the game is more complicated than how people frame things.
experience means a lot in knowing how to navigate relationships and people.

not just Youtube videos and forum post.

 

[The ADD]

You're simpliying things way too much. No one said that. Understand that birth to college most women are in controlled environments that protect them from making fatal and emotionally damaging mistakes.

Onces they are in adulthood and are subject to all sorts of L's and bad decision making then often get jaded by the time they're over 30 and therefore its highly risky to put your chips in such a situation if you're a man who has seen some shyt.

Are there exceptions? Sure but most men aint gon run into such outliers because they are outliers for a reason. Therefore the generalization that 30+ single women are a high risk low reward investment isnt too far off from the truth given the data.

I think your scope of life is a touch narrow if you think finding a woman that is a suitable partner after the age of 30 is likely only possible by her being an outlier.

That said I’m not trying to change anyone’s mind and best of luck to anyone navigating life through that lens. As long as you are happy then walk that path.

 

[Shadow King]

Because I wanted to say that my point still stands even if she not ugly because you said "of course she's single if she's ugly"

Obviously all things the same a man is going with the woman with no kids vs the one with kids

But between an 8 with 2 kids and 5 or 6 with none more men are still gonna be lining for the 8

That's how it be breh

For a legit dime like Draya Michelle or somebody there will be men lining up to step daddy even if she got 10 kids

Cuz nikkas make stupid decisions when a pretty woman is involved

This isn't that clear cut. Y'all overstate the "midness" or unattractiveness of an actual 5/6.

 

[HabitualChiller]

Y’all have interesting ways of thinking………….

Must be harsh realizing you missed the window on a good partner.

I mean, it's not like you can't date a younger woman....

As long as you're in-shape financially and physically, you should be able to find one.

 

[The ADD]

I mean, it's not like you can't date a younger woman....

As long as you're in-shape financially and physically, you should be able to find one.

Talk about outliers………

Of course you can date them. But at 30+ the plan is to marry a woman just out of college? Where are y’all overlapping in social circles for you to be around them?

It’s a common trope on this board with little evidence of real life execution.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

im a leader in #GMB but this is goofy.

people change.
we all were born in different circumstances.
and learn in different ways.

that "good girl" that got married at 24 will turn 35 and divorce rape her husband...
...and then go several years fukking different men.

That wild chick at 25 could turn 35 and now know how to take care of a man and be faithful.

the game is more complicated than how people frame things.
experience means a lot in knowing how to navigate relationships and people.

not just Youtube videos and forum post.

Good post.

I feel it’s important to take a woman as they are today, however don’t ignore the past and if something from the past is revealed that taints your image of her then move on and find one with a suitable history to your liking.

Can’t really use catch-all thoughts when it comes to life and finding a suitable partner.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

I think your scope of life is a touch narrow if you think finding a woman that is a suitable partner after the age of 30 is likely only possible by her being an outlier.

That said I’m not trying to change anyone’s mind and best of luck to anyone navigating life through that lens. As long as you are happy then walk that path.

I love how you lowkey try to talk down on those who share different views from you acting like you got more experience than others and some master zen shyt.


Its cool if you disagree but miss me with that holier than thou grandstanding shyt

 

[The ADD]

I love how you lowkey try to talk down on those who share different views from you acting like you got more experience than others and some master zen shyt.


Its cool if you disagree but miss me with that holier than thou grandstanding shyt

You seem unreasonably offended. I offered my stance and said best of luck to those with the outlook. If you are firm in your view then stand on it.