All I'm saying is, any woman in here saying this is OK better not have ever commented on the amount of soft dudes out here nowadys
It's not even really about if this kid turns out gay. It's more about boys are not girls.
Boys who are smothered by their mamas and allowed to do girly things, sometimes grow up to be straight but bytchMADE. Not gay but just weak. Often (not always) that nikka lacked a strong male influence growing up. If u don't believe me just test this theory. I guarantee you most of the time, with those types of guys that is the case
Some moms letting boys play with Barbies, carry her purse, letting him hang under her at the salon, scared he will get hurt playing with other boys, etc.
So if u see nothing wrong with black boys being encouraged to do this, don't complain about these soft nikkas running around here trying to date y'all but he can't even handle a woman because he was babied by his mama his whole life. It's not about "gayness", its that the last thing we need is more feminized hormonal black men who can't hack it and cry more than females do.