Growth: I now look at Single Mothers in a different light.

[Ziggiy]

Worse than before.



I was watching Kendra G singles show. A NYC chick with 4 kids and 2 babyfathers was looking for a good man of course. She had an amazing sales pitch for her. She should really be selling used cars. I'll drop the link when I get to my phone. But someone commented that dating a woman like her is introducing 7 new people into your life. Her, 4 kids and 2 men.


I never looked at it like that. As long as you date her, those 6 others will be involved in your life. Geez.

Post the link. I want to see her pitch



At the end of the day there’s nothing wrong with dating a single mother. You just have to be more discerning of certain things from the JUMP that you might have had a few months/years to peep had she been childless. Things like the relationship with the father. The child’s relationship with the father. The woman’s relationship with her parents (specifically HER Father) are all things you need to have an understanding on almost from the get-go.


The “secret” for me with ANY Woman, but this might go double for single mothers, is her relationship with her OWN Father. A woman who wasn’t raised by her father or in the least didn’t have some sort of relationship with him growing up isn’t going to make an ideal wife. I’d go as far as to say that a woman’s thoughts, feelings, and emotions towards her father is MORE IMPORTANT than whatever relationship she has with the child’s father.

Ya’ll think boys are affected by absentee/ain’t shyt fathers? Shiiiiit look at GIRLS who grow up to be women who didn’t have their fathers. Daddy issues can DESTROY an other wise decent woman’s chances at a successful relationship

 

[Wildin]

There's always the risk of some fukk ass baby daddy you gotta contend with.
This is your mission if you choose to accept it

A lot of risks be empty as fukk. People forget that some dudes are fukk ups.

Y'all forget we live in a society where we are taught to get the cart before the horse. Buy a house now! Worry about the payments later!

There's plenty of men that married and have kids only to be like and realize they don't want a wife or kids. Meanwhile there's a good broad who's just single. I don't know if I told the story about this former banker I know. Dude was 23 making 125k a year at a great bank. Dude got fired for making prank calls from his office phone, harassing people. Not on some stalking shyt just dumb, dialing random numbers and talking shyt, giggling and hanging up.....

His wife left his stupid ass.....not only doesn't want to be a father...don't even think he knows how. This is a guy from a 2 parent household, college grad, had the bag.....just dumb.

His ex wife is a single mom..but there's no risk. That ain't everyone's story but never underestimate a humans potential to fukk something up.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

I thought you were gonna say something else

 

[semicko82]

Why does this bother you all so much?

Bet none of you are going up to random single moms in person and telling them how you feel.

But you run to the coli to complain like some gumps. What would your father's say

The exact same thing

 

[ConPHIdential]

OP is hilarious man.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

My father told me don’t take a bytch with a kid serious they only good for play..

 

[Insensitive]

I've left seriously entertaining any single mothers in 2022.
I'm done with that!
Play with them.
Have fun.
Never take them seriously.
Especially if you're a young professional.
She's got everything to gain, you've got everything to lose.

 

[Mike Nasty]

The exact same thing

Yeah I don't think he thought that one through.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Worse than before.



I was watching Kendra G singles show. A NYC chick with 4 kids and 2 babyfathers was looking for a good man of course. She had an amazing sales pitch for her. She should really be selling used cars. I'll drop the link when I get to my phone. But someone commented that dating a woman like her is introducing 7 new people into your life. Her, 4 kids and 2 men.


I never looked at it like that. As long as you date her, those 6 others will be involved in your life. Geez.

This nikka the goat. I thought you was bout to feel bad for them bytches like I do. nikka doubled down and made a solid point all in one swoop. I agree bro.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I see your direction and premise, but this part right here could be said for everybody you date, everybody has family and friends. Getting with somebody else means you open your life to another community period. Probably say something like you feel as if you're getting the food that's left after the big party you missed.

not quite the same thing like dude was saying....those kids will ALWAYS be around....your girls 2nd cousin and crazy uncle wont always be

 

[idonttouchgrass]

Why does this bother you all so much?

Bet none of you are going up to random single moms in person and telling them how you feel.

But you run to the coli to complain like some gumps. What would your father's say

Why would someone go up to a woman randomly and say “I don’t want to date you seriously/at all” ???

 

[Gloxina]

I see your direction and premise, but this part right here could be said for everybody you date, everybody has family and friends. Getting with somebody else means you open your life to another community period. Probably say something like you feel as if you're getting the food that's left after the big party you missed.

True, but you’ll become somewhat responsible for those kids if you marry someone with kids.


I mean I run from men with kids

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Worse than before.



I was watching Kendra G singles show. A NYC chick with 4 kids and 2 babyfathers was looking for a good man of course. She had an amazing sales pitch for her. She should really be selling used cars. I'll drop the link when I get to my phone. But someone commented that dating a woman like her is introducing 7 new people into your life. Her, 4 kids and 2 men.


I never looked at it like that. As long as you date her, those 6 others will be involved in your life. Geez.

Kendra G got me in a headlock right now, her show is entertaining.

I mainly tune in for the Kendra cam views, I ain't gon lie

 

[Phitz]

not quite the same thing like dude was saying....those kids will ALWAYS be around....your girls 2nd cousin and crazy uncle wont always be

Not at all. Children and baby daddies aren’t the same as the energetic uncle who drinks too much. It’s apples and oranges.

True, but you’ll become somewhat responsible for those kids if you marry someone with kids.


I mean I run from men with kids

yes, it's not the same, BUT it didn't read that way at face value, what you all posted was not fleshed out. Mainly a communication thing, not saying it was the same. Alot of us are not english first language

 

[Sbp]

Single moms are purely for sex.
The type of woman a single mom would have to be for me to wife her has a very small chance of being single to begin with

They're not even worth that breh leave the garbage for the garbage men.