Guy stands outside of woman's apartment door in attempt to introduce himself. Is he predatory?

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No that was creepy. Women have the potential to be in all sorts of danger, if he really liked her he should put a note in her mailbox or something where she has more agency.
That’s the key women want agency so they can vet the dude

I found it weird how brehs say you should invite a woman that doesn’t know you to your crib instead of going to a public place for your first meeting

but this is somehow extremely creepy

it’s different but at the end of the day the man is still a stranger a few charming words on an app doesn’t tell her if he’s a serial killer or not:yeshrug: so that she shouldn’t be wary when coming over or for his arrival at her crib. Unless she has friends in her apartment.
 

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:yeshrug:Respectfully, I've been married for nearly 2 decades and, by TLR standards, I'm :old:. That said, I have an idea of how men move based on my past experiences and what I saw in my generation; I dont know what the younger men are doing these days because I don't any.

However, when I read the consistent fukkery on here, a lot of it self-professed, detailing the willingfully reckless manner in which many young men on here seem to be living nowadays, then we I ask the question, it isn't to be sarcastic or hyperbolic.

I'm asking in earnest because, at least to me, some young men on here, based on what they themselves write, seem to move like they aren't playing with a full deck sometimes.
I understand. This generation is weird though.
 
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Funny thing is I never actually complimented her or said anything about her appearance nor said anything creepy I just said we should hang out if she said no I wouldn’t have knocked on her door in the middle of the day when everyone was around…

I realised you don’t knock on people’s doors in the mobile phone era unless you call or message them way in advance but I was stuck in my 2nd Childhood thinking you can knock on your neighbors door asking them to kick it.

You didn’t do anything wrong...... New age people just kind of fukked up socially
 
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:yeshrug:I learnt that the hard way this college chick lives nearby I introduce my self we talk a few times in my head I think I’m a mack

let’s do something on Friday think I add her on Facebook knock on her door to see what’s up

a few days later cops tell me I have been sexually harassing this chick and that she has a boyfriend.

She never said to me look I’m not interested she just called the cops on me.:francis:

I learnt we can’t knock on our neighbors doors and expect to chill we could in the 90s. I should have realised her body language was poor despite being verbally receptive.

I subsequently toned down my cold approaching outside of social settings.





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Yall stupid trying this foolishness where you live. Not an ounce of self awareness in your body

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