Had a good date but now she not seeing me where did I go wrong brehs?

[Serious]

Same shyt kinda happened to me months ago

Met this white bytch off pof...always workn and going to the gym...time was kinda limited...she always said if any guy brings up sex asap she deletes them....

Neways it took 3 weeks to meet ( i was fukkn other hoes)

We meeet up see a movie n have dinner...everything seemed fine..gave her. Hug at her car . Went home n slept...

Texted the next day fine...than i gave her the 3 day aka see if she texts me

She didnt....bout a week later i txt her so yeah are u even interested?

She said ur a nice guy but i dont think we woulf be good romantically

Sumtimes u take a L... but shes 35 with no kids drinkn wine n keeps getn flaked on​

It happens. You can't force a connection just because someone is attractive and "nice". I can't explain it, but I stand up a lot chicks this way as well, despite having the opportunity to smash. Problem is i have no intention of ever being serious beyond sex wit them. The real problem lies in the fact that women really like me, on some possessive and see a future wit me type shyt. So they really get in their feelings when a cat like me uses them for sex. It's not a pretty situation in the end and not worth it.

Now reverse every issue and conflict I just addressed in the narrative of a woman.


And there's your answer.


So probably thought op was cool and not a bad person, but there could have been some trait that turned her off and was a deal breaker. Even if she was attracted to him, there may have been something that lead her to believe breh might be possessive or overbearing. Especially if shyt doesn't work out.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

You were suppose to fukk on the first date...and dont EVER ask to kiss a girl......tf wrong with you?

I agree...but this #metoo shyt got a nikka like

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

She wanted the dikk first night but you fumbled. She tried to get it again and you fumbled. Now pick up the pieces and try again... Maybe offline

Always at least try and move to second base on the first date make her reject you just so she knows your willing and wanting to fukk. Learned my lesson not doing that.

These^^^

In this day and age, it is imperative that you physically escalate as soon as possible. A kiss is the absolute bare minimum you should get on the first date, and you shouldn't have to ask for it. If you've been escalating physical contact throughout the date, along with playful banter, the kiss should come naturally. Furthermore, you should always be gently pushing the envelope further and further. Don't force anything, but read her body language, and make assertive moves accordingly. I've gotten head on the first date from bytches who swore they never fukked on the first date. That's the mind games women play with themselves. In their eyes, sucking dikk ain't sex. Then, on the second date, they'd fukk. Once again, they can still technically say they didn't fukk on the first date. Online bytches, and bytches in general, have so many nikkas lined up that they will quickly bush you if you don't get to the point.

never and I mean NEVER meet a bytch friends BEFORE you fukk...her friends might not see what she see in you and think you ugly, lame etc and they will voice that opinion to the shorty you want cause bytches are ruthless....if you already fukked and you put it down then you meet the friends and they not feeling you the bytch wont care cause she know what you can do...

Preach! He should've declined that karaoke shyt. I had a bytch try that exact same shyt on me last summer. She was texting me all the time, and acting like she was really feeling me. However, she was stalling the meetup. She asked me to come to karaoke with her friends. I really wanted to fukk, so I initially said yes. When I came to my senses, I cancelled that shyt. Furthermore, I bushed her for playing games. I had three chicks I was talking to at the time.

Nothing wrong with movie and dinner.

If they are paying there half

Dinner and a movie is literally the worst thing you can do with a chick you haven't smashed. You can't talk to her in the theater like that. Furthermore, you can't physically escalate with a big dinner table between you. Adjacent bar stools are perfect for a first date. I can't stress enough how important physical escalation is... a touch of the arm here, a hand on lower back there, a thigh touch, etc.

 

[FSP]

The date didn't go as well as you thought.

You can't really judge this stuff on what your idea of what a good date was and apply it to her

She probably only had an OK time, despite the fact that ya'll seemed to click and you thought you had a good time.

She had some time to think about some of the shyt you did and probably went "you know that move he made was kinda simpish/corny. "

She could have had dates lined up and the next dude impressed her more. You sound like you have a romantic heart. I know from experience young women do not like that shyt off the rip. They want to be able to break you into romanticism if anything at all. If you're showing you're already one, they might get bored/think you're soft.

Someone said she could have talked to her friends. This true but often times female friends are less savage about their opinions of a friends' man than their own. The only reason I say this is because females are all in competition with each other even best friends and they get extremely jealous when a friend is dating a guy that they consider out of their own league, conversely, they lowkey feel superior when a girlfriend is dating a guy that seems tame and safe. That's why when you got the juice/social proof its real easy to get with your girls friends...

Also a kiss is just barely above getting a number, and sort of solidifies the romanticism aspect. Not saying she would have fukkked first date, but I think if you're there, she won't leave you for trying. so you should always try. This ain't some cheesy romantic movie. Sex is the first prize, not a kiss.

More than likely though she just dumped you out of her own insecurities either way. The only mistake you made was thinking because the date went sweet that it went well and she's gonna want more of that.

 

[Family Lives Matter]

These^^^

In this day and age, it is imperative that you physically escalate as soon as possible. A kiss is the absolute bare minimum you should get on the first date, and you shouldn't have to ask for it. If you've been escalating physical contact throughout the date, along with playful banter, the kiss should come naturally. Furthermore, you should always be gently pushing the envelope further and further. Don't force anything, but read her body language, and make assertive moves accordingly. I've gotten head on the first date from bytches who swore they never fukked on the first date. That's the mind games women play with themselves. In their eyes, sucking dikk ain't sex. Then, on the second date, they'd fukk. Once again, they can still technically say they didn't fukk on the first date. Online bytches, and bytches in general, have so many nikkas lined up that they will quickly bush you if you don't get to the point.



Preach! He should've declined that karaoke shyt. I had a bytch try that exact same shyt on me last summer. She was texting me all the time, and acting like she was really feeling me. However, she was stalling the meetup. She asked me to come to karaoke with her friends. I really wanted to fukk, so I initially said yes. When I came to my senses, I cancelled that shyt. Furthermore, I bushed her for playing games. I had three chicks I was talking to at the time.



Dinner and a movie is literally the worst thing you can do with a chick you haven't smashed. You can't talk to her in the theater like that. Furthermore, you can't physically escalate with a big dinner table between you. Adjacent bar stools are perfect for a first date. I can't stress enough how important physical escalation is... a touch of the arm here, a hand on lower back there, a thigh touch, etc.

I'm not one of these anti social suicidal coli virgins I don't need your tips and pointers thanks.

I never said that was what I do but breh was going on like he brought her a house for saying he done that...

 

[nahnah]

You're sounding like a needy bird homie

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

HOH tip- never go out on a date with a woman you never been intimate with, rather it be a serious relationship or casual fling

This is bad advice if u looking for wifey. Simply because your ideal wifey won't just fukk a nikka without making him work for it.

 

[NYC Warrior]

my nikka went on a second date for karaoke and even sang at that shyt.

 

[unit321]

I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.

Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid

Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways

She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright

Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual

So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.

So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now

What should I do. I don't get it

She's found another man. You were one of the "playing the field" guys, like when a dude dates multiple women to see which one is the right one.
Plenty of fish in the sea. Keep your head up, bruh.

 

[FSP]

my nikka went on a second date for karaoke and even sang at that shyt.

I blame that on these hoes for appearing to want a sweet guy


Nikkas thinking these hoes know what they're looking for is the ultimate fukk up

 

[JLova]

She found a more appealing dikk
Sorry breh

This. It is what it is.

 

[semicko82]

This is bad advice if u looking for wifey. Simply because your ideal wifey won't just fukk a nikka without making him work for it.

Nah the dude she likes is not putting in work guaranteed. If you thinking about some ideal wife shyt you putting women on a pedestal.

 

[cornercommission2k12]

If she had to reply back "I should have to explain myself after 1 date" it means you coming across doing too much which equals desperate.

Pretty women always have more than 1 option. The guys who ultimately lock them in, are the ones who win them over with personality and ambition. If it looks like you will be sweating her, then it scares women into believing you will be controlling.

What you should have said was, uh well sorry you got sick , I'll let you heal up, hit me back when you feeling better" then left it right there. If she calls back you getting somewhere, if not then she chose another one of her options. Shouldn't be that deep for you anyway, because for real it was just 1 date.

 

[DaRealness]

Same shyt kinda happened to me months ago

Met this white bytch off pof...always workn and going to the gym...time was kinda limited...she always said if any guy brings up sex asap she deletes them....

Neways it took 3 weeks to meet ( i was fukkn other hoes)

We meeet up see a movie n have dinner...everything seemed fine..gave her. Hug at her car . Went home n slept...

Texted the next day fine...than i gave her the 3 day aka see if she texts me

She didnt....bout a week later i txt her so yeah are u even interested?

She said ur a nice guy but i dont think we woulf be good romantically

Sumtimes u take a L... but shes 35 with no kids drinkn wine n keeps getn flaked on​

If a chick refers to any dude as a "nice guy" it's over basically.

 

[FSP]

So now that we established you ain't neva talking to this chick again, what she lookin like?