That last minute was some of the realest shyt, and she's 1000% right.
Sometimes as men we believe that the material can fix the internal, emotional and psychological.
And I'm not talking about being broke vs. being rich or some surface shyt, I'm talking about the concept that we have the reach a certain goal in life that we set ourselves in order to be the person we want to be or should be.
But you can and should strive to be those things first, and even if the material doesn't come, you've at least attained or achieved something in yourself and in your life with the people around you.
Being like Aries, you won't achieve either and you'll suffer for it.