Handsome Privilege

[Eternally Jaded]

They don’t play by the same rules I got stories for days about how random would bite me in the clubs and when I would dance with chicks they would start pullin titties out. I would say I’m in that top 10 -15 percent of men that’s attractive to women.

Yep.

If you've ever been cupped by a random woman while out, you know ball.

If you stopped dreading the lookback grind early in your club days, again you know ball.

Girl in school told me that girls would kill to have my eyes, just out the blue.
Idk why, I have thick lashes but not long lashes.

Have been asked if I wear mascara a bunch of times

All that to say this... attraction is random n no one dude gets all the cheeks he wants.

Being hella thirsted over is cool but what happens when she looks like that chick from the Shining?

Or Rasputia from Norbit?

A woman telling you that you can toss her up and put it anywhere you want sounds great til she looks like Macy Gray.

 

[Roid Jones]

Wouldn't know

You ain't had a chick come up to you and say 'you are fine' and start rubbing on your mid section?...............me neither, happened to my friend, must be nice

 

[HabitualChiller]

As a former ugly gang member, why is this even a thread lol. How I got treated then vs now is like night and day (especially when I was in my mid to late 20s). Thats why I dont take these birds serious. Last week I had a girl that was walking in front of me tell me I look like Tyrese in Babyboy and held the door open for me . When I was in 11th grade a girl that look JUST like this bytch said "You WISH you look like Tyrese" in disdain, I couldn't even get a non hostile conversation out of that bytch.

Yeah, women and gay dudes are downright hostile to men that they consider ugly, and it's even worse if they look soft.

I've legitimately had so many women buck up at me just for walking in their vicinity that it's insane.

Having good looks and being at least 5'11 puts a man at a crazy advantage in society. You can be broke and slow, but your appearance will make up for it. God forbid that they have charisma.

 

[Don Snow]

shyt is facts. Been like this my whole life. I was eating my bagel and cream cheese for breakfast in the bodega with my new girlfriend before school (middle school) and 7 girls from my grade came up and asked me in front of my girl why am I going out with her. I was like “damn, girls like me like that.” First time I came to the realization, cause none of ‘em ever approached or anything. And up until that point it was folded loose leaf asking if you like me yes or no with the checkboxes. I’ve had girls cross the street just to give me their number. Ran through all of the cute girls in my graduating class during my freshman year in HS. Sophomore’s, junior’s and senior’s telling me I’m too young just for me to end up fukking. I was in nursing school during covid, so I’m masked up, with the only thing visible being my eyes. And cracked 3 of the cute chicks in the course, all of them approached me first. They asked if I wanted to get something to eat. I was the pepperoni to their pizza. If you never had a pair of cute chicks honk the car horn at you so they could give you their numbers then you’re not really living. All that needing to know how to dress, even having your life in order shyt is cap, cause any dude on this site who’s been fukking very attractive women since adolescence never needed it. It’s just a cherry on top.​

I tried to explain this to a non handsome gang member before and they truly think it’s impossible


Women are very vocal when you look good


Some people will never live this life, never knew what it was like growing up and going up to a group of girls to spit game they all turn around like “who me”


And being able to leave with every number


That self esteem boost you get when women catcall you>>>

Women saying “he look good” or “ohh he could get it” when you walk in the room

Being a in spot and women just coming up to you sparking a conversation

Women you don’t know trying to grab on you in public settings

Dykes turning feminine in your presence

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

No sh*t, trick

This is why #UglyGang exists

 

[Gloxina]

I get what youre saying but the whole point is No one likes you just because you're "you"

People like the best version of "You" You could be the nicest kindest person in the world even be hansome gang and have a massive accident and be in a wheelchair or something and see how many people that admired you still like "You"


I know I sound way too critical but if you womder why Tommy Sotomayor and all the Red Pill dudes on the internet became a thing is because Mid gang was told by their mothers and female relatives to |just be yourself|" and not work out, wear better clothes, get an engaging personality Learn things and most importantly GET YOUR MONEY UP!!! and then you can step to women with confidence,

That's like telling a woman that she doesn't need to look as good as possible to get the Man that she wants.

What you aren’t understanding is that when I say that, I’m talking about looks.


Part of liking you for who you are is liking the way you look- naturally. It’s superficial, but it’s also real because that’s really what you look like. That’s part of what makes you, YOU.

And that’s part of being pretty/handsome. People legitimately liking how all your features formed together to create your physical appearance. Men get their money up for those pretty girls because that’s how they will stand out amongst other men. The pretty girls already stand out and get attention naturally. What she’s saying in the OP is that men who are essentially the “bad b!tches” amongst men don’t have to try as hard as other men because women physically/sexually desire them naturally.
Seeing a pleasant face on top of you making sex faces is better than seeing an old or less attractive man simply because they have more money. That’s the ultimate point. Women move on physical desire as much as men, which is why so many women make horrible mistakes with “baby daddies”. They aren’t using their brains when it comes to controlling desire or picking mates.

It’s why men chase pretty women and care about character second. If the pretty girl has good character are you purposely walking away to find someone less physically appealing who also has good character? No.

But if the pretty girls are all obnoxious, you start realizing you should look beyond that face card. Women will act a fool for a good looking man the same way yall do for bad chicks.

 

[Gloxina]

She's right.
Add in giving good dikk to her and you can get away with a lot.
But here's the thing it can also be a curse. Women will be more cooperative but also more cautious. They won't believe you're single at first, be worried about you cheating on them, feel self conscious around you, etc.
And a handsome man still has to go out and talk to the women that they want. Sometimes they'll approach but you gotta have an approachable vibe too. Reserved handsome men suffer too. All you'll get from chicks is smiles and stares if you're intimidating. Baby face bow wow lookin mfers lowkey be winning cuz the attraction might be same but less nerves for a chick vs a ghost from power lookin breh. Handsome dudes just get way more cooperation for way less resources. It is what it is. Pretty women get shyt easy too thats life

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That’s all she was saying, and all we say on here. There are men who say this isn’t true or it doesn’t matter, but it’s because they need money to make women cooperate.

Some women are just satisfied having a fine ass man. Especially if he’s half way decent all that “50/50” talk goes out the window.

 

[Jaguar93]

Nobody posted this classic yet lol

 

[Wiseborn]

What you aren’t understanding is that when I say that, I’m talking about looks.


Part of liking you for who you are is liking the way you look- naturally. It’s superficial, but it’s also real because that’s really what you look like. That’s part of what makes you, YOU.

And that’s part of being pretty/handsome. People legitimately liking how all your features formed together to create your physical appearance. Men get their money up for those pretty girls because that’s how they will stand out amongst other men. The pretty girls already stand out and get attention naturally. What she’s saying in the OP is that men who are essentially the “bad b!tches” amongst men don’t have to try as hard as other men because women physically/sexually desire them naturally.
Seeing a pleasant face on top of you making sex faces is better than seeing an old or less attractive man simply because they have more money. That’s the ultimate point. Women move on physical desire as much as men, which is why so many women make horrible mistakes with “baby daddies”. They aren’t using their brains when it comes to controlling desire or picking mates.

It’s why men chase pretty women and care about character second. If the pretty girl has good character are you purposely walking away to find someone less physically appealing who also has good character? No.

But if the pretty girls are all obnoxious, you start realizing you should look beyond that face card. Women will act a fool for a good looking man the same way yall do for bad chicks.

I get your overall point and I remember the gossip blogger Tasha K was talking about some Black Basketball player with a white women and she said that Some dudes don't get picked by Black women and that "becky" is more forgiving I forgot the dude's name but she compared him to Travis Hunter.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

You ain't had a chick come up to you and say 'you are fine' and start rubbing on your mid section?...............me neither, happened to my friend, must be nice

Wouldn't know

Why don’t yall brehs get some muscles. Johnathan major. Ladies love his body

 

[deeman]

I'm handsome gang, but these humble brag threads are kinda cringe lol

 

[Jaguar93]

 

[Ohene]

She's right.
Add in giving good dikk to her and you can get away with a lot.
But here's the thing it can also be a curse. Women will be more cooperative but also more cautious. They won't believe you're single at first, be worried about you cheating on them, feel self conscious around you, etc.
And a handsome man still has to go out and talk to the women that they want. Sometimes they'll approach but you gotta have an approachable vibe too. Reserved handsome men suffer too. All you'll get from chicks is smiles and stares if you're intimidating. Baby face bow wow lookin mfers lowkey be winning cuz the attraction might be same but less nerves for a chick vs a ghost from power lookin breh. Handsome dudes just get way more cooperation for way less resources. It is what it is. Pretty women get shyt easy too thats life

a chick i fukked via hinge literally told me sumn along the lines, "if you approached me in person I would reject you"...i asked "why". she answered, "cause youre too fine. I might text you for a bit and then ghost"

women are weird. at least in my experience it isnt as simple as being handsome. they are very insecure and will do weird shyt to self sabotage

if this is how it is being handsome...i dont even wanna know what average dudes are going through lol

 

[010101]

always remember i told y'all <<<<<FACECARD>>>>>*

 

[Gloxina]

I get your overall point and I remember the gossip blogger Tasha K was talking about some Black Basketball player with a white women and she said that Some dudes don't get picked by Black women and that "becky" is more forgiving I forgot the dude's name but she compared him to Travis Hunter.

Becky is more forgiving cuz he got the bag. Some don’t care, and that’s fine.