Hard On H0ES Movement. i need advice

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fukk and :camby:to the bushes. Listen to ginuwine's what's so different?
 
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I need to to come to the coli for more advise. I also forgot to mention she has a really good job. Now that I have finished crying over a slut I intend on using her because she spoils me. Thoughts? No trolling either this is real life.
 
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NerdBird said:
So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.

So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...

A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.

My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...
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you are the rebound guy....


every woman has one and in this case it appears to be you.....

The best and most honest piece of advice I will give you is this ANYBODY thats starts a relationship with someone who has just come out of a long term relationship is an idiot and is asking for trouble....

smash her all day everyday but the minute you start to develop feelings for this broad LEAVE.... her heart is still with her ex and she would leave you in a second for him
 
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NerdBird said:
So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.

So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...

A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.

My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...
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She was baiting you to see if you would fck her while she had a man ( you didn't ) this qualified you as a beta ... A good guy she can settle down with ... She's after commitment and her ex wouldn't give it to her ... Had you fcked her..it would have been a once off thing and she'd be back with her ex... she will grow to resent you because you were a p*ssy from the jump ...... Pump her a few more times and keep it moving !! She got you down for a simp and don't respect you #HOH :demonic: breh above me is spot on , you probably won't take this advice .. So good luck diving into Shallow water breh
 
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Nemesis said:
you are the rebound guy....


every woman has one and in this case it appears to be you.....

The best and most honest piece of advice I will give you is this ANYBODY thats starts a relationship with someone who has just come out of a long term relationship is an idiot and is asking for trouble....

smash her all day everyday but the minute you start to develop feelings for this broad LEAVE.... her heart is still with her ex and she would leave you in a second for him
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You right she just a skeezer. Imma hit it til i get bored and leave. I'm already talking to other chicks on the side. She not the only one I talk to so...

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Lol. You lame nikka that hoes gon eat you alive. Don't worry you'll have a lil game after shes done with you.
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You aint gotta insult me but its coo i see what u mean.
 
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:russ:What a mess. You're both a bit retarded and this is going to end turribly.

Leave her alone, stat. No fukking, no using, no 3am cuddle sessions, just leave her all the way alone.
 
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From a FEMALE perspective: Take it slow but don't be hard on her and don't view her as a hoe. Her ex was probably an a$$hole and she was slowly coming to that realization over the past months. That happens to all of us. But, I would take it slow simply because it's never good to be a rebound person. Just give your friendship time to grow. Don't allow her over at 3am anymore. See her out on actual dates but not everytime she asks. Give it time. Give her time to heal but keep the lines open for the friendship between you to bloom. If it's meant to be for the both of you, you will come together strong. Don't fukk her too early because she's open and raw right now and that could end badly. And, plus you like her so you want to make sure she's over the ex and all about you.
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:upsetfavre::dwillhuh::mjlol::russ:
As a guy I try to give women the benefit (mostly to my detriment) most of the time and Im not jaded by my experiences but BRUH do NOT follow this advice...Its a trap
 
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