Hard On H0ES Movement. i need advice

[DatBoiHawk]

From a FEMALE perspective: Take it slow but don't be hard on her and don't view her as a hoe. Her ex was probably an a$$hole and she was slowly coming to that realization over the past months. That happens to all of us. But, I would take it slow simply because it's never good to be a rebound person. Just give your friendship time to grow. Don't allow her over at 3am anymore. See her out on actual dates but not everytime she asks. Give it time. Give her time to heal but keep the lines open for the friendship between you to bloom. If it's meant to be for the both of you, you will come together strong. Don't fukk her too early because she's open and raw right now and that could end badly. And, plus you like her so you want to make sure she's over the ex and all about you.

BRO, NEVER take relationship advice from a woman. Unless you got a mom like mine that keeps it 1000 thats the only time to listen to a female perspective

 

[DatBoiHawk]

@NerdBird run. You aren't prepared. She has already emotionally fukked with you to the point you made this thread.

You're outmatched, she talked to you in your face about another dude, she comes into your home when she wants, sleeps in your bed if she wants, and sets the pace and termsof the relationship. She's very much like me but she should kno better than to play with you.

You're a band aid boo. You'd be wise to just ghost, if you don't only person who gonna end up mad and hurt is you

This is the only female perspective you need to be considering...One that will keep it all the way real

 

[SpringWater]

This woman has no character. Under no circumstances should a woman be in another man's bed while in a relationship. Do not puruse a relationship with her. Knowin' the type of woman you're pursuin', you can only blame yourself when she's laid up with the next man under similar circumstances.
I'm curious. What is your opinion on her sleepin' in another man's bed while in a relationship? Is that someone that should be pursued, even slowly, by the man she was layin' up with?

I don't think that was a good idea but she sounds lost to me. She's probably holding on to a thread of a relationship afraid to leave. She needs time to work all of that out and heal before getting into another relationship.

 

[SpringWater]

As a guy I try to give women the benefit (mostly to my detriment) most of the time and Im not jaded by my experiences but BRUH do NOT follow this advice...Its a trap

Lmao. She shouldn't have come over that night but it amazes me how FORGIVING brehs can be with other brehs for doing similar misdeeds. But when a woman messes up it's in the bushes for her! GTFOHWTBS.

 

[Diondon]

From the outside looking in, this sounds like a horrible "relationship" breh

 

[satireprod]

Lmao. She shouldn't have come over that night but it amazes me how FORGIVING brehs can be with other brehs for doing similar misdeeds. But when a woman messes up it's in the bushes for her! GTFOHWTBS.

Why generalize though maam? If my homegirl came to me with this situation but in reverse I wouldnt excuse it. Questionable behavior is questionable behavior. Low character is low character. Seems like the problem youre having is that youre feeling sympathetic with her, feeling what she MAY be feeling....what its like to be in her shoes....which is cool youre entitled to do BUT that doesnt help the guy out, which is who made this thread in the first place. So calm down lady

 

[karim]

So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.

So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...

A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.

My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...

 

[satireprod]

Wrapped up in all of the jokes, I hope the brother @NerdBird is listening to the solid advice and peeping game. It's real out here.

 

[H@LLOW]

Have your own kids, supporting the next man walking sperm like is a cool and sh!t.

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

nikka gone fall in love with her. It's already too late.

 

[satireprod]

nikka gone fall in love with her. It's already too late.

Damn

 

[satireprod]

Have your own kids, supporting the next man walking sperm like is a cool and sh!t.

lol You sure you're in the right thread playa?

 

[satireprod]

@NerdBird what do you plan on doing next? The people want to know.

 

[NerdBird]

Cried?

I thought I'd lied and said i cried to do the thread justice. But i failed

 

[NerdBird]

His original post might have been kinda legit.
Whenver he came with the "I need the coli to give me more advice. Oh plus also this hoe is paid not joking really serious boy scouts honor, so paid brehs"
Thats where I had to let it go

All facts not one lie in this thread but carry on. I suck at relationships with women i should have read the gems thread.