Hard On H0ES Movement. i need advice

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Imma fukk her til i get bored while going out socializing meeting women. I stopped talkin to my hoes thinking theres such thing as a relationship with her But its time to bounce back... Also will be bumping Usher. I still feel like an idiot but oh well. Like homie said above. "That hoes gonna eat you alive you youll get a lil game out of it". Also going ghost on her soon cuz her birthday is next month so lates.
 

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Imma fukk her til i get bored while going out socializing meeting women. I stopped talkin to my hoes thinking theres such thing as a relationship with her But its time to bounce back... Also will be bumping Usher. I still feel like an idiot but oh well. Like homie said above. "That hoes gonna eat you alive you youll get a lil game out of it". Also going ghost on her soon cuz her birthday is next month so lates.

Go ghost today, fukking her will be your downfall. You're not ready for that type of chick yet boo. Just keep dating the sooner you cut one off the quicker a new one can appear. Don't dwell, just let go. Good luck!
 

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Go ghost today, fukking her will be your downfall. You're not ready for that type of chick yet boo. Just keep dating the sooner you cut one off the quicker a new one can appear. Don't dwell, just let go. Good luck!

Fasho i just texted that demon I'm done with her. Now she blowin up my phone. Its Friday so I'm def. Heading out with my boyz
 

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:upsetfavre:Why generalize though maam? If my homegirl came to me with this situation but in reverse I wouldnt excuse it. Questionable behavior is questionable behavior. Low character is low character. Seems like the problem youre having is that youre feeling sympathetic with her, feeling what she MAY be feeling....what its like to be in her shoes....which is cool youre entitled to do BUT that doesnt help the guy out, which is who made this thread in the first place. So calm down lady

So let me get this straight...empathizing with both sides means I need to calm down? Seriously? More people need to empathize. Brehs stay keeping unreasonable standards for women when they are faulty themselves. But, let's go ahead and let the breh OP toss this one in the bushes....forget about their chemistry. Forget that he really likes her. Now, let's see his odds for feeling same connection again with another woman within the next five years.
 
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Good or bad enjoy the experience.
in the event she open that door again knock
fire from the crack of her ass and let the
the chips fall where they may.
ole boy is gonna always have access to
that p*ssy so just have fun (she aint the one for you)
later on down the line she will hit with driveby p*ssy
2 or 3 times a year when she's feeling nostalgic.

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Date her, give her time to adjust. Support her no matter if she goes back to her ex. If she doesn't be happy she chose you. Cherish her and love her. Marry her before someone else does












:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
Psyche nikka trash this jezebel harlot
 

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So let me get this straight...empathizing with both sides means I need to calm down? Seriously? More people need to empathize. Brehs stay keeping unreasonable standards for women when they are faulty themselves. But, let's go ahead and let the breh OP toss this one in the bushes....forget about their chemistry. Forget that he really likes her. Now, let's see his odds for feeling same connection again with another woman within the next five years.

:what:This isnt even a man vs woman argument were having...all the other ladies came through and told him to either leave her alone or cut and leavd what Im saying is that every one is telling him to chunk deuce bc where she's at and where he is, is worlds apart..his feelings are not important to her
And yes its great for him to really like her but the key is for it to be reciprocal and her actions are not congruent to that. Most of the time if a woman is feeling you, like REALLY feeling you she is not going to mention and start a conversation about her ex.

And you keep generalizing about men vs women...both sides can be some aint shyt people but in this particular story the homie might be kind hearted and a little green in the game but her actions are not someone who is trustworthy so all that connection talk goes out the window.:martin:
 
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Cut your losses breh. And as rewarding as that 3 am call might have seemed, it was the SMART thing to do. Intoxicated, and still emotionally close to the other nikka, you never know what lies would've been told about that night and next thing you know nikkas banging on your door.
 

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OP needs too grow some nuts.

she was in your bed and u "didnt make an advance":dahell:

she hit u at 2am and you cuddled and kissed?:heh:

then made a thread about it:whoa:

you gay nikka?:rudy:
 
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So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.

So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...

A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.

My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...
Too many chances of her acting stupid if you have sex with her... #Bushes she doesn't sound very stable. You don't want her spazzing out on you
 

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