I was actually thinking she was keeping him in the wings as the backup plan too. You think at this point she just wants the homie to just hit or would want him to wife if it doesnt pan out with number 1? Either way number 1 still has the license to come through and crush the building whenever.
I was actually thinking she was keeping him in the wings as the backup plan too. You think at this point she just wants the homie to just hit or would want him to wife if it doesnt pan out with number 1? Either way number 1 still has the license to come through and crush the building whenever.
She loves a man. Been with him 3 years. Wants to marry him. Wants his kids
Now if all it takes is some convo and some liquor, to have you ready to pop p*ssy for a new man....... First strike
But she don't want that new man either. Cause she could have him and she knows by how delicate he treated her. But does that make her throw the ex away. NOPE
So now she got a new dude to be the sweet nice caring loving conversationalist. Maybe kiss and let him hit one day. Maybe try it out and see if it works
But in the meantime. Soon as the ex decides "hmmmm let me tell her I love her and I'm gonna change" she gonna be right back in that nikkas arms
Both men are the back up plan depending on what day you catch her
He can use that to his advantage, get played, or say fukk it all together. But no way all 3 of them end up happy
She loves a man. Been with him 3 years. Wants to marry him. Wants his kids
Now if all it takes is some convo and some liquor, to have you ready to pop p*ssy for a new man....... First strike
But she don't want that new man either. Cause she could have him and she knows by how delicate he treated her. But does that make her throw the ex away. NOPE
So now she got a new dude to be the sweet nice caring loving conversationalist. Maybe kiss and let him hit one day. Maybe try it out and see if it works
But in the meantime. Soon as the ex decides "hmmmm let me tell her I love her and I'm gonna change" she gonna be right back in that nikkas arms
Both men are the back up plan depending on what day you catch her
He can use that to his advantage, get played, or say fukk it all together. But no way all 3 of them end up happy
When you break down into statistics that number becomes actually very small. nikkas need to brush up on their math.
To make it simple assume the dude lives in Chi-town.
Combined Statistical Area has: 10 mil, Assume 5 mil are females. Let's jump on the Hotep bandwagon for a moment and assume OP only dates Black Women. Well Chi-town (just the city no suburbs) is about 2.5 mil so half are females which makes it 1.2 mil.
So already your 300 million is down to about 1 million. That's a huge difference my nikka. And that number is about to get even smaller.
Only about 25% of people on average have a Bachelor's or above. So guess what, if OP wants to date a "strong educated Black Woman" who lives in the immediate Chi-town metro area you are now down to 250,000. Now let's get even more depressed:
Luckily the marriage rate is low these days so you don't have to worry about that but the other elephant in the room to deal with is the whole single mommie bullshyt - Looks like NEARLY FIFTY fukkING PERCENT OF THEM ARE BROKE. So even if you wanted to get involved with them (which you absolutely shouldn't, you'd be paying bills most likely for a pooper stinker that is NOT YOURS). In general Childless Women aged 18-34 is about at 47%.
To make things more complicated and fun let's leave in half of single mothers and include the 47% rate of childless American Women. Recapping, our number is already down to 250,000. So 125,000 Women are completely childless out of that group and let's add back in about 50k from the "eligible" single mothers that aren't broke. We are now at 175,000.
When you factor in the following that really isn't a big number:
- You need to remove the Women who have sub-clinical mental illness and drug addictions who unfortunately haven't willingly withdrawn themselves from the dating pool
- You need to realize this number includes Women with boyfriends because no statistics can keep track of a fluid data point like this
- You need to remove Women who are obese (unless the OP is a Chubby chaser) which removes about 50% of the female population.
So basically removing over-weight sloppy hoes we are at 87,500. Let's be gracious and only remove 10% of the mental invalids which I'm sure is a conservative as hell estimate. I won't include Joilet county because it would skew the numbers and make prospects look atrocious.
78,750.
Now this will be fuzzy math but it's all we can do is to estimate at this point. Assume that 50% of Women have a "boyfriend" or are not seriously looking for a relationship at the moment. For single mothers who are also included in this number assume this means "Baby Daddy Drama" him showing up to the house banging on the door at 3am, they are not fit for a relationship.
We are down to 39,375.
I will stop here. For some this may seem like a large number but it's really not. In reality you have to realize logistics of meeting and knowing who these roughly 40k "eligible" Women are in a city of millions is not a cake walk. Your odds of meeting just 10% of them in your entire life will probably be around 10% unless you have an occupation that involves extensive travel within all areas of the city. So in reality you'll be lucky to meet 1 Woman a year that fits JUST THE BASIC CRITERIA - We haven't even gotten into individual chemistry or compatibility.
All of this didn't matter 100 years ago - Because guess what, people didn't have a choice they just got arranged marriages and marriage was a business and heir producing operation. Now that you can divorce at the drop of a hat, if you gotta worry about all this shyt like compatibility and "dateability" etc.
She loves a man. Been with him 3 years. Wants to marry him. Wants his kids
Now if all it takes is some convo and some liquor, to have you ready to pop p*ssy for a new man....... First strike
But she don't want that new man either. Cause she could have him and she knows by how delicate he treated her. But does that make her throw the ex away. NOPE
So now she got a new dude to be the sweet nice caring loving conversationalist. Maybe kiss and let him hit one day. Maybe try it out and see if it works
But in the meantime. Soon as the ex decides "hmmmm let me tell her I love her and I'm gonna change" she gonna be right back in that nikkas arms
Both men are the back up plan depending on what day you catch her
He can use that to his advantage, get played, or say fukk it all together. But no way all 3 of them end up happy
The messed up part even with all these warnings I think he's going to have to learn the hard way, Nobody ever told me the game and even when they did I still didn't take it to heart because I refused to believe someone could predict a situation that accurately. I use to go back to my homeboy like "how did you know it would end like this"
So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.
So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...
A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.
My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...
Ugh, breh.... you're in a bad position to take a fall.
I'm messing with an ex in exactly the same way, except I'm the guy she "wants to marry".
Her boyfriend doesn't stand a chance, even though i'm out of state.
She still sending me videos of herself masturbating and talking about, "I want you to love me forever." It's really quite disgusting.
A woman who's heart is still attached to another dude is a very dangerous thing. I'd just hit and quit, to be honest. Not even on some scumbag shyt, but the second the ex boyfriend catches wind that she's got a new man, it's over for you, breh.
Ugh, breh.... you're in a bad position to take a fall.
I'm messing with an ex in exactly the same way, except I'm the guy she "wants to marry".
Her boyfriend doesn't stand a chance, even though i'm out of state.
She still sending me videos of herself masturbating and talking about, "I want you to love me forever." It's really quite disgusting.
A woman who's heart is still attached to another dude is a very dangerous thing. I'd just hit and quit, to be honest. Not even on some scumbag shyt, but the second the ex boyfriend catches wind that she's got a new man, it's over for you, breh.
When you break down into statistics that number becomes actually very small. nikkas need to brush up on their math.
To make it simple assume the dude lives in Chi-town.
Combined Statistical Area has: 10 mil, Assume 5 mil are females. Let's jump on the Hotep bandwagon for a moment and assume OP only dates Black Women. Well Chi-town (just the city no suburbs) is about 2.5 mil so half are females which makes it 1.2 mil.
So already your 300 million is down to about 1 million. That's a huge difference my nikka. And that number is about to get even smaller.
Only about 25% of people on average have a Bachelor's or above. So guess what, if OP wants to date a "strong educated Black Woman" who lives in the immediate Chi-town metro area you are now down to 250,000. Now let's get even more depressed:
Luckily the marriage rate is low these days so you don't have to worry about that but the other elephant in the room to deal with is the whole single mommie bullshyt - Looks like NEARLY FIFTY fukkING PERCENT OF THEM ARE BROKE. So even if you wanted to get involved with them (which you absolutely shouldn't, you'd be paying bills most likely for a pooper stinker that is NOT YOURS). In general Childless Women aged 18-34 is about at 47%.
To make things more complicated and fun let's leave in half of single mothers and include the 47% rate of childless American Women. Recapping, our number is already down to 250,000. So 125,000 Women are completely childless out of that group and let's add back in about 50k from the "eligible" single mothers that aren't broke. We are now at 175,000.
When you factor in the following that really isn't a big number:
- You need to remove the Women who have sub-clinical mental illness and drug addictions who unfortunately haven't willingly withdrawn themselves from the dating pool
- You need to realize this number includes Women with boyfriends because no statistics can keep track of a fluid data point like this
- You need to remove Women who are obese (unless the OP is a Chubby chaser) which removes about 50% of the female population.
So basically removing over-weight sloppy hoes we are at 87,500. Let's be gracious and only remove 10% of the mental invalids which I'm sure is a conservative as hell estimate. I won't include Joilet county because it would skew the numbers and make prospects look atrocious.
78,750.
Now this will be fuzzy math but it's all we can do is to estimate at this point. Assume that 50% of Women have a "boyfriend" or are not seriously looking for a relationship at the moment. For single mothers who are also included in this number assume this means "Baby Daddy Drama" him showing up to the house banging on the door at 3am, they are not fit for a relationship.
We are down to 39,375.
I will stop here. For some this may seem like a large number but it's really not. In reality you have to realize logistics of meeting and knowing who these roughly 40k "eligible" Women are in a city of millions is not a cake walk. Your odds of meeting just 10% of them in your entire life will probably be around 10% unless you have an occupation that involves extensive travel within all areas of the city. So in reality you'll be lucky to meet 1 Woman a year that fits JUST THE BASIC CRITERIA - We haven't even gotten into individual chemistry or compatibility.
All of this didn't matter 100 years ago - Because guess what, people didn't have a choice they just got arranged marriages and marriage was a business and heir producing operation. Now that you can divorce at the drop of a hat, if you gotta worry about all this shyt like compatibility and "dateability" etc.
The messed up part even with all these warnings I think he's going to have to learn the hard way, Nobody ever told me the game and even when they did I still didn't take it to heart because I refused to believe someone could predict a situation that accurately. I use to go back to my homeboy like "how did you know it would end like this"
We all been young and dumb before. Ain't a person alive who hasn't been played. Whether they know it or not. Your significant other, at some point in your entire dating history, has done some shyt that would be considered treason
The only difference in a simp and player, is how they adapt
You can keep touching that stove 100 times, maybe 10 times you do it fast enough to not get burned
A smart person would stop touching the stove after the first time
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Five years
Did I miss something?
but the other elephant in the room to deal with is the whole single mommie bullshyt - Looks like NEARLY FIFTY fukkING PERCENT OF THEM ARE BROKE. So even if you wanted to get involved with them (which you absolutely shouldn't, you'd be paying bills most likely for a pooper stinker that is NOT YOURS). In general Childless Women aged 18-34 is about at 47%.
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My condolences to that brother's soul who caught on fire.
