Hard On H0ES Movement. i need advice

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And to add on to that, the woman the OP described is not just moving on from a relationship and "sorting" out her feelings, she's trying to have her cake and eat it too, while the homie is actually really feeling her.

Yeup, she's running game that's above his level and she recognizes that. She sees an opportunity to grab a simp side nikka to pay for stuff and cuddle with
:mjlol::mjlol:
I hope OP doesn't fall for that but this 2015 "it ain't trickin if ya got it" generation fall for that okie doke every day
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Yeup, she's running game that's above his level and she recognizes that. She sees an opportunity to grab a simp side nikka to pay for stuff and cuddle with
:mjlol::mjlol:
I hope OP doesn't fall for that but this 2015 "it ain't trickin if ya got it" generation fall for that okie doke every day
:snoop:
I HOPE he keeps his wallet closed.
 

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Killer part ole girl might be the type later on to say why cant she find a good guy lol
 

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If u like her do it
She ain't doing nothing super crazy people hyping
Her relationship was basically over and she was plotting on the next move
Smash, be cool with her and see if u wanna take it to the next level
All these chicks got flaws u just gotta decide what ur willing to deal with
 

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So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.

So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. STOPPED READING HERE. YOU ARE A LOST CAUSE. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...

A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.

My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...

Let me guess, your mom raised you?
How old are you? Maybe its not too late...
If you are over 21, that bytch shyt is hardwired into you and would take more energy than I have to fix online. Just go on craigslist and suck dikk cause vagina is not for you.

If you are a kid/teen then you can still reprogram that kool-aid heart vegan bytch shyt before it gets locked down into your mindset... but it is still gonna take work.

First you need to educate yourself on exactly what you are, what you are doing, and how people see you when you act like a fukking doormat.

sup·pli·ca·tion
[ˌsəpliˈkāSHən]
NOUN
  1. the action of asking or begging for something earnestly or humbly:
    "he fell to his knees in supplication"
A) When you suplicate, you concede to have no power.
B) Unintelligent persons (most women) cannot differentiate between power and worth, or worth and value.

This proliferates the idea that you have no worth and no value to onlookers. Her, foremost.

Get some nuts.
Does she have a sister? start there. Do whatever it takes to fukk her sister. I dont care if you have to pay her. If she does not have a sister, fukk her mom.

You need to start setting precedence and providing consequence and rebuilding power. Not even for them, but you need to know and believe that these bytches had best be weary to cross you because you are in control.
 

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Let me guess, your mom raised you?
How old are you? Maybe its not too late...
If you are over 21, that bytch shyt is hardwired into you and would take more energy than I have to fix online. Just go on craigslist and suck dikk cause vagina is not for you.

If you are a kid/teen then you can still reprogram that kool-aid heart vegan bytch shyt before it gets locked down into your mindset... but it is still gonna take work.

First you need to educate yourself on exactly what you are, what you are doing, and how people see you when you act like a fukking doormat.

sup·pli·ca·tion
[ˌsəpliˈkāSHən]
NOUN
  1. the action of asking or begging for something earnestly or humbly:
    "he fell to his knees in supplication"
A) When you suplicate, you concede to have no power.
B) Unintelligent persons (most women) cannot differentiate between power and worth, or worth and value.

This proliferates the idea that you have no worth and no value to onlookers. Her, foremost.

Get some nuts.
Does she have a sister? start there. Do whatever it takes to fukk her sister. I dont care if you have to pay her. If she does not have a sister, fukk her mom.

You need to start setting precedence and providing consequence and rebuilding power. Not even for them, but you need to know and believe that these bytches had best be weary to cross you because you are in control.
Have a Bible verse quoted in ur sig then tell another child of God to fornicate with his girlfriend's sister or mother, brehs.
 

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Good gawd this should be common sense :francis:

And her telling you she wants to "take it slow" is her using reverse psychology to shyt on your innocence
 

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So These last 3 weeks I have been dating someone... and I today I just stopped and really thought about everything in perspective. About 2 months ago we were at a party. We met through mutual friends and we got off on the right foot. She started drinking and started going on about how she wanna marry her then ex boyfriend and have his kids. I was like cool I respect that... You must really have feelings for him. She's really into hip hop, so a convo started about the topic.... next thing you know she's on my lap and flirting with me. Me being the fool that I am, didn't make a move on her. I wanted to respect her THEN relationship.

So a few weeks pass by. I'm hanging out with my brother on the weekend and she calls me up at around 2 or 3 in the morning asking me if its cool if she could spend the night with me. Now we all I know at these hours this is booty calls galore... but me... having the lil crush i have on her... Tell her yes and bring her over. Long story short we just cuddled and kissed. She was dumb drunk too.. Again i didn't make no advances because she was still with her man... but at that point i didnt think HMMM she got a man but she laying next to another guy in bed on a saturday night? Stupid of me to not see her for what she is...

A couple weeks pass by and we begin to start dating. She fresh out of a 3 year relationship and is telling me to take it slow before she is ready for a relationship. Thing is... me and this chick vibe real hard.. Great chemistry with each other... And if anyine is into horoscope.. I am a Saggitarius and she is a Libra.

My coli fam I ask you... What should I do? Should I be a simp and wait for her to be emotionally and mentally ready for a new relationship? Or do I just hit it and quit...

Shes a crazy tease...leave that trick alone breh
 
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