My current job is entirely too overwhelming for me
Its getting to the point that Im forgetting to do daily tasks in the office.
Im doing 10,000 jobs a day
Being barked at on a daily basis and constantly bossed around.
Thing is, I cant quit because I need the fukking money.
If I do quit, I cant file for unemployment.
Its so hard to find a decent paying job nowadays.
Im in the legal field (work in a law firm) btw.
Can anyone offer some good sound advice?
Most jobs rely on a formula. Once you have the structure worked out and apply your time constructively, it should be easy. Sounds like youre suffering with an unmanageable workload though. Your options are:
• Ask for help (as one poster said) it may seem obvious but many people let their pride take over and end up sabotaging their own performance. You can ask colleagues, management (if they seem decent, not one those soulless drones) even a friend with good common sense may help you view things from a different perspective.
• Plan your day/micromanage your time - extremely useful, severely underused. I would personally ask to be emailed/given tasks on my desk as soon as possible in order to prioritize. You may he spending the bulk of your time on difficult tasks which arent as important as the simpler ones neglected.
• Delegate - got any unemployed friends or relatives? Or someone employed looking to make an extra few bucks? Tell them about your difficult position, teach them how to help, offer payment/commission. (If you can afford it)
• use your exp and apply for a similar/better job - a lot of the time you are responsible for how you are treated. Letting management etc get away with condescending tones, aggression or taking advantage of your inability to say no will only lead to major problems when you finally learn how to or are forced to say it. Grind until the next opportunity, start fresh, know your job role and make sure you stick to it, with added responsibilities being taken on once you are through your base tasks. It costs a lot to hire and fire, most employers arent looking for yes people, but that doesnt mean theyll hold their cool once their lackey develops some self respect.
Good luck with your situation.