Has anyone ever felt disconnected from humanity/society?

[HoloGraphic]

That helps a lot. I enjoy human interactions, but I am not a major people person. I am not anti social and I know how to interact with public but I enjoy my peace. People also have to be more careful about who they choose to hang around. I have many acquaintances, but I have 1 person outside of m family that I would call my friend. I am close to my sisters and that's good enough for me. If there is a local community college you can take up some enrichment classes (photography, drawing, writing, and etc). Like minded people tend to hang around the same places. I avoid the club hopping popping bottle types. No disrespect to them, but it is not my scene.

That's all well and good. But do you know how many people are thinking the EXACT same thing? Who have the exact same problem?

How many people do you really see starting random conversations with random strangers? Not alot I bet.
It seems you guys want and expect others to be open and charsmatic and happy and upbeat. Those people are few and far between, and if you don't know anyone like that, its time to become someone like that.

And how do you get there? By living and working for an enriching life. And what does it look like on the other side of that fence?
You see alot of people, Like I see you. And you GIVE to them. You listen to them, try to find out more about them, they open up, and you talk to them.

Like when I made the commitment to myself. To be alone, to work on myself. I feel "disconnected" too, but I also enjoy the fact that I can go to Starbucks and see lots of other people enjoying themselves or the company of their friends while I'm here typing up a storm on the Coli.

That's life. That's being "social" just enjoying the vibe of a room. It doesn't need to be your scene. But if you can just observe other people being happy, that's already so attractive to people. That opens YOU up in the way that people enjoy YOUR vibe and your a step closer to "bumping" into someone, saying some random line, and boom, your talking!

Friends? Aquintances? Attachments? Pffft, who cares? Just keep going. Life is YOUR journey. Life is about YOU!!
As long as YOUR having fun...OR AT LEAST NOT SUFFERING. YOUR DOING GREAT!!
WELCOME TO THE FIRST WORLD!!!

 

[HoloGraphic]

I have all my life

I think it's because I may be an Indigo Adult
Always felt I was an alien watching humans

https://indigolifecenter.wordpress.com/are-you-an-indigo-adult/

Alot of the generation is one the wave. It's the age of aquarius.

Its alot of old breaking down and becoming the new. So alot of us are trailblazers and dont even know it.

Guys. WE MAKE THE RULES NOW.

ITS OUR WORLD AND WE LIVE IN IT.

Most of our parents lives, and that of our lives when we were younger we've had the tv and the media dictate to us what life is. Now we have the internet, and memes. Everyday is something new. Life is fireworks!!

fukk, JUST LAUGH AT YOURSELVES.

Your not @Indica struggling and starving (god bless that soul) But even that kid is happier than most of you.

fukk man, don't you guys enjoy being ALIVE? always worrying about boohoo, I don't connect to others. Go slam a hooker and go for a JOG!!

Life is to grand to be not living. And that's the only thing that should be depressing you, not living. Go out. and find a place to people watch. It's crazy. Go to your local starbucks, pick up a book, sit there and read. You know what happens? You become a painting! Your a part of the atmosphere. You are a part of someones day. Cause now someone saw you enjoying your life, just living and that adds to theirs. Your comfort, your freedom adds too and allows others to be comfortable and free.
I highly suggest you find/pick up/download the book FINITE AND INFINITE GAMES.

Fyck man, you guys should be reading and adding to yourselves everyday. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT if you don't Read, Go outside and enjoy a cup of tea everyday.Ughhhhhhhhh

Restaurants do better when they have people sitting in their windows, it attracts more patrons. Do that. Go eat somewhere new. Sit there and when someone else comes in and orders something, ask them how they like the food. Ta Da!! Now your THAT GUY.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I have all my life

I think it's because I may be an Indigo Adult
Always felt I was an alien watching humans

https://indigolifecenter.wordpress.com/are-you-an-indigo-adult/

Here is your next red pill.

www.kryon.com

http://www.kryon.com/freeAudio_folder/2015_freeAudio.html

 

[HoloGraphic]

@*L*E*G*A*C*Y* @TheRestOfYouDepressedFukkz (AllLoveTho)

 

[Shadow King]

All the time. ESPECIALLY my age group.

 

[Krazy]

Yep.
I spend way too much time on the Internet, hard to snap out of it.

 

[TheBeigeBomber]

Alot of the generation is one the wave. It's the age of aquarius.

Its alot of old breaking down and becoming the new. So alot of us are trailblazers and dont even know it.

Guys. WE MAKE THE RULES NOW.

ITS OUR WORLD AND WE LIVE IN IT.

Most of our parents lives, and that of our lives when we were younger we've had the tv and the media dictate to us what life is. Now we have the internet, and memes. Everyday is something new. Life is fireworks!!

fukk, JUST LAUGH AT YOURSELVES.

Your not @Indica struggling and starving (god bless that soul) But even that kid is happier than most of you.

fukk man, don't you guys enjoy being ALIVE? always worrying about boohoo, I don't connect to others. Go slam a hooker and go for a JOG!!

Life is to grand to be not living. And that's the only thing that should be depressing you, not living. Go out. and find a place to people watch. It's crazy. Go to your local starbucks, pick up a book, sit there and read. You know what happens? You become a painting! Your a part of the atmosphere. You are a part of someones day. Cause now someone saw you enjoying your life, just living and that adds to theirs. Your comfort, your freedom adds too and allows others to be comfortable and free.
I highly suggest you find/pick up/download the book FINITE AND INFINITE GAMES.

Fyck man, you guys should be reading and adding to yourselves everyday. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT if you don't Read, Go outside and enjoy a cup of tea everyday.Ughhhhhhhhh

Restaurants do better when they have people sitting in their windows, it attracts more patrons. Do that. Go eat somewhere new. Sit there and when someone else comes in and orders something, ask them how they like the food. Ta Da!! Now your THAT GUY.

despite my troubles i feel WAAAAAAAAAAY UP I FEEL BLESSED



im loving this weather for once in the uk. finally got some sun and heat. been out running every day despite lack of food. i feel alive in the struggle

 

[Kid McNamara]

Watch this......



.....then go read this.....

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I wonder why all of these "introverts" end up writing long ass angst filled soliloquies about how misunderstood they are and how they feel no connection to society. Essentially blaming everyone else for their inability to connect with others.

Unwarranted self-importance is real out here. Do y'all really believe you're that special, that you're that different from everyone else?

You've never accomplished anything, you like the same things that millions of others like, stop being a narcissistic prick and find common ground with people.

 

[Couth]

You're too self centered. You don't matter that much and there is like a million other dudes exactly like you.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Do you attend events in your city or gatherings? I have many acquaintances but a few people that I would call my friend. I personally think that something that helps is to stop expecting people to be true to you, have the same exact points as you, or put them on a pedestal. That way when people do things that really turns you off you do not subconsciously hold a grudge. You can also try picking up a hobby and meet up with people that share your hobby. I'm currently taking a creative writing class to become a better writer and I've met some cool people. One of them I currently hang with. I'm thinking of taking up an introduction to sewing class next summer.

I'd like to. I want to get into jewelry making, and study up on business stuff.
I think it's partically the fact that I don't get along at my job and the other people I meet seem fake or busy. I know I need to be more proactive and actually ask people if they want to hang out instead of waiting for something to happen lol.

 

[ClevelandSteamer]

dude you are about to be on gay ass mtv2, shut the hell up man... nobody cares, life sucks, deal with it bro... we are all in this doo doo crap, complaining everyday aint gonna do shyt...

be grateful and enjoy what you have bro, what's the problem?

 

[OD-MELA]

edit: i dont want a suicide on my conscience

 

[agnosticlady]

I'd like to. I want to get into jewelry making, and study up on business stuff.
I think it's partically the fact that I don't get along at my job and the other people I meet seem fake or busy. I know I need to be more proactive and actually ask people if they want to hang out instead of waiting for something to happen lol.

If you have a community college near your location then check to see if they have enrichment and recreational classes so that you can learn something new and develop a hobby. Having a hobby can be very helpful, because it gives you that balance especially if it is healthy. I want to get into making dollhouses making and sewing. I like the challenge of a new project. I'm very busy though, but I am trying to make time for my interest. Check out this video


I'd like to be able to create something like that, and get into sewing clothes. Surely there are some business clubs and events going on in your city. If you put yourself out there you can definitely meet people that are worth keeping around.

 

[ugksam]

lmao @ how many losers wanna pretend like they are "introverts" naw you're depressed, that feeling you get about not liking other people and not wanting to be around them, thats depression, and you lack social skills that make communicating in real life easy because you spend too much time only communicating online, the only way to fix this problem is to go out more and talk to more people

 

[TheBeigeBomber]

lmao @ how many losers wanna pretend like they are "introverts" naw you're depressed, that feeling you get about not liking other people and not wanting to be around them, thats depression, and you lack social skills that make communicating in real life easy because you spend too much time only communicating online, the only way to fix this problem is to go out more and talk to more people

intorverts are fine socially and they are happy to be by themselves. fake internet introverts are using it as a copout. real introverts dont complain about being by themselves.